Is this the male version of a " come hither" look from guys?

[Lioness]

this guy kinda squints his eyes and does this grin at me when he walks by with his head turned. What does this look mean from a guy?

[RexCatholicissimus]

I think he just has myopia, like myself. I can barely make out a girl's face from 15 feet away, so I tend to squint, naturally.

[Lioness]

He's like 2-3 feet away

[RexCatholicissimus]

I don't think you appreciate how bad his myopia might be.

[Lioness]

Maybe this can work in my favor 🤔

[RexCatholicissimus]

Perhaps. Just make sure the police don't find out once you're finished.

[Lioness]

😎 I don't think we are on the same page here

[MasterofYou]

Confidence, swagger, sure of himself,,, like the Cheshire cat,,, you know...

[Lioness]

Haha confident in his sexual abilities, or that I'm interested in him or both?

[MasterofYou]

Ohhhh Yessss both... let me put it this way about such dominant men..

- A dominant man will be very interested in you, and not just your sexual needs (though they will certainly get his attention). He will see you as a puzzle, and desire to make sense of that puzzle. The dominant guy loves challenge and that in essence is why so many submissives find disillusion in the vanilla world; most men do not seek challenge in sensuality, they fear it. Submissive women are the most challenging of lovers for they have great fantasy. Their fantasies often require a man to move far outside normal gestures requiring both skill and creativity. How you think about a myriad of criterion will be of great interest to him.

Of coarse I'm not saying you are submissive maybe half way...

[Lioness]

Interesting... When you say a dominant man will be interested in me, do u mean I'm the type of lady a dominant guy sees as a challenge and wants to "conquer " is that why he is having me chase him... Kinda bending to his will in a way? I'm not submissive nor dominant I think u are right I'm in the middle because I can be both at various times. I think I do a lot of the opposite from what he expects and I'm kinda alpha in my own way haha. He has Leo Mars and I have Leo Venus so we prob just strut around each other all day 😂

[MasterofYou]

The closest i can category you would be alpha submissive but then maybe a little more to the dominate side of center... I'm pretty right on classifying you that way... You are a dominate man's challenge...

[Lioness]

Haha he has been "roaring" a lot lately at work... His desk is now closer to where I sit in another room but everyone hears him always whistling, jingling keys, making comments, singing... It's like he just wants attention. He came over sat by me yesterday before closing and was talking about where his wrist was operated on, he said " if you feel this it's weird" which I think was an invitation to touch him? But I didn't. You mean challenge him like that?

[MasterofYou]

I mean you are his challenge you are his goal...

[Lioness]

His goal for what?

[MasterofYou]

Capture... He wants you.. playing for your heart... He is the spider you are the fly... But he is having fun toying with you...

[Lioness]

Hmm how u know he wants my heart and not just dominate me sexually?

[MasterofYou]

Dominate men are not just sexual creatures although it is in there blood they look for the one that they want the most and when they find that one they generally stay and love the one they choose... If he is still on the persuit then I'm almost sure it is something serious..

[Lioness]

I see... Well I dunno I mean he teases me/ throws things at me and gives me smirky looks as he walks by are these alpha male flirting tactics? Also, I wore a skirt today and he's all like "she's got legs" should I playfully ignore a bit or engage more?

[MasterofYou]

Some are some are some boyish playful tactics... I think you are sort of enjoying it a little...

[Lioness]

Yes that's what got my initial attention and then when he made a comment about me seeing a new man and how I deserved better... It got me thinking and I stared looking at him as a prospect to date.., damn he's good lol. But yeah I'm pretty playful so I like that. And banter 😊

[Lioness]

@MasterofYou do you think I should act more alpha or more submissive with this guy?

[MasterofYou]

Hmmm that is a tough one maybe a little of both or just keep up with the way you are just be yourself...

[Lioness]

@MasterofYou we had our first date🤗

[MasterofYou]

How did your first date go?

[Lioness]

I'm a bit conflicted... We met at a bar and we had good banter, some personal stuff and he put his arm around the back of my chair and at one point tried to tickle my knee lol... He insisted ordering me an appetizer even though I wasn't hungry and he paid everything. He said he got there a bit earlier then me to have a few beers before I got there, was he nervous? 🤔

[Lioness]

So then we walked over to the movie theatre.. He insisted paying and he bought me a drink and asked if I wanted popcorn like a few times even though I say no... he didn't make a I moved on me in the theatre so after about 15mns linked arms and rested my head on his shoulder... He put his hand in my knee and his head on my head. Movie sucked but I enjoyed myself 😊 After he walked to my car and he said he "had a good time" we kissed good bye but I think I was trying to make it more passionate and he was kinda pulling back a bit so maybe cuz it was soo late or he just trying to take things slow? He text me again he had good time and let him know when I got home.

[Lioness]

So what do u think? @MasterofYou?

[MasterofYou]

Hmmm don't know but I think you are right he may be taking it slow and he was a gentleman the whole time... If you made the kiss mor passionate to me I would have taken advantage of that... Have you had anymore interactions

[MasterofYou]

with him?

[Lioness]

Well my instinct is telling me the other girl has a hold on him I think so maybe that's why he pulled back? Like he feels guilty and/ or confused? Maybe I'm more into him then he is into me?

[Lioness]

No contact since... He is working and it's my day off. He's not too big on texting so I'm not surprised. I dunno I'm a bit confused what his intentions are🤔

[Lioness]

@MasterofYou should I be concerned he hasn't reached out to me?

[MasterofYou]

a little more submissive... be playful see what happens...

[Lioness]

@MasterofYou are u saying I should be more submissive?

[Lioness]

@MasterofYou I decided to back away as I'm not getting anything back from chasing him... I feel this is best. That's what I told him, and no reply 😕

[FantasyGeek05]

Do it back to him and see how he reacts
However he reacts should determine what it means or how you're supposed to react

[Anonymous]

If a guy is grinning at you, then he likes you - unless he's a deceitful bastard.

[AlwaysBelieving]

It can depending on the guy.

[Lioness]

This guy is a jokester, always making noises... But I only notice that look with me

[FemWorship]

YES it is