can you go by your gut, if your gut tells you this person likes you but for some reason is nervous about acting on it or the situation is just too inappropiate for them to act on?
im not one of those people that think everyone likes me but when i get the feeling. it drives me crazy because i dont know if im right or just hoping someone likes me, even if i dont like them in return.
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I totally know what you mean! And you wonder if you're noticing these things because you're kinda into them. And its because you hope that they're into you that you notice things.
I like this guy. He basically acts like I don't exist so much that I know it has to take effort to do - which means he's aware of my existence. But recently we've been making eye contact. And then he's always looking in my direction. Then after that he is magically always somewhere near me. I'm always surrounded by at least 2 of the 3 male colleagues I work with so it's not easy to get me alone.
I'm never at the printers and then the one day I am, he is too. And I smiled and I offered him to go first because I'd take a while. We were about to make conversation when someone came to chat to me...
But anyway. I wonder if he just happens to be looking my way for a general reason. And if it was sheer co incidence that we were at the printer together. And the wonder comes from the fact that I do stupid shit like that when I like someone. I always make eye contact and strategically place myself where we could possibly strike up a conversation. Haha