I had sex with my boyfriend's step dad. I couldn't bring myself to tell him. Do I have to tell him?

[Anonymous]

[Aurellius]

The choice to tell him or not to tell him is ultimately up to you. However you may wind up being put between a rock and a hard place (no pun intended). Every time you see your boyfriend you'll more than likely be reminded of the guilt.

Another potential problem is that the step father may attempt to initiate another romantic encounter. The allure and temptation of a taboo relationship can be often hard to ignore. Moreover the step father could use this to coerce you into more romantic encounters behind his stepsons back. He honestly should know better and that he did this behind his steps sons back makes him a piece of work. This will most likely cause drama with in the family at a later date.

Should either situation come to pass the risk of your boyfriend finding out begins to escalate. Should the worse come to pass the impact on your boyfriend will be significantly greater. More or less the damage has already been done, there's no point in defusing a bomb that's already gone off.

At this stage all you can really do is try to limit the damage. Given that his stepfather did go behind his step sons back and cheated with you, it may be wise to end the relationship to avoid any further damage.

Please keep in mind that i am human and fallible and much of this is conjecture, take it with a grain of salt. I wish you luck, you're going to need it.

[DanielleinaD]

-If you tell him, he'll perhaps forgive you, but NEVER like ever trust you entirely.
-If you don't, you will NEVER feel clean... So it's a Lose-Lose situation. You fucked up badly and that's about it.

Tip: If you care about his relationship with his stepasshole, then skip that part. Just admit you cheated with a complete stranger...

[candicelynn]

if your boyfriend had sex with your mom, sister, aunt or cousin... would you want him to tell you or should he tell you? you're asking a question you already know the answer to hunnie...

[vonasaurus]

that's fucked up; tell your boyfriend, since you'll be doing him a favour by showing your true colours now instead of years down the road.

[novelita_21]

Girl, you are such a bad ass. Is the step dad that hot lol

[lord_chilled]

The amount of sluts on this site...

[TheSpartan]

Break up with him. Trust me; if you really care about him, then you'll realize he's better off without you. You need to deal with your problems of promiscuity first.

[ravedave]

You tell him, then you break up with him, because he deserves a whole hell of a lot better.

[DarkWalker]

tell him. you will never have piece of ya don't. but to be honest, end of relationship.

[Anonymous]

I think he deserves to know about who his stepdad really is, but I don't think he deserves the humiliation it may bring. You should find a way to tell him and give him the option to leave you.

[lord_chilled]

Everytime i think about how nice it would be to get in a relationship again, i see some shit like this... Smh

[Anonymous]

Why you did sex with his step dad?
Just asking to help you out.

[Anonymous]

You cheated on him. You're a piece of trash. He deserves better than you. If I ever found out my SO cheated on me it'd be BuhBye big time.
Skank.

[Paultaters]

in all fairness you can't decide whether he deserves better from this alone

[Opinion Owner]

True. He may be a piece of shit as well. And if that's the case neither of them deserve anybody.

[Anonymous]

hey while your at it... get pregnant by his step dad and then convince your boyfriend that its his and make him pay child support.

[lord_chilled]

Yeah i dont think they need the extra encouragement. They do it anyway

[niermix]

Yes, of course you do.

[RiderGirl]

That's hot AF!!!
Very naughty girl 😘😘😘

[Anonymous]

Bitch take that to the grave. Don't tell anyone.

[Paultaters]

this is your only viable option

[Opinion Owner]

@Paultaters yes. What you don't know, wouldn't hurt you.

[Paultaters]

I'm agreeing with you, that was directed to the asker lol

[Opinion Owner]

@Paultaters oh sorry. Thanks man ✌

[Nik1hil]

Make this MHO

it's a Sin that you need to live with,
There is no evidence it's better you hide and then forget it and deny it ever happened.
Or until your relationship ends

[jacquesvol]

Keep it your best hidden secret

[Jason7mge]

Why would you even contemplate telling him?

[Jason7mge]

The answer is no lol

[Kritish]

No. Call his brother, his son.

[BHBrooks]

Your secret is safe with me, i won't tell.

[Seppelson]

of course you had to tell him. you cheated in himb

[Anonymous]

Yes you have to tell him. And why? Just why?

[xeeshaun]

na never

[Anonymous]

Take that to the grave with you.

[Anonymous]

yeah tell him before he knows it by himself.