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1) usually not but sometimes I do if ill never see them again and its just fun! but mayb some guys would get my flirting confused with friends (cu honestly to me there's not much difference in the way I act xcept ill try to like touch and b near the guy but ill act playful a lot with my guy friends)
2) I hav no idea that's just kinda weird
No, lol. I barely even flirt with people I AM interested in. It just isn't something that comes easily to me. Flirting is one of those social activities that I usually find awkward and uncomfortable. I guess I flirted with my boyfriend and still do, but only because he was one of those special cases where it wasn't weird to do so. I think I was more weirded out by the fact that I WASN'T weirded out by it.
I flirt without meaning to. If someone flirts with me I just do it back without even thinking.. I am a really physical person, I like to hug and touch and so on and I do that with everybody who I feel comfortable with, friends or more. So it sometimes leads to mix ups with guys thinking I like them... I am working on it (:
some of my guy friends.
and recently my ex boyfriend who still has feelings for me even though he broke up with me 3 months ago. (he aso went out with 3 other girls but broke up with them after a week cause of me) but I'm currently in an awesome relationship.
i'm conflicted
no, it makes you sound like a horrible bitch. sorry
i understand that actually. that's another reason why I'm conflicted. ik it's not right to be feeling this way, but I miss him even though he hurt me. but when we were together we really loved each other.
idk what to do is what I'm saying.
No, cause that would just be leading him on. I know how that feels & it sucks. I'm friendly/polite with everyone but I only go the extra step (flirting) when I like them.
Nope,coz I don't want people to assume that I like them etc even if I don't but I just love to smile at them as a sign of respect but still they think I'm seducing them which is really weird on my part...
Smiling per se shouldn't be taken as flirting let alone "seducing", lol. Even I can admit that's too much. Unless you're in a bar and smile at a total stranger on the other side of the room, then it counts as an invitation I suppose. Otherwise no way.
ahahhaha Yeah but my friends keeps on saying that my smile keeps on seducing someone ha ha its really weird because I just love to smile,maybe my braces seducing them hahaha really weird! :)
I voted, yes, but I have a VERY important disclaimer:
I do...but mainly on the internet because I don't give a f***, & nobody takes internet flirting seriously.
In real life...no I'm not a flirt. I'm not interested in other girls...so why flirt IN REAL LIFE when I could be taken seriously & mislead somebody?
Being friendly can very easily be interpreted as flirting. I am very friendly to people I am comfortable around. Sometimes that might be people who like me and I don't have an interest in them. Its just the way I am. I'm not trying to lead them on or anything.
What for? To make them feel good or something? NO. I am not good at it but will at least try to flirt with a girl I like. Girls only do that because guys will always give them attention. Girls always get more atttention than guys do. Flirting with someone you don't like is just plain asinine.
lol sometimes, and its pretty straight forward. it's good practice, its fun, and its an ego boost if he flirts back (for him too). and if he doesn't - its easily shrugged off ... because it was random and meant nothing ;D
Well, I voted yes because sometimes I will, but its not always on purpose! If I am comfortable around a guy I tend to be more open and outgoing. For SOME reason this gets translated as flirting. Like quick remarks and stuff like that. I never intentionally flirt with a guy I'm not interested in.
Yeah, if the guy isn't interested in me, because it is only for fun or good for your ego when you need some attention. But we can't always know what the others think, so when you flirt with someone you're not interested in, you always take a risk to hurt this person.
Flirting is fun. Helps break the ice. You have to be able to have relationships with people of both sexes. As long as there is no romantic undertone it should be fine.
What about being friendly to women? Does it not count as a relationship? I'd rather not go the extra mile and flirt if I don't want anything. It's risky business.
I would but not with intent. I flirt with guys all the time. Guys I know and are in relationships. We do it for FUN nothing serious. It's simple banter and never crosses the line.
If it's a guy I'm interested in then I would flirt with intent.
If they are innocent, could possibly become attracted to me, get the wrong idea then no.
If they're sluts, think highley of themselves, are flirtatious themselves then yes, I'll string them along and play them at thier own game
NEVER. That's playng with peoples feelings. Just because celebrities play cute in TV, it doesn't mean that people should take habbits like leading other on and leaving them only empty hope.
As much as I wish I could say that I don't, I sometimes do. Although it depends on my mood. If I'm in a bitter mood, beat it! But if I'm in a good mood, everyone's game...I'll even get a little flirtatious with other women...it's just my nature!
No, I don't think there is a point in that. The guy would think I am interested and keep bugging me.Even tough when they flirt and I don't, they think I am playing hard to get...so I think guys see what they want.
I don't flirt with people I'm not interested in only because I don't want to get their hopes up if they wanted to go out with me. Also because I'm in a relationship, so flirting at all does not happen :)
I flirt if the girl does it first and knowing she just wants to be friend, mainly because it's fun to have some laugh without worrying about anything, and it's good practice as well.