When you feel like someone likes you, do you trust that gut feeling?

[Gavyn]

And how does it usually turn out?

Personally, I've learned to trust my gut on this because it's been right every time.

Yes (Explain)

No (Explain)

[itsmicaelaxo]

Yeah, it's all about energy. You can just feel if someone is vibing with you, likes you as a person. It doesn't necessarily mean they like like you, but they definitely like you

[Gavyn]

Sometimes you can tell if someone like-likes you, though, and I'm 3 for 3 on that.

[itsmicaelaxo]

Yeah, for sure. But you have to be careful to not misinterpret cause some people are just super friendly and/or flirty in general

[LuvAsh]

My gut has a history of lying to me😂😂

[Jamie05rhs]

Same

[coachTanthony]

Trust your gut because what else is there too trust? Your gut feeling and intuition is a much better barometer then someone else's opinion. Always!

[coachTanthony]

Thanks for the MhO

[Lance1965]

You have to trust your gut feeling because there isn't much else.

[Gavyn]

Yeah, but so far it's never let me down.

[Lance1965]

Same.

[Pinay_ako]

No. I have to see more tangible and verbal signs that shows he does. Because maybe sometimes some people are just friendly and flirty like that and they might like a lot of people and I don't want to invest my feelings if not being reciprocated to me only..

[dmmmmm01888]

Yes I agree

[Logorithim]

I completely trust my gut on this.

[MrConceptkitten]

We all have instincts built into us.
We forget that humans are animals just like any other.
What makes us different is our way of intelligence and adapting to our type of society. When we adapt with our intelligence our natural instincts to read attraction can be blinded. Some people still have that natural animal instinct.
Trusting your gut and acting I. It is a very special trait that some have to spend money on books and seminars to learn how to tap into that.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think if your animal instincts have been "taught" out of you, there's no way of getting them back. I think it's best to just learn how to work with your evolved self.

[d_mudg]

Yes, because I’ve felt like this before. I was so confused if he likes me or not due to his actions, he’s really confusing sometimes but something tells me that he likes me too. We just don’t know how to communicate and say what’s on our mind.

[Jamie05rhs]

Some people will be confusing on purpose because they don't want to be the first one to show their cards (their feelings). It's like the poker face of attraction.

[HOAAH]

I am a word person, i would just feel better if he just said i like you.

[Gavyn]

Of course. But let's be honest, it's almost never that easy, is it?

[HOAAH]

yeah it was. i asked him and he answered. but i know what you mean, sometimes it's nerve wrecking to ask.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay, well, for the record, "I like you.". Unless you're still with that other guy, in which case I will add "JK!". Lol

[HOAAH]

@Jamie05rhs married, almost a decade

[Jamie05rhs]

Ohhhh. Disregard lol. I'm sorry.

[Poppymarie]

My gut is almost always right but I usually don’t trust it because I’m stupid 😂

[Gavyn]

Don't worry, the more you learn to trust your gut, the easier it gets.

[Jamie05rhs]

How do you know it's right, though?

[Poppymarie]

Because of the way things turned out in the past.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay

[Anonymous]

At the beginning I trusted my gut but as the time went by I should had not trusted it in thefirst place. My crush turned out to be one looser after he gave me all thesignals he really liked me and treated me nice

[Opinion Owner]

For this crush I can honetly say for guys like him I can honestly say "ALL GUYS ARE CUT WITH HTE SAME SCISSORS. and No I was not a bitch to this guy in any moment I was all the contrary. I was nice, and even got along well with the guy

[Gavyn]

Well, I'm sorry to hear that he wasn't what you were expecting. The only advice I can give is don't write off all men. The right one will come around if you're proactive in living life and getting yourself.

[Opinion Owner]

I mean i was not looking fora seriosu relationship with him and he was super clear and I understood. The issue is that I known him for 4 years and we had gone on dates 4 times, 2 times we had sex he wanted to do it, but I also wanted and sudenly without any reason or explanantion he got all indifferent to me.

[Jamie05rhs]

Sorry to hear that, Anonymous.

[Massageman]

Whenever I try to overthink things, it usually goes downhill. Going with my gut instinct is usually best.

[Gavyn]

I learned that too.

[Texaskid1]

I have been right on many occasions about some woman liking me. This does not mean that I like her though.

[Gavyn]

Been there a couple times.

[Jamie05rhs]

Woooooooorrrrd.

[OtakuNeko666]

Yes but i keep observing to get more of an idea and if I'm brave enough, I'll just ask them if they are interested in me.

[faithie_Artist]

I swear I feel it yet in the end I always end up being wrong..

[Gavyn]

It takes both practice and a level head to get it right.

[Ella_101]

Why not? If you like the person and you think the person likes you then why not tell them how you feel or ask them how they feel? You never know if you don't ask

[shimmeryns]

Yes I do. It only works when you are not hoping they would be interested you though because sometimes you will overanalyze.

[Anonymous]

I’m oblivious, I can never tell if someone is interested or just being nice.

[Gavyn]

Don't worry, the more you practice, the easier it gets. I had trouble at first too, but one day all of a sudden it just clicked and I could spot it within, like 2 conversations/interaction.

[Gavyn]

Interactions.*

[Megatrizzle]

Typically yeah I do trust it, but I usually am either too anxious to do anything or I wait to see their character/more of their personality.

[BoSvenson]

The brain will justify anything
The heart will lie to you
Your gut just gives you the truth.

We usually don't listen to our guts, because we don't want the truth.

[Jamie05rhs]

Guts are technically intestines, which are used to send digested food to the anus on its way out of the body. They have no magical powers.

[chimeara]

Yes and if you like them go for it life is too short to not take every chance at happiness that you can.

[swankyfox]

I trust my gut feelings because i tried so hard once to understand and i had experience. So i feel that i reached a point where thinking hard about it makes me over look the awnser

[EnocV]

I'm kind of a freak like.. just awkward.. so Everytime someone shown interest on me and I do the first move I kinda fail bc of my awkwardness.. but I don't care.. the right woman will come in the right time..

[Secret6620]

All the time. I can read people well and I have good intuition