How do I make a girl feel really bad for what she did to me?

[Anonymous]

How do I make a girl feel really bad for what she did to me without really talking to her? I'm not going to talk to her unless she talks to me because she broke my heart and really p*ssed me off and if I do talk to her I might just end up being really rude/mean. suggestions?

[hkygirl]

woww this is EXACTLY how the guy that loves me and that I'm in love with is acting and it's affecting me emotionally, mentally, and physically...it's such a f***ed up situation...it hurts a lot more than you guys think and more than a lot of us will admit...the clingy needy ones will admit to it all but the stubborn ones who refuse to appear clingy and needy and secretly want him back, like me, wont. I'm not sure what she did to you but if you REALLLY want to hurt her and you're sure she deserves her heart stomped, make her feel like whatever y'all had meant nothing as if not talking to her is easy for you and you've moved on. if you're doing this for alterior motives though, for example, to get her back...i'd be careful...things could backfire and she could get a new guy to make you jealous or assume you've actually moved on and start accepting it's time for her to move on. like I said I'm not sure what she did butttt if you want to hurt her, make her feel like everything you went through with her was a waste of time. you can't come out and tell her though..it's not the same..spiteful words hurt but silence breaks the heart...i got in a massive fight with this guy and there was a lot of f*** yous but honestly I can't remember word for word what was said and I'm over it..the thing I'm struggling with and what hurts me most is thinking about me never talking to him again and how cold we've been to each other based on the circumstances so yea...just act like it was nothing...good luck sweetie and if you take it this far, I hope she did something bad enough to deserve this sort of pain. I hope you're able to move passed this and remember not alll girls are like this. good luck;)

[Asker]

Say if I do want her back then what? just keep ignoring her? or actually talk to her?

[hkygirl]

Hunnie when you figure it out tell me;) the conclusion I've come to is take the light detached don't care approach...he's still in love with me he's admitted he'll always want something with me, regardless he's engaged and became in engaged within around 4days so I'm trying to keep communication open so that he knows and remembers what he fell in love with because I'm scared if I stop talking to him our chances will be shot so I don't know. it depends on the person and situation. if you've ever

[hkygirl]

Ignored her before...try to remember how she acted...or her reaction towards someone else ignoring her...its kind of like that game we played when we were kids, "i know something you don't know" then we'd walk off...for the rest of the day until we spilled even if we didn't know anything that person chased us around because we didn't talk to them and told them nothing. if you think she'll respond to that and your situation isn't too fragile then go for it but everyone and situation is different

[selfishstars]

What's the point? Be the bigger and more mature person and move on.

I don't know what exactly she did to you, but unless she's a complete bitch, she probably realizes that she hurt you and already feels badly about it. And, if she is a complete bitch, then she isn't worth your time or effort anyway.

Will making her feel bad really make you feel that much better?

[xptownshufflex]

Simple just give her the cold shoulder x