As a guy he could (foolishly) think you might say no, when clearly if you are holding his hand you like him back and the answer could only be yes, so he could be really nervous, I mean try and kiss him perhaps? Its a bit weird tbh, because it would be obvious to me and anyone I know that you would say yes. So what does he mean the right time? I mean if I like a girl and she liked me then why not? The only time I would reconsider is because I am at college would the relationship impact my grades, or when I start a job the first 3 years would leave me with no time.
I can't see the reason why he would wait unless
A) there is a reason
b)he is really nervous/shy
dont worry though you both know you like each other so the hard bits done!
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:) Haha, you have nothing to worry about. Depending on what kind of guy he is, you may need to spell it out to him that you're interested in him so that he will ask you out. Back with my first girlfriend, it was clear that I liked her and she liked me. However, I still didn't have the guts to ask her out because in my head I always wondered..what if she doesn't feel the same way. Eventually she basically said she would say yes to me "if" I asked her out..that finally was enough for me to ask her out hahahaha. Maybe he isn't quite sure you feel the same way about him and doesn't want to mess up a good thing. Since you said you guys having talked about dating and stuff maybe you should bring this up the next time you talk.
He could just be nervous, does he know how you feel about him? When I began to read this question I thought he could be a player who's just leading you on but as I read on it didn't sound like that. Has he been out or asked out many girls before? Because he could just be worried about losing you as a friend and making things awkward in case you don't like him back. There could be many reasons, so try not to worry your self xx
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