For example: when I'm eating, someone will whisper in the ear of another girl and say "look how he's eating the food, he's looking so cute" and then they will laugh.
Is it a direct insult to the masculinity?
If your masculinity is so fragile that it can be threatened with a single word like "cute", that's a red flag... if you're adorable, own that shit. Girls love guys who can make them laugh, and are comfortable with who they are NO MATTER who they are.
If they're laughing at you maliciously, you could be passive aggressive and ask them why they're being rude, but if you're wrong and they aren't being malicious at all, then they will have just seen your fragile masculinity and unfortunately that's not a very attractive thing to see.
It's not an insult.
Some reasons they call a guy cute:
- Same reason guys classify girls as cute and hot. But in case of guys, cute doesn't have to mean less manly. For example,
This is cute
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This is hot
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(Imo)
- Cute is a 'safe' compliment. You say your friends' gfs say so. I mean wouldn't it sound weird if they call you 'hot' straight away?
- Some girls just use cute and handsome interchangeably
I think cute doesn't really mean fluffy or feminine or whatever you think it means tulip. It's like good m8
Nope. Cute is good. All men are cute in a way with certain things they do
It means they aren’ tromantically interested in you. Often older girls will say that about a younger guy, for example.
If they found you attracive, usually they would’t make complimentary remarks that you would overhear...
No, cause I mean at the end of the day girls gon find somethin they think is adorable about you even if you were the Hulk.. LOL.
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I have been told by girls that it doesn't have to be an insult but personally I really can't help but take it as such myself, so I understand your reason for asking this.
If she'd say it with love I would be happy to hear it :D
Who doesn't love being loved, no matter how people say it? <3
Not really for me, I've had a few girls call me cute in past and I kinda liked it. However I can see why some guys won't like it
No it's a good thing.
No, i don't know why guys think that
depends on the way she says it
No not at all.. trust me.. They like cute guys
It is not an insult
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