Should I tell my crush I like her? (Page 2)
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Follow your gut, seems lIke you have a burning desire to. It's hot to be inbetween 2 guys but more hot when you're with the guy you actually like. Honesty is great, not a sign of weakness. It's not stealing if she makes the choice to leave. You're not tying her up in the trunk of your car, hun ;)
I think you should wait it out, get closer to her if you tell her you like her too early and she doesn't like you or doesn't feel like she knows you well enough she will just push you away to the point where you can't fix it, I know because I've done that to people and I feel bad but when someone I don't like likes me, I don't want to do anything to lead them on so it eventually leads to just separating completely,,, anyways if she does like you she will eventually show signs like flirting but again I think you should wait it out because of the boyfriend thing even though it sounds like she doesn't like her boyfriend anymore all relationships started off with something and it will take a while for it to go away
Not okay to date a girl that's already dating. If she doesn't like him it's up to her to bite the bullet and break up with him, otherwise she could just be talking crap to look big in front of her friends. Besides if she's willing to cheat/jump into another relationship, there's every chance she could do the same to you if you got together and things took a turn. Wait it out.
I would leave her alone all together. Why is she even with her boyfriend if she feels that way. Playful/flirting will lead to other things and so on. So let's say you and her get together and she does the same with some other girl. If she was woman enough, she's just tell her boyfriend how she really feels. Someone that's just in a relationship to say they have someone... I wouldn't waste my time with them.
she has a boyfriend; leave her alone (for now).
if she breaks up with him, then make your move. but not before you keep being the supportive, helpful, reliable friend you've always been (you don't want her thinking that you're taking advantage of her).
If you willingly try to mess up a relationship, even if its supposedly "falling apart" or "so-and-so doesn't love him" its truly in bad taste. Would you like someone attempting to take your girlfriend away from you? Wait it out if you really care, or move on.
Ok, that is article is terrible advice. You never admit feelings to someone who is already in a relationship. Don't be a girlfriend steeler and don't meddle in someone's relationship. Respect she is dating someone else and keep your mouth shut. The status of their relationship is none of your business, so just because so and so said they are on the rocks, doesn't give you justification to pry yourself in there like a weasel.
As long her on a date before confessing feelings is my advice. If you ask we on a date and she declines you have your answer without the awkward heart pouring.
If she says yes to the date admit during the date to the crush. Keep it casual ina sense but let her know you intent is to build to a relationship.
I believe you should. It's worth a try, although she has a boyfriend. Maybe her knowing you like her might make her feel better and she where the true love is. The reason why she might not like her boyfriend is because she probably likes you and is afraid to ruin your guys friendship. But go and tell her.
Definitely wait it out mate because it's not right to tell this to her now. I mean do empathy you were the guy and a guy told him that. I should add that if you wait it out you will actually have more chance.
Hmmm... she has someone right now. This means she needs to decide first what she wants. Better wait and see what happens. It doesn't seem like a good idea to tell her you like her, at the moment. It might backfire on you. If you tell her prematurely, you don't want to end up tangled in a love triangle if she is indecisive between the two of you.
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Never straight up tell a girl you like her that's like showing everyone your cards in a poker game. Act interested but distant at the same time like you might consider kicking it with her if she started acting right but she's not the only girl in your life. If she breaks up with her boyfriend and starts flirting with you more make a move.
This. So much this.
You might get in trouble for telling her something like that. There's a chance she won't be receptive because she has a boyfriend (even if she doesn't like him), and if he hears that, you're probably getting ya ass whooped. Don't try and be Don Juan and save her from a relationship she doesn't enjoy anymore, it probably won't end up the way you imagined it would.
Yes, you should tell her. Otherwise she will never know. You say you've been flirting and you know each other, that's a big progress. I've heard of many guys declare their love suddenly and succeed. Good luck, I hope you'll get her!
She has been very touchy feely with me recently. So ill talk to her, see whats going on
Yes, don't hesitate to tell her!
Yes, you may as well. You don't lose anything if nothing happens. I don't know how many times I've wished that a guy would just tell me he liked me rather than be shy. Even if he wasn't my type or whatever, I'd appreciate his guts.
I said no, since she has a boyfriend, but actually, you should wait until she ends with her boyfriend. If she doesn't, and she's truly claiming she doesn't love him, I think it proves a huge thing about her as a person.
I'd tell her since you'll probably regret it if you don't. Just keep in mind she may reject you since she has a boyfriend but if she's not in love with him there is always the chance she will leave him for you. Just don't end up being the side guy
Don't you worry that she may be in a relationship and say the same about you as she does with her current boyfriend? she is disrespectful of her own relationship. she should end things first before you make a move.
Yes. Tell her how you feel, but let her know that you don't expect anything from her and just need to get it off your chest.
If she likes you as well, she will bring it up at some point during/after. If not, you can both move on.
Wait it out.
If she is going to break up with her boyfriend, let it be on her own terms, not because of you.
But be careful, if she does break up with him and you confess to her early on, you might end up becoming her rebound.