My friend, B, always gets with ANY guy I tell her I'm interested in or trying to date. I feel like perhaps we have the same taste but I feel betrayed by her whenever she tries to do it on purpose. She rubs it in my face like she wants me to know it. Why is she doing this? What should I do?
Your friend is not your friend. She probably feels you are better than her or she feels inferior to you and cannot tolerate that feeling. She is envious of your qualities or she wants what you have.
She has no way of competing with you in the qualities she values or in becoming more like you. For example, there is no way to look more like someone or absorb their qualities/personality when everyone is their own person. So she uses the next best thing, men and male attention, to compete and ‘become’ better than you or to feel more like you. When she gets with a guy you like, she feels like she has demonstrated to you that you are not all that and that she is better or on the same "level".
That’s why women like this want you to know that they have gotten with your crushes and rub it in your face. It’s because they need this outward show of competition with you to cope with feeling inferior or insecure.
I had a friend like that in high school. Get rid of her she is not your friend.
Some people have this odd habit off doing this. Basically she is competing with you just like two boxers squaring off to fight till one gets knocked out. why they do this? Im not a doctor but i would say she has some insecurities jealous of you in some ways but mostly just trying to one up you to stay ahead of you in her wacky way of thinking. She needs help and who needs enemies when you have friends like that right?
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m learn ur lesson n stop telling her
And she’s your friend becaaause…?
Not a true friend
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