Difference between normal eye contact and an eye fuck?

[Anonymous]

So I've been experiencing some pretty intense eye contact from a guy recently but it got me wondering... what exactly is the difference between normal eye contact and a full on eye fuck?

For example, today during conversation, a guy made constant eye contact with me and it was me that was tending to break that when I started to also address the other person. I didn't for one money consider his eye contact to be sexual on any way.

However, there's this other guy and when he looks at me it's like he's transmitting secret signals to me and I can read his mind and know exactly what he's thinking (and it involves me with no clothes on ;-) !!).

How do we actually tell the difference?

[zeussuez]

You already know the difference ! What you feel is the truth about the two guys ! The age old adage "eyes say it all " holds good as long as your gut feeling supports the "look" in the eyes. A woman is blessed with a sixth sense of differentiating between love and lust , I wish I could be that blessed too. Trust your instincts lady! You 'll always be right. Just an opinion. Stay happy. Keep shining and smiling! Ciao

[Asker]

But how do I know my intuition is accurate? I'm always worried in case I'm feeling it and he's not 😕

[zeussuez]

If you feel the eyes you contact or those that make a contact with u seem full of lust, 99 times out of a 100 u would be right. Women are blessed souls ! Their gut feeling is invariably right. I can vouch for it. Am an atheist, but my woman can still understand if I turned my eyes on to a rider or just conversed about the good trot or gallop!

[AustinTXGuy]

It seems like you already are telling the difference. It's about the micro-expressions and body language on his face not just the eye contact. It also involves your receptiveness to the person. If you're attracted to one guy you might naturally take his eye contact differently

[Asker]

I think that's what I'm worried about... I am attracted to him so how do I know I'm not reading too much into it and seeing what I want to see? My intuition is usually spot on but I could be wrong

[AustinTXGuy]

Move beyond the eye contact to conversation and see where it goes. In fact you should let him make the first move. It would be weird if he made that much eye contact but didn't approach you.

[Asker]

The eye contact is very intense. Literally takes my breath away.

[Asker]

He will try and hold my eye contact while he walks across a room towards me, and then he'll say "hi how are you?"

[AustinTXGuy]

Then be bold and make something happen from it. If eye contact is that intense for you then you might really enjoy the rest! No harm in that ;)

[Asker]

Haha! Its intense when I'm sitting in my living room and he's nowhere to be seen apart from in my head too lol!

[AustinTXGuy]

Sounds like you're already having some fun because of it then 😜. Let yourself experience something you want. If you're cautious, then be cautious and go on a couple dates, ask around or check out the Facebook page, but you shouldn't pass on this

[Asker]

We haven't dated or anything yet, it hasn't moved past the eye contact 🙈

[Asker]

I don't reciprocate his eye contact last time immediately so that has maybe confused him a bit. I think I'm going to have to be very up front

[AustinTXGuy]

Ah so you're fantasizing a lot, I dig it

[Asker]

Yea.. and there's nothing to guarantee that the fantasies would live up to reality

[AustinTXGuy]

Won't know until you find out 😉

[AustinTXGuy]

I like how your mind works

[Asker]

Haha! I just hope I get to actually find out!! I might burst with anticipation if I don't

[AustinTXGuy]

Yes I hope so too! Let me know how it turns out!

[Asker]

Will do! 😁

[AustinTXGuy]

And no bursting in public ;)

[Asker]

I'll try not to!!

[Anonymous]

shit, that happened to me before. I saw him in my dreams after, I told him nono. LOL

[TaughtTeacher]

Sadly, most men are as loyal as they're options and mental fortitude. But to answer the question, the difference would be in how he is looking at you, whether or not it is like you are a piece of meat, property that could be owned... Or a person... a fellow human being

[i1T2daty]

You need to hold eye contact way beyond comfort zone and perhaps do something w/ body language, esp. your lips or any erogenous zone

[peugetopian]

Eye fucks sound crass and not ok... But that's just vocabulary. Be careful, I suspect that there are guys who can seduce and run.

[JPresidente]

I think you answered your own question. And I think the second guy was giving you that look. We men have about three looks we give. The casual glance, the “I find you attractive look” and the eye fuck stare.

[Anonymous]

Was it something like this?
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[king34]

If u fuck with your eyes u might need to see a professional

[imprince]

It's all about what you feel at that moment.

[Asker]

But how can you be certain it's not one sided?

[Asker]

That I feel something he doesn't?

[imprince]

It's certain to me If she stares deep into my eyes. you can't get off your eyes from Someone you're sexually attracted to.

[imprince]

Eye Fucking is something like you get lost in his eyes unaware of your surroundings.

[jackgsk]

Normal is eye to eye. But eye fuck is eye to boobs or booty

[tommyangel]

Eye fuck is really personal and normal is not so personal

[phantombandit]

Looking away for a second every 4 is normal..

[OCpunK]

5 seconds and an eyebrow raising

[Allisa2345]

Both eyebrows? Is that a way of saying hello? If it was for a few seconds and made eye contact or no?

[jsedam]

sounds like you got this

[Asker]

But what if my instincts are wrong? How do I know I'm not just trying to see what I want to see because I'm attracted to him?

[jsedam]

so the guy you think is undressing you with his eyes, while making eye contact do his eyes scan you before or during eye contact? is the contact intense? what do his lips do? these are tells when a guy is interested for me anyway

[jsedam]

you could also try asking him for a drink, or give him your number

[Asker]

He doesn't scan me, no. Just goes straight in for the eye contact. His eyes sparkle, that's about all I can say! It's like they are the most brightest blue eyes I've ever seen. Yet sometimes when I look and see his eyes, they're a boring grey colour. He will also get a little nervous if it's the first time we've seen each other for a while, but he will make a lot of effort to speak and generate conversation

[Asker]

I'm not sure if I'm brave enough for that... but I think I'm going to have to do something

[jsedam]

give him your number

[Asker]

I just worry about the rejection, same as guys do I guess

[jsedam]

unfortunatly im a guy that is usually oblivious to flirting or picking things up sometimes you have to be straight forward

[jsedam]

just tell yourself the worst he can say is no. doeant take rejection out but tamea the sting a bit

[Allisa2345]

This happens to me too I don't know what it is it's weird and I can't break it it's like i just keep looking at his eyes

[LastNightmare]

you must have met me