How can you tell the difference between kindness and flirting? (Page 2)

[Dark93]

It's pretty hard to tell. With flirting, if they try to initiate physical contact a lot that's flirting.

[Waftpermidgeon]

If it's a guy it's kindness, if it's a girl it's flirting. So basically you can tell just by looking at their chest.

[pepitlove]

This is gonna sound weird but bear with me lol imagine your brother sister mom dad any relatives doing the same exact thing if you cringe it was flirting

[Yatagurusu]

If you get a bad haircut and it continues its kindness

[DamnMan]

I just consider all to be kindness or friendliness. I've learned not to confuse it with flirting.

[Aynsof]

Ehm
Most often I cannot
So I just assume kindness since it is safer than assuming flirting

[Undateable84]

Me personally not really cuz flirting never happens to me

[Nahid1707]

i think it is easy to tell. We men are just bad at it.

[overreactive]

You can usually tell from the person's eyes, smile, demeanor and general vibe if they are flirting or not

[dengaz]

Queues of seriousness, and looking at it objectively from both perspectives

[mel1695]

I’m here for the answers 😂

[Jazza_999]

If a guy does a weird laugh after a comment it’s usually flirting or joking

[Markcurious]

I find this really hard to tell the difference too

[StickStickity13]

flirting has a sexual tension to it

[TheRealQuestion]

Please let me know if you find the answer.

[Ietona]

If a girl/guy is flirting that means they wanna fuck

[The_Gentelman]

Good question

[The_Gentelman]

Last week I was around with one of my close female friends and later she told me that I was quite flirty, even thought I just was like always.

[TsundereMatrix]

Right? Guys do the same thing to me.

[The_Gentelman]

Well if you would know me then you could imagine how surpriesed I was when I was told that I was flirting

[TobyWinters]

No, I'm awful at telling

[DradenX]

Yes, I can

[TsundereMatrix]

How?

[DradenX]

I find body language to be particularly important. Also, if you're able to, you can look at how they are around other people; compare how they treat their friends, strangers, etc.

[TsundereMatrix]

Thumbs up for that.

[geminiboner]

I don't know I've always been kind and a flirt.

[slatyb]

Flirting is sexual.

[steelerchris]

Over abundance of kindness

[Highsxhoolstudent15]

Facial expression

[Smegskull]

If you're ugly pretty it's flirting

[AnujRavi]

the difference cud be the distance.

[Raven93]

You don't.

[sickandtired12]

Sometimes

[BOUNTYGUY9]

yes l can

[Seppelson]

I can't tell it too

[frosty88]

Yup definitely

[Hanni1]

That made no sense at all

[frosty88]

Definitely flirting and kindness different

[Hanni1]

They asked how