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Talking is nothing - talk all you want. In fact, date them all too, just don't bed them all.
Because we haven't promised to any of them that we're not gong to talk to other grls, obviously.
This is the most efficient way to date. Girls are so fickle with their interest that a guy must be efficient.
Because the guy knows that that all the girls won't go out with him and doesn't like him that's why he talks to a lot of girls at once and sometimes ONLY sometimes he wants to get a lot of girls as much as he can
Becsuse who is the girl to decide what is and isn't ok? 😝
In my understanding, some girls like the confidence it takes to do that.
I'm sure there's a lot of 40+ year old virgins who really respect women though, feel free to talk to those guys.
Women flake soooooooo easily, that if you only try one girl at a time you will never get anywhere unless you're lucky
Until a relationship is established, both are free to talk to others at their leisure. Flirting does not have to mean commitment.
If someone not committed with other one.. And doesn't have any problm with that.. Then it is normal.. And actualy in normal terms.. Yes it is normal..
If a guy is single, its just flirting and he is gauging the girls reactions to what he is saying and vice versa... it's a selection process.
Why do girls do it? Who the fuck knows. Some people are assholes i guess. Haha
Because women are b's and do the same once they see the other person gave in and have real feelings they through their heart to the dog and jump onto the next guy
I don't get it.
You mean while single? Why not? How is a guy supposed to get a girl?
because its nothing but talking... Jesus, women these days are paranoid as fuck
Probably because men have given us a reason to be
@carpediem93 I'm so sick of women making men the enemy. They're not. Just stop dating f*** boys.
@misstalia_95 Thank you!
@misstalia_95 well said... if women are going to "date" fuck boys then they deserve everything they get.
its perfectly normal and healthy to have friends of the opposite sex. However, when your relationship is so shit you can't trust your partner to talk to the opposite sex, perhaps its time to seriously think about whether its worth continuing or not.
@misstalia_95 @Giant_spider I never said there was anything wrong with guys talking to other women while in a relationship-- that's perfectly normal--pretty sure the question referred to flirting.
@carpediem93 well the question specifically refers to talking in a flirty manner. "I mean talk like flirting"
If its only talking then whats the big problem? In fact most people will subconsciously flirt when engaging with someone they find attractive. its natural and it doesn't mean you are going to cheat.
Of course there is a line when innocent verbal flirting becomes inappropriate... if you are blatantly telling the other person you want to sleep with them then yes, that is wrong.
I dont know, people just seem extremely insecure these days and get offended by the littlest things.
@Giant_spider Hmm I guess I misread the question. I can agree with what you're saying--as long as it doesn't cross any boundaries, it shouldn't be an issue in any healthy relationship.
It's good to have options, and it's not like you're secluding yourselves to just one guy... might as well cut the crap with the hypocrisy, no?
Because a guy can't put all his eggs in one basket. Girls are too flaky, he will be single until he's 50 if he does that.
Women do the same thing, not just guys. Besides, it helps you choose which girl has a better personality and sense of humor
Because we don't know if you're the right one. And it makes no sense to stick to just you if us guys are uncertain.
Flirting is like going to job interview.
You don't have the job yet. You're still seeing which ones pan out.
Because I like it.
Those poll options are sad lol, work on it next time
I've met more girls with that mindset than guys. I personally try to only pursue one gal at a time
Flirting while you aren't serious provided it's harmless is fine, but flirting while your exclusive is thin ice territory
the only women I talk to are long distance. And most of them are more interested in sex than anything romantic
Because it is okay?
Until you have a committment to one person, you can talk to as many women as you like.
This is also a two way street! No matter what a guy will try to tell you!
@Poppykate Wouldn't bother me, until there's a commitment, we're both "Free agents".
To see which one likes him then he will ignore the others
This is okay as long as he's not committed, This is like socializing, nothing wrong with it.
It easier for guys not to catch feelings like girls do. Guys are wired to like a bunch of women.
you're just dumb
i hope you stay single and never have kids
@2231238 i3hope I do too so I don't have to deal with people like you.
Something called friends. I have 5 friends that are girls.
Because in case one girl fails they want a backup plan to go to
its just instincts, theyre just looking for someone who they'd aprove :P
Because it increases their chances of hooking up with one of them, At least that's what they think.
Diversification. Investing all of your time and energy into one person can be wasteful.
Because it is? Why shouldn't he talk to more than one. & by the way, girls do this ALL THE TIME.
Because it is okay. If y'all aren't in a relationship, tgere doesn't have to be exclusivity.
Maybe because they don't think about serious relations with these girls 🤔
if you are not exclusive there is no obligation to talk to only 1 girl at a time.
For the same reasons many girls do the same.
Because there's nothing wrong with it. Duh...
PS - asking this question is a pretty sure sign of an entitled attitude. Big red flag.
You're right, there's nothing wrong with it as long as he's not in a relationship with a girl and they've agreed it's not okay. And I do understand why it comes off as entitled attitude, but it's not that black and white. Girls see the world a bit differently than guys. And there are a lot of girls that really don't understand why guys flirt with multiple girls. The reason is, she's interested in HIM and doesn't feel the need or interest to go and flirt with other guys, she wants to focus on him and doesn't see why he wouldn't want to focus on her and give it a shot, instead of just running around and giving attention to every girl around. The girl wants to feel that the guy wants HER and not just ANY GIRL. Just like she wants HIM and not just ANY GUY. If that makes any sense?
Gotta caste that wide net
cus they might not have a girlfriend
What is and is not flirting is open to opinion.
Gotta build that harem some way.
usually women don't like to lead conversation
Girls do it more
Because girls think it's okay to do the same
or maybe becuase the girls dont talk
To have a foursome.
cause they're being friendly
Because men are not as stingy as girls.
same reason women think it's ok
Why do women think it's okay to be a vagina?
Cause girls play games
Because its alright.
Gotta catch em all
fair is fair