Good flirting move? Or am I dumb?

[Anonymous]

Texted her hey first an hour before she responded hey. Your thoughts?

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So a few days have gone by of her not responding and she told me yesterday "You're not someone I feel like interacting with after that shit you pulled"... yay me! I apologized for acting that way and she said it wasn't cool or funny. I told her I fucked up and that I was sorry again. Any advice on this? Lol

[north2south]

You didn't really give her much to respond to by just saying "cool" you could've said something like "me neither. But I'm really looking forward to the summer. Got any cool concerts you're going to?" Or something like that so it opens up the conversation

[Asker]

It's about effort. I don't wanna keep putting in effort with this girl if it's not reciprocated lol there's more too this than meets the eye

[north2south]

So... why'd you say hi to her in the first place?

[Asker]

Because I wanted to talk to her initially bc I was thinking about her and it took an hour to respond so my patience wained

[north2south]

An hour? That's not bad. People got shit to do, man. Maybe she was taking a nap or doing laundry or driving or at work or out having lunch with friends or just watching tv and charging her phone. If you expect people to respond to every text in less than an hour you need to lower your standards

[Asker]

I feel that. I'm also busy. I don't know I guess I just got frustrated. Happens to the best of us

[Jenna422]

wtf? why did you do that?

you need some substance when you talk to her if you like her. being attractive to her is not enough... but her saying sit your attractive ass back down is a good sign... so sit the fk down & have a REAL conversation!!

[Asker]

I said that

[feligatr]

Get your adjectives in the correct order. It read like someone was claiming the other had an attractive attitude!

[brenda2297]

You ruined it by saying "What's up" 😂 If you liked her you would have said something more interesting, like "Hey, how are you today? 😊" Show that you want to know more.. not some simple phrase everyone uses with any friend or stranger.

[Asker]

Isn't that effort tho? Just trying hookup and not end up in the Friendzone lol

[science69]

I'm assuming she is the one who said "hey." I don't know what to tell you since saying what's up isn't a bad response and she just replied with not much, as if she doesn't want to talk even tho she hit you up. I would just forget it, she makes no sense

[Asker]

I said hey first tho

[science69]

Okay I get it. You should have said something more instead of just cool. Ask her how her such and such went or try to get her to laugh, to think you're cool/fun, which can be hard to do over text. Generally when a girl's just says "not much" she's not interested but it never hurts to try

[Asker]

Facts

[MrVercetti]

Your game is soooooooooo WEAK! lol
ask if she wants to do something or how her day was. Your thirsty ass is very noticeable.

[Asker]

I was gonna ask how her day was but she'll respond with one word or something. I don't know but today I don't really care

[midnightcavern01]

I think you were too forward. you didn't build it up before becoming like that

[Asker]

SOS: Need help being less forward

[Ark1999]

say that in real life... president will send u to Lame-istan

[Asker]

Vote Donald Trump!

[north2south]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥OP got roasted

[Ark1999]

OP? whats that?

[north2south]

Original poster, the anon

[Asker]

True

[RealandGenuine1991]

your attempt to flirt game needs lots of work 😂

[Asker]

SOS lol

[EmpatheticLady]

That's, uh... that needs work, hah.

[Asker]

SOS please help lol

[undevide]

Bro you are absolutely horrible at it...

[Asker]

Facts

[bunanababa]

hahaha sorry but it's too painful to see

[Asker]

😞😞😞😞

[bunanababa]

aww hun gotta practice more

[Asker]

SOS: Need practice

[Asker]

Lmaooo sad but true

[bunanababa]

you'll get there hopefully soon

[Asker]

Hopefully 🙏🏽

[bunanababa]

yup! good luck!

[Anonymous]

What the hell did I just read, I'm not sure.

[Asker]

A text convo

[Opinion Owner]

A weird one..

[Asker]

Facts

[babypinkgod]

Stay off twitter love 😂

[Asker]

😂😂😂 how'd you know?

[babypinkgod]

cause it looks like some shit I'd pass by on twitter 😂😂😂😂 half the shit posted on twitter is mad dumb n fake

[Asker]

True haha that's an actual convo tho but I got the ideas from twitter

[feligatr]

Get more creative!

[Asker]

Facts

[Galvin]

lame

[Asker]

She got pissed and said "excuse me? Who the fuck do you think you are?" 😂

[Galvin]

yeah bro girls dont find that funny haha

[Asker]

Yeah well fuck my life

[Asker]

How should I respond? Lololol

[feligatr]

"Your future boyfriend," should be your response!

[Asker]

Nah haha im not trying to date this girl

[Deudrian]

:))
Lool

[Asker]

😩😩😩