Well years ago I had a crush on this girl who ended up becoming my best friend. We spent almost every day together and had the same interests and genuinely made each other happy. The only problem was she had a boyfriend at the time, he cheated on her and treated her badly and I respected their relationship crappy as it was and never crossed the line with her although there were so many times I wanted to, this is all cliche I'm sure.
Eventually there were problems and her Boyfriend demanded she stop talking to me and when she told me this I got pissed and thought fine, a few days later she apologized to me but I only ever said maybe this was for the best and I cut contact with her completely.
Fast forward years now, she broke up with that guy and looked me up. Of course it was great to hear from her but now she's in another long term relationship. Part of me is happy to perhaps regain our friendship but the fact she is with someone now makes me think that this may again be a problem. I still have other feelings for her as well so I'm just not sure what I should do. Anyone have any advice or been in a situation like this before?
Eventually there were problems and her Boyfriend demanded she stop talking to me and when she told me this I got pissed and thought fine, a few days later she apologized to me but I only ever said maybe this was for the best and I cut contact with her completely.
Fast forward years now, she broke up with that guy and looked me up. Of course it was great to hear from her but now she's in another long term relationship. Part of me is happy to perhaps regain our friendship but the fact she is with someone now makes me think that this may again be a problem. I still have other feelings for her as well so I'm just not sure what I should do. Anyone have any advice or been in a situation like this before?
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