What do you do with a guy that has no game?

[Anonymous]

Like this guy is handsome and seems confident. But seems to just always drop the ball. And when you come to him he freezes. Then after colecting himself he comes to you.. but then again. You look at him and smile. And he bolts outta there.

please give me tips on how do i get him

[bizzz]

He may have confidence but something throws him off. Try getting both of you alone with eachother with less people watching or any pressure. He may just be publicly shy or inexperienced. Just be patient and make the environment easy for him so he can be himself

[Anonymous]

Take some initiative, ask him out, maybe he is confident with others, but he likes you a lot, so he becomes shy when you are near him.

[Asker]

I asked if he wanted to sit next to me in class and he just walked away. But then after school he walked up to me suddenly like really quickly it startled me. But i responded like "ooh hey" before i could say anything else he ran away. Literally ran.

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm, he must be very shy...

[Asker]

so should i just wait him out until he is gains his confedince to coke talk to me again?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I think you should be determined, ask him on a date.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO

[LoveJones1]

Be patient with him and understanding, because not all have relationship or you say "game" experience down packed..

[Asker]

I just dont want to be too pushy. Because when i go to him.. he is like un prepared of how to answer. I guess best i can do is when he looks at me just be smiley and wave

[LoveJones1]

Well in this case i would hate to say is act like he isn't there cause obviously when u acknowledge him he wants to flee everytime.. so stop acknowledging him and see if that would help cause tbh he just dont knw that he's ignoring you by running away leaving you startled.. so try ignoring him then he'll wonder why is you're not acknowledging him.. this could be a little dangerous if u really like him but try it see if it helps

[Asker]

okay ill try that. thank you

[Anonymous]

Either you have his heart already, or he's taken/gay/doesn't like you.

If it's the former, then try approaching him when he's part of a group. Get him used to be being around you. Hopefully he will feel more comfortable after a while. Even a generally confident guy can be thrown by a particularly attractive woman.

If it's the later, the means of winning him over could be anything (or impossible). There's a whole world of possibilities.

[AlwaysBelieving]

He probably over thinks things and are worried what other people would think. For instance if you're hot and HE thinks that he's "just him" (even though you think he's handsome). Approach him like you were hunting him.

[steveguitar]

Game is nothing, tell the guy you like him, guys shouldn't have to solve riddles and solve mysterious games to get you, when YOU like him.

[serious]

Looks like he gets shy around you otherwise he remains confident.

[Fearless_banana]

Sounds like he might be blue anon.

[Anonymous]

I'm like this myself

[Asker]

how do you want a girl to act around you then?
would you rather her keep coming up to you. or should she wait until you go to her?

[Opinion Owner]

Well I would never approach her