Girls, do you ever go to clubs just to get free drinks? Guys, do you buy girls drinks at these Pickup Clubs?

[laurieluvsit]

What about clubs that let girls in for free but make guys pay a cover charge, or they give girls half price or free drinks but make guys pay full price?

A. Yes, I appreciate a guy buying me a drink so I don't have to pay for them. It makes it more fun

B. No, I don't want a guy buying me a drink unless I am really into him because then he expects something in return that I may not want to give him

Yes, if I spot a hot girl at the club than I will definitely offer to buy her a drink as a way of breaking the ice, which gives me a chance to talk with her and see if we have any chemistry that might lead to a date later, or something even sooner

D. Yes, I have bought a girl a drink at the club and ended up taking her home with me or she took me home with her

E. Clubs allow girls free cover charges or half price or free drinks to get them to the club which gets more guys to the club. I don't have a problem with that

F. I think it is discriminating against men to give girls free admission or half price or free drinks and not guys and they should stop it

G. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Pickup Club" survey

[GoodManDave]

Women get in free, which usually means if guys know that, they'll want to be around gorgeous women, so they're willing to pay. It brings women in, they're probably paying for drinks, though (make money back quick by charging 6-15 bucks for some drinks, which probably costs the club maybe a few bucks, if that). Then the guys pay to get in "exclusive" club (makes the guy "cool") and it's where all the women are! (Sure, I'll pay!) Hell, whether male or female, if they're not really interested, they get drinks and get to hang with friends.

I don't think it would work the other way around, if there were guys nights, where guys get in free and women have to pay. Women don't care enough to pay. They get hit on enough already, many of them, so they already have their egos stroked. They don't need to pay for it, especially if they feel entitled (many do; not all, but I'd say a majority), so they wouldn't pay to get in just to have guys possibly hit on them.

I haven't bought anyone a drink, usually because I prefer to get to know them first. I don't know what they even like. And usually, I'm not "enough" to see any flirting, so I wouldn't get to that point anyway. Then paying $10 for a drink (especially one that I'm not enjoying) seems ridiculous to me.

Let's say I went all out. Buy cologne, a good outfit, buying drinks, cover charges, parking fees... blowing $50-200 to get nothing but rejection, nope. Not my idea of fun.

[lightbulb27]

I don't drink and I generally wouldn't buy for someone I don't know.
But if she so impressed me in her conversation, maybe I would. It isn't a gift, a ploy, deception. She earns it with her charm, character, class, and style.

drink water girls, it tastes better and causes less problems...

[DorkVader]

I, a cute woman, chubby and plush, have always bought my own drinks UNLESS a friend buys a round or something. But I understand that I'm not the kind of girl guys are picking up in bars. I don't have a sparkling nightlife personality. I do have drunken witty banter and I've done my best work getting something to eat after having left the bar/club.

[DorkVader]

Thanks for MHO

[mistixs]

This happens because men are more desperate. These clubs know that if women are charged as much as men, more women just won't go to the club. So they charge women less, to attract more women, which will then attract more men.

Personally I don't go to clubs. And I don't drink. I think alcohol is disgusting

[zeineboyy]

That's literally marketing 101, tinder stripclubs fuck anything to be honest

[hotolder]

Dodgy places

[MrOracle]

I only went to clubs when I was working at them (DJing or running sound for bands). I've bought maybe 3 drinks for girls (that I wasn't already involved with) in all that time. Unless you look like Ryan Gosling, buying drinks isn't likely to do a lot for you.

[fashionguy17]

Back in my early 20s, I used to frequent bars and clubs. I obviously don't anymore, unless there is a live band playing at the bar. Anywho... I NEVER got a woman a drink. Why? It's a scam. It doesn't increase your odds of getting her. I used to go to the bar with one of my female friends all the time when I was younger, and she used to go around and ask men for free drinks.

I am frugal and I am not going to invest anything into a woman I don't even know. It's funny. Back in the day, women used to call me "rude", "mean," and a "jerk"... just because I didn't buy them a drink when they asked. Those are the kind of women you don't need in your life.

[Kkaos]

That's very true. I once got a girl a water and then lectured her about the dangers of alcohol whilst I proceeded to drink a skittle bomb. Just got to have a laugh and have fun. I don't give someone something just because they're hot, they have to earn it.

[flunkiethemonkey]

I'm only going into a club by getting bottle service. I'm serving drinks because if I bring girls back to the table, I have manners. I never make anyone feel like they owe me something because they don't. If they leave, I'm glad to have met them, I'm glad to have met them, share a drink and hopefully some conversation, and I hope they have a good rest of the night.

[Robertcw]

These things are very regional. Each bar had it's own culture and vibe-- and doing well in one one way doesn't mean you'll do well in any bar.

