Girls, what are some reasons you'd stop replying to someone on a dating app? (Page 2)
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*Acting clingy is a huge turn off to me
*The conversation was boring
*He said something that I hugely disagree with which makes us incompatible
I mean what sort of clingyness? What make u think that ohter peron is needy?
Keeping track of time for me.
For ex asking where were you , u didn't reply for so long , wanting to spend or chat all the time. Asking once is ok thou
I need time alone for my hobbies, friend's, salon, shopping
Mostly because
1. Too many options
2. You weren’t as impressive as you thought you’d be
3. Or I uninstalled the app (most common one)
honesty is beautiful!
Well, it doesn’t mean all the other women weren’t. They just behave differently in a similar situation.
Found someone who I'm more interested in and going on a date or about to or the conversation got stuck and boring. Also if he start getting too serious to fast and pushy. Oh and if he ask for my number after a few texts seems desperate to me
Hmm. Maybe the opposite party does not have the same interest in the conversation? Switch up another topic?
To me, it's the guy that stopped responding to my msgs. I think it's difficult for both genders to find someone for similar topics.
Mate look at all the females here. No point doing online dating.. once they get bored they just jump to another guy. What do they offer besides looks... nothing look at the Shollow replys
lmao no wonder you're so bitter when you call women females. I assure you you're the problem not the women. what's wrong w moving on because someone's boring if you can't hold a conversation there's nowhere to go from that. how's it shallow when it's based on personality lol. You'll have better luck when you see women as more than vending machines you put nice coins into and get the kind of attraction you want in return.
If the conversation was going great on your side, she might not of had the same impression? Is that a possibility?
Yeah that's probably most people's issue but I'm not an oblivious male, in these cases they're flirting back. Once a couple of days go by I just assume they're done responding
If she's flirting back then I honestly don't know, she probably likes the attention
Boredom sure, but also if someone sends repetitive messages with nasty fetishes. That happens more than you'd think.
Oh damn, that's a thing? How often?
@fuzzyllama There's some who open accounts just for that reason and keep spamming others with that stuff. I would see there's at least two or three on every site I've been.
Wow, that's crazy!
Just don't send nudes or say stupod pickup lines XD
Either because I lost interest or because he started acting inappropriately in some way.
What are the inappropriates , please. Mention some , telling samething again?
@alimusharfx111 What do you mean telling something again?
I smell a rat.
I lost Interest
He is too Controlling xx
How could a guy be controlling in a dating app?
@peterpsak Good question.
Not only does it make no sense it can also contribute to emotional difficulties and misogynistic thoughts.
I'd say online dating is a farse for most men. Had six years experience, very little luck.
It's because they go for the "best" guy they can get on their out of the hundreds of other guys that message them. It's all a big waste of time if you're not one of those guys
It's like a damn slot machine. You get one jackpot so you keep playing until you're completely drained, unfortunately I rarely have a way to meet anyone new so I resort to apps
Yeah me too used them for years, met my ex off of one. But I still will never use them again it's not worth the effort to me
One word messages or answers, one letter, just emojis or abbreviations, being asked for nudes and sex and being sent nudes
This is exactly why I hate online dating. Whenever I talk to girls they always give me a yes/no answer and never ask me anything, its like talking to a wall
I just can't stand when people say "ok" "k" "why" "yeah" it really bugs me , when I get to know someone I think both people need to make an effort
Yeah same here, I've had to deal with girls who'd have really cool things going for them (one girl was 18, but already had a really cool car, she was into bikes, and ran a foodtruck at festivals) but then whenever I was asking her about this stuff, like for instance about what kind of festivals she'd go to with that foodtruck, she'd just go with a generic "whatever is available". Like sure I get that thats what might be tbe case but then give me one that you really liked being at or whatever. Make it sound interesting even when its not.
I had one gut where I explained this game I came up with in my head (can't remember now ) but this message I sent was huge and all he said was "ok" , I'm trying to make friends and a possible partner but the guys who talk to me either just want sex which I don't want or they ignore me or their way to old , I need someone close to age and in Australia
I usually stop when I notice that the conversation isn't really flowing smoothly. I like asking a lot of questions but I also wish they'd ask more about me. Smth like that.
I try to comment in points of interest that we have in common. Thought I was doing it right, maybe I should've asked for nudes. haha
If one thing is obvious from this it's *never* ask for nudes
If he's interested in only hooking up
If he starts talking dirty
If he's boring
If he takes over 1 day to respond
What’s wrong with hookups
Im not into that
Im not gonna waste my time on douchebags
You may not be into that but doesn’t make the guy a douchebag or bad person. Vice versa if a woman likes sleeping around it doesn’t make her a bad person. It’s just a choice they make. Lying to get it does however makes you bad
- they're boring
- ask for nudes or start sexting me out if nowhere
- if they're abit cringy to talk to
- double texting
Of*..
If they're asking for nudes immediately, if their conversational skills suck, if they're acting creepy
Yeah no I explicitly said if the conversation is going great, I don't do any of that shit
Found someone better, guy got boring and i was just being kind before, guy said something too forward or sexual, etc
What do you consider exciting through text. I mean it’s text. Convo is eventually going to have a lull.
@CuriousGuyP1 Thats not true though. If your conversations get dull, you gotta change something up. Or maybe it's not just you, but rather you two have nothing in common. Talk about something you both like, dont do boring interview questions, you know? Haha
Yeah I’m tracking and you do have a point. But I mean it takes time to figure out if you have stuff in common. Again eventually you have convos with yours friends is every conversation you have exciting. Thats like manic behavior. I think that’s being way too ideal I think people should take time to get to know people. Just because something was great at the beginning doesn’t mean it is all throughout. That’s superficial to think that way and to honest just really immature and stupid. But hey what do I know.
@CuriousGuyP1 it's not superficial, it's enjoyong being in the company of the person in question. Whe not all my conversations with friends are exciting, they certainly aren't boring.
Superficial
@Luke123456 ? Knowing how to socialise? 😂
@Luke123456 here you go:
"superficial
ˌsuːpəˈfɪʃ (ə) l/
adjective
1.
existing or occurring at or on the surface."
You can't talk to someone and get the real deal underneath if theyre asking you dumb questions that a robot would ask.
🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ well done you can look up the dictionary 🙌🙌🙌 look up between shit and syphilis and that's where you will find my sympathy.
Also you must be so lovely jumping from one guy to another 😅😅
What @Opinion owner what you are saying is contradictory. In order to get to know someone you would need to ask questions whether interesting to you or not to gauge your interest. That is why it’s called getting to know you.
@Luke123456 Nice job stealing someone else's joke to pass it off as your own, originality/10.
Also your prior kindergarten level comeback only shows your lack of understanding of implications.
Jumping from one guy to another? Babe, I'm in a long term relationship with a guy I met in person, not on a dating app😂 But hey, now I know how attached and entitled you feel to chicks online who you barely know and talk to👌
@CuriousGuyP1 No, the real contradiction is in this sentence of yours: "whether interesting to you or not to gauge your interest." If it's NOT interesting, it won't gauge interest😂
Now listen, if you want to get to know someone, asking a question every 5 seconds isn't the best way. If all you're doing is asking and all they're doing is answering, it will get dull, trust me. I'm trying to help you~ Try talking about what interests you or what you do or like and build a convo from that, for instance, dont act like you're an employer and they're here for a job offer.
I'd say she found a more interesting option and decided to not play games with multiple guys. Good on her. Cause they could easily play as many as they want at any given time