Dont fret, remember this fact: you only hung out once, maybe he didn't consider it a date?
Yes I know you have very strong feelings now, but you need to keep them in check. You cannot ruin a good thing before it even starts because of something harmless like him going to a movie with a female. Do you even know who this female was? was it maybe HIS COUSIN? his sister?
What if it was your worst nightmare and it was actually a girl he was dating? Well dating does not equal love. Consider the possibilities, maybe he really likes you but he thought you where not available to see "Batman" so he took someone else.
Consider this as inspiration/motivation to take some kind of action to catch and keep him. hmmmm, ask him about "Batman" and tell him how much you are into the whole comicbook hero movie genre.
Yes you could still date him even if you saw him date someone else, now if you were his girlfriend and you saw him with another girl you could kick her ass and kick his ass. Right now you don't have a leg to stand on and you don't have a valid excuse not to date him again. Well, unless that was his real girlfreind then you might get your butt kicked, do some research before you give up.
Wait.you're upset because your crush is hanging out or dating other women? Is he not allowed to? How can you possibly rationale not going out with him again if he hangs out with someone else?
When my father plays tennis with a female friend, my mom doesn't threaten to divorce him.
I know I'm being harsh, but you are being EXTREMELY paranoid. You're freaking out like this man is only allowed to ever spend time with you. So you would hang out with a male friend of yours then, right? Because, in your mind, it isn't right to hang out with the opposite sex if it isn't you?
Calm down. Hang out with him as usual. Maybe he'll make you his girlfriend, maybe not, but he definitely won't do it if you just stop talking to him right now.
OKay first off. you are probably embarrassed shock suprised and upset BECAUSE you went out to see a movie by yourself maybe you wanted to have your own little time don't wanna deal with nobody until you saw ur crush with another gurl and that ruined ur night.well all you could do is talk to him again and see how is everything going. but don't feel sad just because you see him with another gurl.he has every right to go out with any gurl he wanted because you guys aren't a couple or anything.dont rely too much on how hurt you are but rely on what should you do to make you feel better inside. like for instance, use ur defense mechanism and shop or flit with another guy. but also on the other hand, try not to show or care too much about how hurt you are or if he cares about you. just relax chill and be yourself.~_^
geez that's a bit sad. seeing someone you like on the arms of another is surely gonna hurt. so sorry for that. but anyways maybe he made this date with the other girl before he went out with you and couldn't back away from it.. that's a possibility but on the other hand maybe he didn't have such a great time on the date as you did and is now exploring his options. so next time you see him tell him that you had a great time with him and suggest that your'll do it again. if he jumps at the opportunity then he's into you. if not then it's best to forget about him.
I really feel sorry for you.
I know this is really hard and you have probably not going to like hearing it, but this guy is just not that much into you as you are into him. If he was, he would not go out with other girls. Sure, you two are not boyfriend/girlfriend and have only dated once, but it does not really matter, because a guy that is truly interested in you, would never ask another girl out.
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I suppose it is a good idea to forget about him. He is not the prince charming you would like to think he is. Many guys do this: that is go out with multiple girls (or pursue multiple girls) at once because not one of them is "officially his girlfriend." A guy I know went out on 2 dates yesterday and each girl doesn't know about the other (and he's been on a few other dates this week with even more girls). They carry this attitude that if she's not my girlfriend then it's not cheating (cheating or sex did not occur this time but you understand how guys like this think). So if you contact him he will honestly believe he did nothing wrong because you are not "officially his girlfriend." I don't agree with this logic, but this is exactly how he thinks.
I don't understand why a guy would want to date or pursue more than one girl at a time because the guy I mentioned earlier who does exactly that complains everyday about how stressful it is and how pissed he gets at all of these girls. He is just asking for trouble and for waves of PMS hormones from the girls. I tell him he's stupid for creating this stress and that he's stupid for setting himself up for a trap, but he continues to do it anyway.
Let him go. If he really wanted you he would pursue you and only you.
1) Are you guys in the dating stage? Since you guys only gone out once, for all I know that could just be a friendly chilling session.
2) Do you know this other girl? Can she be like your crush's bff or childhood friends for past 20 years?
3) Does your crush know you like him? Do you think he likes you?
You see, there are so many unanswered questions here and you have a conclusion already.
Ouch!
no one want to be in your shoes, since it already happened, and no action can recover it.
sweety, I personal believe that cry you way to sleep is the best solution right now, but tomorrow when the sun is up, you get your self together and live a good life.
f*** him, there is so many guys out there. I know it hurt, but remember people come, people go.
take care
If he's that kinda guy, you should just forget about him and move on. Who wants to be with a cheater anyway? Don't believe him if he says he will change, he wont. Once a cheater always a cheater.
This is nothing to cry about, he's just a jerk with no concern for others.
Find another guy and be happy! =]
xx
What you need to do is do some crying to release the emotions, move on, but I think the real issue here is for you to become a stronger woman. It seems you're not 18 anymore, so the question would be, are you emotionally at your age?
You guys aren't exclusive so you can see other girls. It's normal to feel hurt, but keep in mind that you have no committment. You can't be mad at him because he didn't do anything to you. You're free to go to the movies with other guys ;)
He's obviously playing the field.
If you do not appreciate it (and I don't think a sane woman alive would) then move on to a guy that will treat you with the respect and love that you deserve.
you guys aren't exclusive so he's allowed to see other girls. if you're really that hurt maybe try seeing other people too.
Well you shouldn't be surprised he's seeing other girls. I always assume/expect it but I've rarely ever seen it with my own eyes.
Don't be hurt but relived that you know the truth. The other girl probably doesn't
Aw I'm sorry to hear this, I feel for you!
Just move on,dont feel so sad!
hes not worth it!
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