Don't be a homewrecker, even if she has admitted her distaste for her partner. The best thing you can do is be with a girl who wouldn't tell everyone that and would break up with her partner maturely, I hope that makes sense.
Honestly as a man you should absolutely pursue the girl your interested in.. but in this case I feel like if this girl feels the same way about you.. she would have ended things with her boyfriend don't u think? Why be with someone you don't love? Be careful with who u give ur heart to.. goodluck!
Ordinarily, I'd say tell her but She has a boyfriend. And tells everyone she doesn't love him? Wtf? U should ask her about that before telling her you like her.
My personal opinion is to never mess with a taken girl or guy. It's a potentially really messy situation you'd be walking into. Proceed with patience and caution.
I mean, right off the bat, someone in that relationship is dumb af. If its the guy, she's just stringing him along and you really wanna be with a girl like that? If its the girl, you really wanna be with a girl like that?
I say wait it out. She is in a relationship even if she doesn't love him. If you go to her and tell her you like her the most probable thing to happen is you two sneaking around for a few weeks and she leaving you to be with her boyfriend. Also remember whatever she can do to her current boyfriend she can do to you and probably will.
You should definitely tell her but after she got rid of her boyfriend. Otherwise it might start a fight between the two of you and that's most certainly not what you want.
No, just wait. If she's saying this, she should just break up with him, so obviously she still likes him. She's still in a relationship with the guy so respect it, until she breaks up with him.
I'd say to wait it out but if you need to tell her go ahead I guess, if she indeed still feels some type of way towards her boyfriend it won't really matter.
Yep. Do it. You'll regret it if you don't and miss out on the potential for something great. Even if you get rejected you have your answer and can move on from there.
She has a boyfriend? Then you back off. You trying to go after her is a clear sign you don't value relationship boundaries, and if she does go for it there's no guarantee that she won't do this with another guy if you get together.
from my experience if you're friends with her tell her how you feel but say you also love being her friend. that way if she says no its not awkward af, and if she does say no she still has that information next time she's single ;).
Tbh, I've never been in that situation. I've heard that it's important not to touch her when you tell her and not in a flirtatious way, but I'm just passing on second-hand advice that wasn't directed toward me personally. If it were me, I think I would be glad if he just said it but would be offended if he was trying to flirt with me. Of course, it really depends on whether or not she likes you, but all she can do is reject you.
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Don't be a homewrecker, even if she has admitted her distaste for her partner. The best thing you can do is be with a girl who wouldn't tell everyone that and would break up with her partner maturely, I hope that makes sense.
Honestly as a man you should absolutely pursue the girl your interested in.. but in this case I feel like if this girl feels the same way about you.. she would have ended things with her boyfriend don't u think? Why be with someone you don't love? Be careful with who u give ur heart to.. goodluck!
Ordinarily, I'd say tell her but She has a boyfriend. And tells everyone she doesn't love him? Wtf? U should ask her about that before telling her you like her.
My personal opinion is to never mess with a taken girl or guy. It's a potentially really messy situation you'd be walking into. Proceed with patience and caution.
Tell her. Live in the moment and take risks that are worth taking. Don't live to regret later. Do it man!! Good luck sweetie!!
She's with a guy that she claims she doesn't love and never has? Then why is she with him?
I mean, right off the bat, someone in that relationship is dumb af. If its the guy, she's just stringing him along and you really wanna be with a girl like that? If its the girl, you really wanna be with a girl like that?
I gotta go with her on this.
@Izumiblu the other replies on this thread got me like
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forreal tho.
I say wait it out. She is in a relationship even if she doesn't love him. If you go to her and tell her you like her the most probable thing to happen is you two sneaking around for a few weeks and she leaving you to be with her boyfriend. Also remember whatever she can do to her current boyfriend she can do to you and probably will.
You should definitely tell her but after she got rid of her boyfriend. Otherwise it might start a fight between the two of you and that's most certainly not what you want.
Then give her a chance to recover first but make sure she doesn't find comfort in another guy. You should comfort her!
No, just wait.
If she's saying this, she should just break up with him, so obviously she still likes him.
She's still in a relationship with the guy so respect it, until she breaks up with him.
I'd say to wait it out but if you need to tell her go ahead I guess, if she indeed still feels some type of way towards her boyfriend it won't really matter.
Yep. Do it. You'll regret it if you don't and miss out on the potential for something great. Even if you get rejected you have your answer and can move on from there.
Wait, I retract that as I admittedly skimmed:
She has a boyfriend? Then you back off. You trying to go after her is a clear sign you don't value relationship boundaries, and if she does go for it there's no guarantee that she won't do this with another guy if you get together.
If she has a boyfriend, then there is nothing to be done about it.
I mean think about it: If you manage to make them break up, then someone else will manage to make you both break up too!
Leave it be and find another crush.
If she's willing to leave him for you then she'll be willing to leave you for someone else
she should break up with her boyfriend 1st. why should she be dragging it on? I say you should but you don't want to be the rebound
exactly this ^. Make sure she's over him before you start something. Being the rebound sucks!
Does she have to over him before a move is made to escalate?
from my experience if you're friends with her tell her how you feel but say you also love being her friend. that way if she says no its not awkward af, and if she does say no she still has that information next time she's single ;).
You don't have anything to lose just tell her before someone else takes her. Then all you would remember is you not trying.
Do it, she Dosent love her boyfriend and could just be waiting for a sign to break up with him!!! Do it now
I think you should tell her but not actually try to "steal" her.
How would you suggest i do this? How would you react if a guy told you how he felt if you were in a relationship?
Tbh, I've never been in that situation. I've heard that it's important not to touch her when you tell her and not in a flirtatious way, but I'm just passing on second-hand advice that wasn't directed toward me personally. If it were me, I think I would be glad if he just said it but would be offended if he was trying to flirt with me. Of course, it really depends on whether or not she likes you, but all she can do is reject you.
she's single now
I accidently pressed no, wait until the breakup and dnt a homewrecker. Once they break up then you can make a move
Kind of odd for her to remain with a boyfriend whom she does not love. What are the guarantees that she won't treat you in a similar way?