From friends with benefits to GF?

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Hello Everyone,

i was wondering can a girl go from friends with benefits to a girlfriend? What could make the situation change?

Kisses

[0112358]

Yes, though it's rare.

Most often if a guy wants go make her a girlfriend, he does so directly. Occasionally some guys do 'promote' from friends with benefits to girlfriend, but in that scenario, most friends with benefits aren't what they'd consider girlfriend material.

Honestly you not being 'ready for a relationship but just sex' lowers the odds he'd date you now, but on the plus side, maybe he would have dated you then and still considers you girlfriend material.

Ask.

The longer you wait, the lower your chances.

[ThatgirlYouhate]

I won't ask him now cause he just broke up with his ex a month ago... but last weekend he told me that sexually he didn't find anyone better than me...
Would you turn a friends with benefits to girlfriend because of great sex?

[akadatank44]

Never going to happen he asked you to be that because that's what he wanted. If you want a relationship you should of said no and moved on and no not lie to yourself that you coukd handle that situation

[ThatgirlYouhate]

He didn't ask anything. He doesn't booty call me neither. It's always "hazard" srz like it wasn't planned but I that friends with benefits sex

[septemberangel118]

I did it. The feelings of the people involved are all that need to change. Deeper feelings developing can lead to a change in the status of a relationship.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Possibly, it depends on the guy and his interest in the girl. You never know unless you try, talk to themabout it and ask

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Ok I will

[SarahsSummer]

Of course, it happens all the time. The problems come when one person develops feelings while the other person has none.

[shahpranav]

its upto you, yiu should have that he won't leave you no matter what.
If you dont have that feeling than move on.

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Is amazing blowjob skills will make him stay? Lol

[Tomsta]

You ask him if he would want to take it further, sugegst something that's obviously a date

[ThatgirlYouhate]

How long should i wait before asking

[Tomsta]

Well i'd ask as soon as possible tbh, how long have you two been a FwB?

[ThatgirlYouhate]

We met each other in 2014 online but didn't met in real life. One year later I ask him out and it went perfectly, strong connection etc. At that time I didn't want no relationship cause I wasn't ready. I knew he was into me, we had sex 2 or 3 times, always great but I wasn't sure there was something more. Because 1) I never expressed any feelings cause i was scared of love tbh
2) everything was good this way
But something broke between us I guess for a year or so. But we were still seeing each other as friend cause we get along well. End of 2016 we ended up having sex cause damn we so attracted to each other and I never experienced that before. Few days later he was off the market but it ended up one month ago and now he's all over me. But I can't considerate anything else with but sex and at the same time I wanna try something cause we get along so well

[Tomsta]

Then suggest that you tyrying for something more serious but take it slow

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Have you already experienced the same situation?

[Tomsta]

Unfrotunatley i have not, i have had a friends with benefits situation and my friends told me she was into me but i didn't see ti but i adbide byt he rule of "If you like someone you tell them"

[lord_chilled]

Cuddling + sleepovers... Its hard to not catch feelings after you have been sleeping together for a while (the literal sleeping, not fucking).
At least for me, that is..

[NightOwl8801]

Every friends with benefits situation is different.
Some have moved past just having sex to having long term and loving relationships.
Just go with your gut instinct and search your feelings

[supblkman]

Just be honest about your feeling. if you want to stop being friends with benefits you need to let him know don't try to seduce him into it... tricks won't work only honesty, take it from someone who's been in that situation more then once.

[goaded]

I guess by telling him you don't want to be friends with benefits any more.

[musicluv]

just gotta hope she feels the same but in my expirence its usually one sided

[8inchcountryboy]

If you want it with him or her, go for it. life is to short for you to not go after what you want. I have 8 in my pants an I tried to get a girl before I met my wife to go from friends with benefits to my girl but she said she could do me on a daily basis. Does this happen for girls that they don't wanna take a man's penis cause it's to big or just the way the guy works it?

[Princeofanons]

It's always a possibility, but the chances of it working out is very unlikely tbh

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Why is that?

[Princeofanons]

I don't know.. just from the people who I know started the same

[Princeofanons]

And personal experience

[ThatgirlYouhate]

I would like to know your personal exp 😊

[Chanel1981]

Possible but not probable

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Whyy

[Chanel1981]

Usually, though not always, a friends with benefits will use you as a "filler" until someone they want to be in a relationship with comes along.

[ken718]

Most guys won't do it but your cute as hell I probably would lol

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Lmao 😂 Thank you

[NajemEddine]

why would him want that friends with benefits sex with no bs to deal with

[the_hutt_darth]

well... anything can do that to you... it's not just kisses

[ravedave]

Possible but not likely

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Why?

[ravedave]

Because people generally set up friends with benefits relationships because they don't want the baggage or commitment of the normal relationship in the first place

[Lumberman53]

If they develop feelings

[marky123]

yup the situation can change

[ThatgirlYouhate]

But how 🤔

[marky123]

takes a while

[Anonymous]

Sorry. Never going to happen for you.

[hdjfhk]

That's stupid.

[ThatgirlYouhate]

Why 🤔