The local city, who lives there, the bar owners and the tone and culture they create all matter. As well as the age of the women, and your age. Hell, even education level plays a huge role.

There is no universal.

That said, lower efucation levels usually imply more ghetto culture, more bias against white guys, more emphasis on height, showing off and brand names as well as hair styles and facial hair.

Higher education levels usually places more emphasis on similar ages, similar education and similar income.

College bars typically focus on similar ages and at high ranking colleges (Top 20 schools) similar latent intelligence or being students at the same school matters a lot. Money and income means nothing at college bars. Etc.

[OjosOscuros3]

It was fun when I first started going out, but not when I realized that they were wanting something in return. I think I was naive. I genuinely thought some guys were trying to show a group of gals a fun time with no added pressures lol.

[laurieluvsit]

I know, it's sad to find these things out unexpectedly sometimes :(

[KrakenAttackin]

Seriously? You thought men just wanted to throw expensive drinks at you for nothing? Wow, just wow.

[OjosOscuros3]

@KrakenAttackin Umm yeah I was a 21 year old virgin who didn’t believe in sex before marriage, had church the next morning, and just wanted to go dancing with my friends.

[KrakenAttackin]

OK, here is a news flash -- Men want sex (FULL STOP).

[OjosOscuros3]

@KrakenAttackin OMG NO KIDDING THANKS FOR TELLING ME. I would have been so lost without this newsflash. I’m 31 years old now and so much has changed but thanks for letting me know. Gosh, good thing my husband still agreed to marry me. He gets sex as often as he likes but man if you hadn’t told me this I don’t know where I’d be.

[KrakenAttackin]

I'm happy to help.

[Marinaughty]

I don't like guys buy drink n give it to me, who knows what kinds of drug they put into it. I saw it by my own eyes that one guy put some no color liquid in a drink he bought n give it to her n she was so happy n appreciate it. I also don't like guy tell me what to drink or what to do because he will think he deserves something in return.

[ImSparkly]

I'd feel like I owed someone, bigly, if he refreshed my Macallan 18. I also don't trust drinks brought to me by anyone other than a server/bartender. And also, dont order for me, I can choose my own, and sure as hell don't want a glass of Pinot Grigio -- I might think differently in my 50's.

[KrakenAttackin]

Macallan 18, nice.

I once had a glass of Macallan 30 mixed with 14,000 year old ice.

[NavyVelvet]

Lol, no. As a woman, I might spend $150 on clubbing shoes, $150 on a dress, $100 on makeup and a ton of time on my hair. If a guy actually bought me a drink that was worth the effort I put in, it would be a $500 bottle of wine, not a $20 cocktail.

[zeineboyy]

Bigch u dressed up for yourself not him what an entitled 304

[Minato157]

Entitled asf

[KrakenAttackin]

Wow, you sound like a real "prize".

[NavyVelvet]

@KrakenAttackin my efforts are worth a lot more than some cheap ass drink.

[KrakenAttackin]

No, honey, they are not. This IS the point. You aren't ENTITLED to ANYTHING because you got all slutified and are parading around a bunch of horney men. Zeineboyy is right, you are a pure attention 304.

[NavyVelvet]

@KrakenAttackin Who says I am "slutified"?

[zeineboyy]

Put 304 in a calculator and flip that upside down that's what she is

[Minato157]

@NavyVelvet You’re a hor

[Minato157]

Hoe*

[laurieluvsit]

@Minato157 You are violating GAG rules Mr Minato, you are suppose to be nice.

Please stop. If you are reported very often for this, you will be banned by Administration.

Be nice please.

[Minato157]

But she isn’t nice either.

[laurieluvsit]

@Minato157 She's simply stating her opinion. She isn't attacking anyone.

[Minato157]

But the other dudes are using thr same word

[laurieluvsit]

@Minato157 They will all receive notice of this post since they have replied to this string. You just happened to be the last one to reply that way so is why I replied to you, but it applies to all.

I want everyone to feel safe on my posts to state whatever opinion that they want to as long as they are not being rude or attacking anyone... sound fair? :)

[Minato157]

Yeah sorry

[laurieluvsit]

@Minato157 Thank you, you really are nice. I like you :)

[Minato157]

I like you too

[zeineboyy]

I'd never add a bitch on sc Instagram or anywhere else if you add me I'd block u, unless ur a relative im dongle with 304 period, if you don't know what that means out 304 in your calculator and flip that bitch upside dowñ

[Minato157]

Dude she ain’t a bitch

[laurieluvsit]

@Minato157 ... :)

[NavyVelvet]

@zeineboyy Look, my answer was a little hyperbolic (I don't actually expect someone to spend $500 on a bottle), but you do need to think about the return on investment. If I spend a lot of time looking nice and grooming myself, it's a slap in the face to think that I can be "bought" for only $10-$20. I'm sure that there are tons of low-maintenance women who are fine with that and might go home with men for that amount, that's just not me and that's not most women.

