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Easy, mind your business and be hard to hang out with. Remember, you’re in college so school comes before dick. Don’t always make yourself available. And if he decides to not be interested, remember there are other dicks that are probably bigger than his on campus (but don’t hoe around).
“I'm okay with keeping things casual and taking things really slow, but he doesn't even casually text me once in awhile or even invite me to go out.”
Unfortunately, if he were into you, he’d be texting you or trying to contact you in some way. You need to move on. There’s no trick to get him to like you
Okay, so... "We ended up kissing and almost having sex, and then we cuddled" um that isn't "hooking up." Also, how to play hard to get? Well it's very simple really-- don't, because that's fucking dumb. If you want to have sex with him, then have sex with him. If you don't, then don't. He doesn't owe you a relationship or something if you do decide to do that. Either he likes you enough to stay with you, or he doesn't.
You've sunk your chances once you've had sex with him. Having sex before committing is always a terrible option because you either A. have a needy guy who will stay and be an annoyance and try to use you for sex and then just be non-assertive and pathetic. Or B. You have a non-needy guy who will just hook up a couple times and curve you once he's bored of sex with you (doesn't take long).
If a guy is interested, he's interested and will show it. You can't force water out of a rock. If you play hard to get, you'll just be even more out of his mind. If you continue to be an awesome, kickass person every time he sees you, he may realize you're someone actually worth being with, and that will work soo much more in your favor than playing games.
You have to give him some space, he may just see as as a friend or he may be a little slow on the fact that you are looking for a relationship. I would let him make the next move, if he does then you can be more aggressive. If he doesn't then you haven't wasted your time on something that was never going to be.
I would text him straight up and say you were hoping that you guys had a good connection, if not then tell him to let you know so you dont waste your time. Make it seem like you have other options. Tell him you're not into games of any sort. If he doesn't text back or dodges the question in anyway, wish him well and move on. Life's too short for mind games! Trust me, learnt the hard way! Best of luck!
Mind games that's about the worst thing that you can do in a relationship people fail miserably. Every time a girl has played mind games with me in a relationship the relationship has broken up because of that and I can't stand it and will never tolerate it playing hard to get
In my experience if guys say they don't want a relationship, believe them! In this case it sounds like he is a bit immature, probably best to find someone who wants the same things you do right now. Best to you!
If you put out without him needing to get to know you, you essentially have given up on your ability to keep him long term.
We only get to know you as a person as a means of trying to get sex. If you are willing to put out without effort, we know that you do this kind of thing more than with just us and we have no need or interest in keeping you long term.
You made the worst mistake. You turned him on for no reason and than left him in pain. At that age a man needs to blow his load not to be cuddled. His mom can do that. You are a waste of time teaser. Sorry to be blunt. It happened to me once and afterwards I was in physical pain from getting all horned up.
Having sex with any man has the risk of him dumping you afterwards. Take that risk if you really want to sleep with him, then you won’t feel bad if it happens because you wanted it just as much as he did. You don’t need to play hard to get or mind games to get a guy. If you have to - then he’s not the right guy for you. The right man will make you feel loved, and won’t turn you into a manipulative person. If a guy makes you feel like you need to keep him interested - run.
Never sleep with a guy you want to have as serious relationship until he is your boyfriend.
Otherwise you are more likely to win the lottery
It seems like he might be pursuing someone else... ask him his intentions maybe? Perhaps he has lost interest because you're too easy. For him it may be like been there done that...
I mean you could be direct and ask how he perceives what you two have going on. But as the others said, if a guy was interested in pursuing something more than a friends with benefits, he’ d probably make that a bit more obvious at this point.
With guys I have known playing hard to get is a deal-breaker and a good way to find yourself single for a very long time till you find a guy willing to play games. I know one very good looking woman that has been single for years due to this fact.
you keep a guy interested by NOT playing hard to get.
u can't play 'hard to get' after hooking up.
he already got what he wanted.
congratulations, u played urself.
The best thing you can do is stop reaching out to him and even be busy the next time he reaches out to hook up. You need a bit of a reset button here.
You can't be hard to get after you already gave him what should have been one of the last things you 2 should have done.