Have you ever been told by the opposite sex that you’re too much OR not enough for them? (Page 2)

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I met this dude yesterday. He did a bunch of impersonations and had there been a wall between us, it wouldve been hard to guess if he was black, white, hispanic, etc because of how convincing they all sounded. You would've really thought he wouldve been using the ghost face voice translator with all the stereotypical tones of voice and shit he was doing/saying. 😂  He then proceeds to “sound like a black guy” (and of all things only speaks gang gang) and goes on to say that black women have always been either too much for him or not enough so that he prefers to just date outside his ethnicity. He then continues on to say that they're either too ghetto or too white acting and that its hard to find a middle ground. Then has the nerve to say that im finally that middle ground that he can be himself with because his real voice turned out to sound “educated as hell” as he claims but really the looney sounded like a damn Steve Urkel or Einstein or some shit. But Lmao dude really tried to proceed to flirt with me after saying that shit. He really thought I was gone give him the time of day after he practically dissed his own ethnic race to my face.  And the ninja wonder why we be looking to date outside our race too half the time 🤦‍♀️ But honestly, even with the stupid shit his ass said, i’ll always prefer my own race first (just not with this dude) because I don't know it makes me feel at home. doesn't mean i won't marry/date another ethnicity. But if you gave me a ken doll of every ethnicity and they all looked alike aside from skintone then i’d choose the one who relates to my culture the most 🤷‍♀️  Lmao I won't lie. I felt triggered as shit. He made me feel like no one outside my race ever made me feel. Shit i Had to go listen to these 4 songs after. Beyonce really just understood me at the moment with “Dont Hurt Yourself” (see below)  😄  #FeelFreeToList #RaceDebates #Heelarious #TheDesiiDiaries

Jjpayne · Answer

I have yet for a girl to go out of her way to impress me. But it's more likely than not that get passed over quite a bit

SarahsSummer · Answer

Im having a tough time understanding your rant. Are you saying he insulted you with his impersonations?

ManOnFire · Answer

Wow, what an asshole. Yeah, I was told by my ex that I wasn't enough for her. That was just her excuse she used to justify cheating with the next guy.

Lemia · Answer

Constantly by every girl I like. I can't handle your problems, You'll make our babies defective, Your too kind, your too nice. Etc

ultimega · Answer

What an complete self righteousness twatty arsehole. You should of told him about his A to Z. I had guys say more about physical appearance more than race but most black guys dont like me anyways.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

No, but I have certainly felt like I wasn't enough at times.

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

Yes. I've been rejected because a woman assumed I said 6'4" instead of 5'4" and overlooked it. Was online flirting with her for 4 or 5 months constantly.

lookin64 · Answer

Well I have been told that I really wasn't their cup of tea because of my nationality

Phoenix98 · Answer

Pretty much always the latter, despite how hard I try.

soleil2666 · Answer

Too much, quite a few times. Less of my attention and involvement was expected for things to come across as natural. Which is for the most part a valid point.

justcurious2019 · Answer

i can honestly say that i was never told so far by the opposite sex that i'm too much or not enough for them

XavierSteele · Answer

Been told both I don't even know where to go with that

Shamalien · Answer

Your profile pic looks like a chick with a long squiggly jafar beard .. which is awesome. It looks better when u zoom in tho lol

green1supremacy · Answer

Yes. I have been called too deep multiple times. I honestly believe that's the international, your right and I'm wrong but I don't want to admit it phase... But what do I know

Gsm24diecast · Answer

if someone would say such things id start dancing infront of them singing this song

Anpu23 · Answer

Certainly, I've lived a pretty wild life. And it has been a little more than many people can take.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I've never been told that.

DanZaan · Answer

I'd date any non-lesbian woman/trans-woman if our tastes match and she shares my interests.

notshyguy1985 · Answer

You seem mixed race not of 100% West African descent. It looks like you have some Native American and European.

rajesh_leo · Answer

I don't take the girl to the bed if I smell disrespect for me. I can't enjoy sex with someone who is a lier or who has big attitude.

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