[zeineboyy]

Bitch u dumb as hell I spend 10 hrs a week in a gym put on stylish clothes and get 20$ haircuts every month , and I don't get shit but unlike your hypergamous ass I don't GIVE A FUCK because I don't put on shit to impress overs that's what a week minded manipulative bitch does like yourself.

[zeineboyy]

And minato shut you beta blue pulled ass up nigga, nigga do you know why these bitches go to the club it's to get FUCKED, and you other here oh she's not a bitch , not don't get it twisted I'm not saying all girls who go to clubs are bitches but the majority are so YES nigga she a bitch and she'll manipulate your beta ass to by her drinks while she goes and fucks the alpha mofo who treats her like the bitch she is

[Minato157]

Why are you so triggered.

Pic of me: https://imgur.com/a/zRmataa

I have no trouble in getting girls.

[zeineboyy]

Because u stupid 😂

[zeineboyy]

And don't send me pics of you gay ass nigga

[Minato157]

Stupid? My boy is jealous.

[Minato157]

Bro ure getting banned for being offensive

[NavyVelvet]

@zeineboyy You don't try to impress others? Because it sure looks like you're trying to show off your body/hairdo in your avatar. And men's haircuts are less expensive. Also, I'm not sure why you're calling me a manipulative bitch when I seemed to have made it clear that I'm not at a club for drinks. I'm not a movie star who goes to events where I get to be "done up", so going to a club is a good outlet to look sexy and wear a fitted dress.

[Minato157]

@NavyVelvet He is jealous of me looks.

[zeineboyy]

😂😂if you blue pilled you don't know why but if you red pilled you know why

[Kit_Kat88]

@navyvelvet I don’t blame you! I’d prefer if a guy bought me a $500 bottle of wine but I never go home with anyone cause I don’t have one night stands

[Kit_Kat88]

Guys on here need to calm down. So hateful 😒

[Minato157]

@Kit_Kat88 I already apologized. What she said just seemed a bit rntitled. I don't know about this zeinrboyy dude tho. He is probably just jelly.

[laurieluvsit]

@Minato157
zeineboyy has been blocked.

[Minato157]

Good

[KrakenAttackin]

@zeineboyy Yup, yup, and yup. Women seek attention like a crack-head seeks the next rock -- seriously, the addiction is just as strong. This is why I find it hard to take so many women seriously.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Kit_Kat88 The brutal sexual teasing behaviour of women is enough to make younger men crazy. When men get a little older we have learned what women like you are really all about. You are spending the best and most fertile years of your life riding the c@ck carousel, than you hit 30 and thing "OMG, what have I done"!!

I have seen PLENTY Of women I went to HS and college with who did exactly what you are doing, and the final joke is really on YOU.

[NavyVelvet]

@KrakenAttackin Alright, calm down Incel.

[KrakenAttackin]

Awesome, as predicted the "incel" remark comes out. Isn't it interesting women get shamed for having "too much" sex and men get shamed for not having "enough" sex?

Also, honey, I am certain I have had better pooty than your worn out baby chute.

[NavyVelvet]

@KrakenAttackin Well, that "cock carousel" comment is pretty predicable as well... I've seen that term thrown away way too often on forums by bitter men who were wronged by a woman at some point in their lives. You do sound like a stereotypical Incel!

[KrakenAttackin]

You are such a cliche. The girl who spends all of this time and money to be "hot", so you can get a huge amount of male attention, have lots of sex with many different men; and by age 30 you will be screaming "where have all the good men gone".

Bottom line, women like you age like milk. You are using your highest Sexual Market Value years to party hard with no concept of the price you will pay for it later. Guess what honey, the good men married good women in their 20's. The same men you ignored because you are "too hot" to be with them. Instead you let your holiest vessel become grand central station, wracking up the mileage, and you will be shocked, SHOCKED, when a high-value man doesn't want to pay full price for damaged and used good.

The joke is on you, it always was.

[Minato157]

@KrakenAttackin Ok dad

[KrakenAttackin]

@Minato157 You need your Dad to reach you about women.

[Minato157]

I see him like once a year. I live with my mom and sister.

