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Girls, is it an issue to date a guy who slept with a lot of women? (Page 3)
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As long as the man doesn't have any std's id actually prefer it. I rather a man that knows what he is doing. Not a man who is just going to flop around like fish out of water.
Its in the past, its okey, i will go out for the person he is now not before and past its part of him so i accept it
Thats awesome. I am getting back into the dating scene, and so I was worried about wether my past would affect my ability to date, and since I am still kinda in the industry (on the reserve).
Mind if I message you? I actually have a date coming up this weekend, and I would appreciate your advice (its private info, I would rather keep private since I can't delete it on here)
I probably wouldn't enter into a relationship with someone that had that many sexual partners, 1 I'd question the truth of it cause that is a huge number. 2 I'd question if they were maybe addicted and needed help.
Equally I guess the question is would you date a girl that had slept with that many guys?
Frankly speaking... yes. However, if I would meet him and I wouldn't know about his past maybe it is possible. But it's strongly connected with how HE thinks about this all. Personally, I wouldn't hang out with a man with this kind of past, but probably this kind of man wouldn't be even interested in woman like me so this is not a problem :)
I probably wouldn't date him, as I just wouldn't be comfortable dating a adult film actor in general.
I actually have a date coming up this weekend, mind if I message you?
(There is private info, I would rather keep private)
Sure, why not.
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I mean I'd mess around a bit but I wouldn't have a fully exclusive relationship with the guy because obviously he won't be able to give that
Ah, I have actually ran into women like you. Who just wanted something casual when they found out my past. Why?
Do you mind if if you can PM/DM me? I have a date coming up, I would like your perspective and some tips? (I would rather not reveal personal info)
Yeah sure just message me lol
I can't I am level 1, I will follow you, can you message me?
Yeah. If he likes that then good for him. His body count would signify a lack of compatibility for me, though.
What would the lack of compatibility be? That I don't take sex more seriously?
Thank you for the honest opinion.
Would you mind if I PM'd you for some tips I want for a date I am having soon?
I just find sex really personal. And it's something that makes me feel really vulnerable. It would probably break something in me if I even attempted your body count. Sure, you can pm me.
My level is to low to message, do you mind DM me?
The only issue with dating a guy who slept with (over 250) women would be that he has seen the world and it's 250 different choices and scenarios. What would it be that makes him chose me over a mixture of 250 women he has slept with? The question is will he be satisfied with the one? Will he be okay with the restricted options after all the freedom that he has had? Wouldn't it be hard, tough or boring for him to date or settle down for a long haul?
Well i would admit it will worry me and bother me beacuse then i will feel like you either maybe are player or something and if not i will probely think that i couldnt compare to the other girls the guy had slept with and that will make sad
Well, I am not a player, since that is my job. I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete the information right here
Sure you can message me :)
Cool follow me, then I can message you
Yes it's a definite problem. If I'm in a relationship with someone I would hope that they'd stay loyal and commited to me.
What if I am loyal and committed to you? Well I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you?
Yeah for sure, message me :)
follow me and I can message you
Followed! :)
I would rather have a one night thing with him, because of his experience
Wait? So nothing long term? Crap, I am getting back into the dating scene, and this is what I was worried about. Running into women like you.
I actually have a date soon, do you mind if I message you for tips, I want your perspective because I need to win people like you over (there is private info I would rather not reveal that I can delete)
It won't be an issue if he promises to stop that and to take a test to see if he's clean, and to make it easier I'll take the test with him.
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I would definitly not. It makes me shiver just thinking about it..
:( Is that what you are self-conscious? I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I actually have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information
Why are you copy & pasting the same thing to everyone?
I mean I'm not going to judge, but I would be a little self conscious. I would want to be the best he ever had, but more then likely wouldn't.
Sucks to hear, but I am glad your honest. I am self conscious too! Its crazy to hear a gorgeous woman like you is self conscious.
I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I actually have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete the information right her
I mean, sure haha I guess if you want
Yes. Id be intimidated just by knowing he has seen women who are probably more attractive than I am. I dont wanna be compared to such women.
Well crap. I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
Thanks for your honesty. I actually have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete the information right here
Yes sure no worries
I wouldn't be comfortable with that, what's mine is mine 😊
Crap, that sucks :(
Would you say that it is perhaps an insecurity thing maybe?
I appreciate your opinion and thank you for your honesty. I am just worried about getting back into the dating game.
