Why does my friend get all the damn attention when we go out to parties and stuff?

[Anonymous]

Every time I go to a party she always there with me, and she always has ALL the guys drooling after her...and not to be mean nor vain, but she's not the prettiest thing. No matter if there's 50 girls in the room that are WAY prettier than her, every guy is always asking her out to dance and wanting to hookup with her. And you say it's her personality, but she's a slut... seriously. I'm not trying to be mean, she sleeps with everything.

And every party I go to I just stand there feeling useless. I mean, I know how to have fun... I like to dance and just have a good time. YES, I'm a little shy, but if you come up to me and ask me to a dance, I won't say no ... if you come up to me and try to talk to me, I'll talk back .

None of the guys ever pay attention to me...I mean sure, some of them just stare at me the whole night (which makes me nervous) and others try to approach me and ask if I want a drink and stuff. And I'm not a hideous monster, I'm actually kinda pretty, I think.

WHY? Why do all males just ignore me? What the hell does she have that I don't?

[tamraxtradgety]

Okay this post yeah...

Your friend = grade A whore. Honey it's not what you lack it's what you have and she doesn't and that's self respect. she may f*** everyone now and get all the guys but let me give you a secret when she's 21 with 3 kids on welfare a single mom p**** all loose, STD's no man wants to f*** her, she's a prostitute and she's gonna regret every bit of that sh*t. & Your going to be somewhere way ahead of her ass, Karma's a bitch I promise. I mean who wants to be known and or remembered as the class "whore"?. Like seriously. That's what I have to say about her lovely ass ^_^

Now on to your part...I can tell you it has nothing to do with your looksIf I was you I would take the ignored gestures by guys at the parties a compliment, because at least they have respect for you not to come over and try to get you to have sex with them. You don't wanna end up like your friend it's not worth it there are easier ways to get guys attention at parties. You can add me on here if you ever need advice, I can give you some advice on the right way without becoming the whore.

-I hope this helped. Oh & P.S I will send your friend a whole box of condoms just give me the address ;) Safe sex is better than sex Babies.!

-XoxoTamraxTradgety<3

[TheDarkNoodle]

Guys approach her because she has the "easy" vibe, yes some chicks have it naturally. It might be intentional (clothing, make up, behaviour) or just the way she is. Guys can sense easy girls and at a party they home in on that. They love confidence and a shy girl is a bit much work for an easy lay.

It's no loss your not whore material you'll probably end up with a nice guy :)

[Anonymous]

she has a vag the size of texas. what do you think?

guys approach her because she is easy! they know they can get a shag out of her.

they probably don't approach you because they haven't got a chance!

[Anonymous]

Just from your attitude you sound like a bitch and really uptight, you probably project that energy sub consciously and it turns guys off with your manners and your look. Let me ask you, wtf are you doing in a club if you DON'T want to have sex with guys? As far as I know from being a guy clubs are there to pump out crap generic music and alcohol so you can have sex with someone you met that night, nothing wrong with that but if you don't like it then guess what, STOP GOING TO NIGHT CLUBS!

If you want someone to dance with you take some dance classes, retard

[LovinglyUnnoticed2]

You sound like a giant prick!

[Anonymous]

The I'm easy look and reputation. You say some of them do approach you, if you like a guy chat and flirt etc, or you can let the ones youlike know, eye contact, touch, tease, play have fun that's what parties are for...

[Dominique_7]

Well if you want to get laid and nothing more you should act like a slut like she does. If you don't, accept that you're going to get less attention.

[Anonymous]

instead of just sitting back expecting guys to come up to you, why don't you go talk to people?

[bornloser]

go old school and take a bat upside her head