[NavyVelvet]

@KrakenAttackin You should really stop watching YouTube videos shitting on women. And, excuse me, I'm a woman in her 20's and most of the options out there for men are absolutely terrible. This goes both ways. If men are going to shit on how bad women are, I'm absolutely allowed to say most men I encounter are underemployed, have poor social skills, are not very attractive and many of them are misogynists like you.
Also, what makes you think I'm a "cliche"? Did I write that I go out clubbing once a week? Does it seem like I'm trying to make my life out to be Club Med? No! And does it really seem like I'm going out of my to blow a bunch of money to be "hot" and have sex with random men? Did you not understand my comment earlier that I go out of my way to look nice at a nightclub because I don't get the chance to do that in real life? It's a fantasy. I was actually a virgin until I was 21. I've had sex with two men. That's it. I actually feel sorry for whatever woman winds up with you.

[Minato157]

I agree 100%

[KrakenAttackin]

@Minato157 Thank you Captain Save-A-Hoe...

[KrakenAttackin]

@Minato157 It doesn't matter, the internet world is a pure gynocracy with rules enforced by the PC police and white knights.

[Minato157]

@KrakenAttackin Dad stop treating young women like trash!

[KrakenAttackin]

@Kit_Kat88 Would you have the slightest idea what a $500 bottle of wine or scotch looked or tased like? This kind of fine spirits is wasted on women like you.

[Minato157]

Dude you are attacking her. What did she do to you?

[KrakenAttackin]

OK, that strongly implies that you do have a price. For how much can you be bought? How much to take you home for some in-out-in-out?

[Minato157]

I don’t agree with her bs but you’re attacking her.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Minato157 Women CANNOT teach boys how to be Men. You need to seek a solid male role-model who can show you how to chart your unique and masculine course. Best of luck.

[Minato157]

I love being around girls. I have ben around them my whole life. I

[Unirocks]

Nope. I don’t let a guy pay for my drink, ever. I’ve personally gone and told servers to not give me drinks when they tell me someone has sent them over.

I don’t see the point honestly. I don’t need someone to buy me a drink

[KrakenAttackin]

Good for you!

[Pamina]

I didn't really go to "pick up clubs" when I was still partying a lot. I usually went to normal clubs.

[laurieluvsit]

No one ever picks up anyone at a "normal club"?

[Pamina]

Haha, of course it happens a lot too! But you said "pick up clubs" so I assumed that refers to those mainstream clubs where the bouncer decides who gets in and nonsense like that, and that music is basically just the Pop/Hip Hop/EDM charts.

[Pamina]

*the

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, I see what you are saying :)

[motownplayer2000]

If I did go, it would probably be a two drink max. For anyone one I tried to pick up. I'm not investing a whole lot of money in some cherry picking women if they just intend to receive free things and not try to truly get to know me, or at least have a little fun at the end of the night. You can really tell a women's true intentions as soon as you cut her off.

[erandal]

When I was in my 20's, that is exactly what me and my friends did. Most weekends we only had to get ourselves to the club and the rest of the evening was paid for. Sometimes we got lucky, met somebody nice and got our ride home too !!

[KrakenAttackin]

Wow, being a female is so, so, easy. You women have no idea.

[KrakenAttackin]

I always hated women like you.

[Scenario24]

Not sure what "pickup clubs" are. I only started going out clubbing when it came to my best friend or a guy I was seeing at the time invited me to go. Currently I go out clubbing with my best friend and or boyfriend and their friends. I probably had gotten one free drink from a friend of my best friend, he had VIP and a whole bottle and offered us some other than that I would never ask for a drink.

Getting high is better than drinking anyway.

[taleets]

I go to clubs to dance. I always get free drinks. Sometimes I go to meet guys but usually I don’t end up finding anyone I’m interested in so I end up home alone.

[Buckzor]

Of course they do, same with food.

Literally can drink and eat for free as an attractive woman these days, and make money by posting nudes or selling snapchat premium etc

[lunalv]

I had friends who were cheap and didn’t want to pay for drinks. So if guys come over then they flirt up a storm to get drinks, which then they immediately find an excuse to run and escape. Me on the other hand, think it’s a total waste of my energy and time. Ain’t no body got time for that when you’re older

[Mjghost]

Is never the girls fault! I’m serious. If you understand the biology of men and women you’d know is always the fault of men.
Guys throw themselves at girls and give them free drinks and they take it. What humans refuses free sh*t!

[blutwolfe]

where I'm at there is no ladies night, it's just free drinks night, girls and guys. I would never buy a lady a drink I'm too much of an alcoholic or something. I have had some buy me a beer though

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

The 70% of guys who picked G. Other wanted a option that said "No, I don't buy a girl drinks at a bar."

[Anonymous]

Enough women have bragged to me and laughed as they told me that they don't have to spend money at clubs because thirsty men will buy them for them, for me to know that that's a stupid idea. So no, it's something I never did when I was single.