I am actually going on a date the end of this week.
You mind if I message you for your opinion?
I would rather not post information that is private that i can't delete.
go ahead!!:)
Wait, I can't since I am a level 1
I will follow you, than you can message me.
Doesn't matter to me. But I wouldn't really know. As long as they are tested and healthy, which I know they have to be required for anyway, it's fine. But I wouldn't want him continuing that while we were together.
Mm…what if I am still kinda in the industry? Would that affect your chances of dating me?
I want to ask you specifics about my date Friday, but I don't want the info public since I can't delete the information, can I message you about her?
Yeah you can message me
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No. All that matters is your relationship with your current partner (s).
Yay! I am happy that you feel that way. I am just getting back into the dating scene and was worried that me being an adult film actor would scare people off. I am still kinda in the industry.
Which production company are you contracted with?
Well I am managed by ATM LA and work with GDP
Why you ask?
I might think he wants me for just another her sex session
What if we don't even have sex at all during dating?
I want to ask you specifics about my date Friday, but I don't want the info public since I can't delete the information, can I message you about her?
Yeah
follow me, then I can message you
It would really depend on the guy’s attitude towards the situation
What if my attitude was one of wanting to settle down and find a serious girlfriend. (even though I am still kinda in the industry).
I want to ask you specifics about my date Friday, but I don't want the info public since I can't delete the information, can I message you about her?
Sure
If he just stayed with me, and didn't cheat then their is of course no issues at all.
Yay, that makes me feel good. I don't know why you would think I would cheat on you. Now that I am getting back into the dating scene, I don't want to get bad reactions.
I want to ask you specifics about my date Friday, but I don't want the info public since I can't delete the information, can I message you about her?
Sure. I don't mind at all.
Also sorry for somewhat late reply. I was at school.
follow me, and I can message you
If only he would be 100% loyal to me. It'd be difficult to trust him
Why wouldn't you be able to trust him? I would help if is out of the business right? (well I am kinda out of the industry)
I actually have a date soon, do you mind if I message you for tips, I want your perspective because I need to win people like you over (there is private info I would rather not reveal that I can delete)
Look, don't get me wrong but she has to be certain you are able to change your whole lifestyle for her. She had to know she is the one and once she is sure you only care about her, she will feel secure and trust you completely. If you really can focused only on her and be loyal to her, then there's nothing to worry about. Try to impress her, show how mature you are and that your job was only a job and nothing more. Like I said, show her you can make this work and not see other women as long as you're together.
It depends who has he been with and if he has an std
Actually we on average are healthier than the general population because of testing standards, so no STD. Thank you for your opinion, thats good to hear. Now that I am getting back into the dating scene, I don't want to get bad reactions.
I actually have a date soon, do you mind if I message you for tips?
Shure
I kind of would. I'm not sure. I guess I'd just feel a bit uncomfortable.
Is it because of insecurity?
I actually have a date soon, do you mind if I message you for tips?
Honestly yeah xD and also just a bit of uncomfortableness
Uh I don't know lol
Out of those 250 women, there's a chance that one of them could of had a STD, so it might be a problem if he's had sex with one of them.
It will depend how he really feels about you but if he really and truly likes you then go for it but be careful about his past
I'd be a little self conscious but i think it's hot that he has a lot of experience.
Really? Thats good to hear. I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions
I actually have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information
Awh :(
Oops didn't want that face but sure i don't mind
Follow me, and I can message you. or you can just message me
No as long as he's clean and just so you know girls in Porn videos often fake what they're doing
Yay! thats good to hear. I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
"girls in Porn videos often fake what they're doing"
Well, kinda. It Depends.
girls in Porn videos often fake what they're doing"
Well, kinda. It Depends.
I actually have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete the information right here
Sure
Fine with me as long as he is clean and no longer works in the industry. I might have other problems like getting insecure, but not with his past.
Probably not because I would be worried about him comparing me to other women.
Crap :(
I wouldn't compare you to other gals, you are someone completely different, how could I?
Well I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you?
(I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete it on here)
It really depends on the guy of course! and his personality and past. yes you can message me. that is fine. :)
sorry about that. I didn't mean to insult you, this is just my personal opinion and it would make me feel ashamed/embarrassed but that is not for all girls. you need to be up front about your past, but I think that many girls could see this in a positive light. it really depends on who you are and the girls you are going for!
follow me and I can message you, or you can just message me