Offense cannot be felt if it’s not true. I’ll let someone call me a h** as much as they want but because I am mature and know me more than anyone else I’ll clearly state what I have to say and remain in peace.
I wouldn’t call a guy a player directly but I’ll reword it so he can get the memo. It’s not about what you say but how you say it. It’ll take him proving to me that he’s not a player for me to actually believe so.
I once told a guy that I’ve dealt with players when he asked but I would not hold him accountable so he would have to prove to me different and only time will tell. That’s me saying: “I don’t know who you are and I won’t compare you to the other guys I’ve dealt with but if you screw up than it’ll let me know if I was dealing with a real man or a player all along.”
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Its a depends answer - Some might think you are calling them a stud and polish their bling , others might think you are calling them a dirty dog. I would be in the latter and not be impressed
Player implies a person has low moral standards. It's seldom said in a positive way. In fact I've never heard it used in a positive way, purely as an insult or cautionary description.
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Because most guys aren't players, but girls go around screaming "all men are players, fuck guys" because that girl fucked a player and he screwed her over. If one guy is a player, the average guys pay for it.
When a girl gets screwed over by a player, typically, she'll fuck more players thinking she's getting back at men overall because she blames all men, not the ones who screwed her over.
"Player" is a triggering word for me I'll admit, because according to girls, I'm a player, a sex crazed beast, and have no emotions other than lust. But when i get rejected it's because I'm too emotional, i lack experience and "I don't know what i want"I'd be a little bummed because I really try to be straightforward and not trick people so don't consider myself a player. I'd feel bad if someone thought I played them as thats never my intention.
It would be like calling a women a slut and wondering why she don't like the name
When someone calls me something I'm not I look at them like they should know me better with a dash of surprised along with that I do a bit of bad acting by using my right hand I cover my heart and act like my knees are weaking by then I'm looking at my surroundings hold my left hand out to it, as if asking why. That's what I do when I end up being the punch line to a joke or jest.
Probably because they don't like being called a player even if you're just kidding. It has a negative connotation, and there are people that don't want to be associated with such negativity.
They don't want to be lumped in with other guys let alone seen as someone who gets around even if they do it
Player has a negative connotation for most guys. Even as a joke it dwindles the mind of a man and trigger him
Because you putting them on same line as a real player which they are not
Some men see "player" the same as some women see "slut".
Because playa= fuckboi. And that has a negative stigma to it. Basic it makes then look like a bad person.
The obvious answer to the question is that they aren't players and don't appreciate the label you're trying to place on them.
Because women get offended when they get call sluts simple
Because to many, myself included, "player" translates to "man whore".
I personally don't mind it. I think girls flirt with you sometimes like this because sometimes they want you to play them
Because it's straight up an insult.
What if someone "jokingly" called you a slut? It's not hard to be sensible come on.
If they get offended, it’s true 😂
because those guys are not players
I’d take it as a compliment
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