It sounds too stupid ahahaha, if you like the hot girl then go for her and man up to show your feelings. You don't need to manipulate or drag another person in your personal pursuits. That will make you look very selfish and it will hurt the other girl in the process. And if they're friends, the hot girl def wouldn't like you for that.
What a stupid idea. If you hit on both depending on your personality and style of flirting they will either think you were just being friendly and dismiss you or think you are a player and dismiss you.
Good luck with that!
That is some outdated PUA BS tactic... you should always pay attention to everyone in the group but thinking you are slick like what you have mentioned above is CRACKERS SON!
HAHAHAHAAHA no
treat women like crap if all you want is to get laid
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No, that is very unfair to the friend and might cause jealousy from the insecure girl. Best way to do it is flirt with the one you're interested in while still being polite with the friend so she doesn't feel totally ignored,
I could only see this piquing her interests if it's very subtle. Like you're not intentionally doing it to try to "get" her. But if this is a real situation, I could definitely see her liking the guy. I mean like walking up to the two of them at a party and approaching her friend first. NOT forming some kind of fake relationship. Make it very clear that you'd just like to get to know the friend better. Have interest in her friend group as well, and be friendly/flirtatious with the girl you find attractive, but take the same approach with all of the friend group, just starting with the one you're not initially attracted to. Showing interest mainly in her friend (who may not regularly get male attention, as you called her ugly) shows some good character (not that it makes you a saint by any means). You both like the same person. It's refreshing for her to not be hit on or have to worry about you having bad intentions with her friend. And when you flirt a little with the friend group, you're more likely to not be sentenced to the friend zone. Again, only if you make it clear that you're not looking for something, you're just interested in the friend. Hence, opening the door to relationships with a new group of people, including the attractive girl. This is the scenario where that would be true. Again, be genuine. Don't manipulate. But get to know new people! Bye ~
False , I would go for the girl i was attracted to and be polite to her friend , whoever told u to do that shit is messed up , What usually happens in that situation to be honest is the girl that u do like is the one that is more shy cuz she likes you as well but the friend is usually the one that talks more , so just be polite to the friend and the girl you do like will like u even more lol
If you are trying to manipulate someone it comes down to the person. Not all insecure people have the same trippers, but sure talking to the group of girls as a whole and not instantly going for her when she feels like she’s better looking than all her friends is going to fuck with her head. It’s probably better for a spoiled brat than just an insecure girl, because they want instant gratification on everything.
It's the worst manipulation ever. Hurt someones feelings just to be with someone else. Even that "hot girl" is an awful person. What kind of friend would I be if I would let some guy hurt her.
Think about this in reverse. Would a woman ever consider flirting with the ugly guy to get the attention of his more attractive friend. Lmao hell no. If I was the attractive friend I would be pissed off 😂
Nope, i was the ugly friend once and guys would hit on me to get to my friend. My friend was pretty but she was insecure so every time a guy would talk to me she got jealous. She thought the guys wanted me and that made her feel like the ugly one but they were just using me. She got mad at the guys because they tried to talk to her after talking to me because she thought they were more interested in me. It sucked because every time a guy would do this she got more and more insecure.
My best friend is much better looking than me. If a guy is into me (or pretends to be into me), it makes her lose interest in him if she had any to begin with. I think your theory is wrong.
It's very cruel to pretend to be interested in someone when you aren't, especially a person that probably does not get a lot of attention.
She's probably not that bad if she feels like she needs to surround herself around woman who look less than her.
it can work that way but is most likely to end up in upsetting the other girl so i tend to be clear in my intentions from the start
Hitting on the ugly friend will always backfire on you. The hot girl will back off even MORE, thinking that you may be really interested in the friend, and she wouldn't ruin her chances.
First of all why would you want a hot girl that's insecure? Second, you're just an asshole.
That's the worse thing you can do, she's just going to think you like her friend and don't bother with you at all
That is PUA nonsense. The best way to get any girl is to make sure she knows you are interested in her and not in just pumping her.
Where's the ugly friend? I'm interested in the one not trying to mess with my head
u No because she don't factor in the jelousey that would be felt by both people
I mean it does work in some cases but why not just go for the girl that you can actually get rather then the hot girl with some obvious issues?
"Ugly Friend"
Was she even her friend if she said that?
Maybe to get some quick attention. Nothing meaningful or even sex will come from it though.
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