How long did your longest crush last?

[beebella]

And do you believe that if you have a crush on someone for more than 4 months that it means you're in love? 🤔

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+1 y

I'm glad that we can all agree that a crush that lasts longer than 4 months doesn't equate to love. 👍

[mickcurious]

As an old couple told me one time I said how are you all stay together for so long what is your secret they said and I quote being in love isn't what counts. You can love somebody and not like them, they said you want a long-lasting relationship you better like that mother f***** if y'all don't like each other so you're going to be miserably in love or miserable because you love somebody you don't like that's no good for anybody but if you like the person you're with and you love every minute of being with them

[Smccoy217]

Haha going on 20 years? I always had a thing for her, but she never really liked me back. Which that's whatever I was a dork in high school anyway. Haha doesn't mean I don't think she's cute, but its not as extreme as it was in high school.

[Cynicaldreamer]

About 6-8 months? I was really falling for him too!

Until he made it very clear he wanted to be friends when I told him I liked him? Yeah he friendzoned me 🤦‍♀️

I've yet to have a crush that developed into more... I think that's why they're called "crushes." They crush your heart, lol

[pleasestopthis]

I had a crush for 3 years or so... and I don't believe it's love if it's long.
I know people who had a long crush on "the one that got away" and once they got together they realized it was just infatuation.

[Apple1996]

Longest crush was maybe a few months and no I dont think that's love it's more a obsession at that point

[Cynicalman1937]

But your married aren't you?

[baconninjadc]

I had a crush on Heather from the age of 17 and until about 30 granted I never acted on it it was more of a crush from a distance I just loved her eyes. The feeling was not mutual so I never pursued her I just admired her from afar. I didn't dwell on it too much because I was busy with other women but every now and then I would think of her

[sd1223]

2 years and nothing became of it. He found I was into him junior year and I found out he wanted to talk to me but was too shy.
Senior year he was liking someone else who wasn’t into him and then on top of that he didn’t want a girlfriend anyways. So I‘ve been over it, done, and moved on. On the bright side when he found out I wanted to go to prom with him, he actually considered it but he ended up not going period.

[ProfoundNflawed]

One and a half years 😂 and I was and am still wondering whatever I saw in him... He's short and stout lol I can't help but laugh when I think I was in love with this guy for so long.
And the second crush was on a very handsome guy and later on I came to know that he had a crush on me too that was the best feeling everand we started dating but unfortunately we only lasted for 2 months

[loveslongnails]

A crush starts, very simply, as lust. Pure lust. IF you get a chance to know the person, and you interact with them for more than 4 months, it doesn't mean you "love them". There are a whole lot of possible scenarios at that point, but "love" is the most unlikely.

[Gedaria]

My first one really was our french teacher. Sex on legs it should never have happened getting a teacher like in front of a bunch of 12year old boys. We had he for french for 2years, she had the sexyist french accent, nearly wet my pants every lesson. Still got a photo of her some where...

[TallGuy96]

3 years and counting, i met her online we had some fights then we were friends again, we still light flirt from time to time, but I don't know why i still think about her we aren't even that good at communicating i'm just attracted to her personality somehow and can't forget her.

[Hurlyburly]

I do not believe in the existince of love outside of long duration relationships. You simply do not know each other good enough beforehand for love to really develop. My longest crush lasted somewhat over a year I think

[Aubrearn]

I crush on a person until they either reject me or I move on to someone cuter &/or cooler. My last crush lasted about 6 weeks. It ended because I got the hint that he wasn't interested, & our winter class ended, so I literally moved on

[DurpDre]

Love, no... infatuated with, yes. To crush on someone is different than knowing someone. And I feel there are several stages to get to being in love for someone, and knowing them is one of those. And remember that being in love and having love for someone is two separate things

[stranger98devil]

4-5years, time never affect love, it can be love if you still have crush on that person after 4 months and also if you don't have crush anymore. Then also you can love someone.

[NickiB1]

if you have a crush longer than a month you're pregnant and should be married

[beebella]

Oh shit.. 😳

[NickiB1]

I'm not raising your baby😡😡😡

[beebella]

I'm not raising my baby either.. 👀

[NickiB1]

good. glad he settled that.

[NickiB1]

i don't remember agreeing to that🤔

[beebella]

Ohh.. my bad. 😶

[NickiB1]

you made me feel bad😔

[beebella]

I didn't mean to make you feel bad. 😭

[NickiB1]

it's okay i forgive. I'm just gonna go cry on my giant teddy bear for the next 2 weeks.😭😭😭

[beebella]

No, don't cry. 😭

[NickiB1]

okie.

[beebella]

Thank you.

[NickiB1]

no problem daughter

[CherryRoseChampange]

4 years lol, and no I don't think I'm in love with someone if I have a crush on them for more than 4 months.

Love is a while lot harder for me to catch I guess.

[CherryRoseChampange]

*whole

[R_ūshī]

I had a crush on my best friend when I was a kid. We grew up and drifted apart. We don't even talk anymore. He's still my crush.

[R_ūshī]

it's been about 11 or 12 years

[ZeussLightningBolt]

HOLY SHIT

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Cute. lol

[R_ūshī]

@ZeussLightningBolt When we left primary school and were in highschool, my classmates in highschool knew him. He was a popular guy.

He was dating a girl who was cheating on him according to them. They were very gossipy girls. One day they were talking about him and they said "Why is he dating her? She isn't pretty or kind. Yk who he should've been with?" And they all turned and stared at me. I turned red.🙃

They shipped us for like 2 years.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

LOL.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I'm STILL crushing on the girl from the 6th grade. Holy fuck she's even hotter now then back in high school. How tf does that even happen?

[ZackBan]

I came in here to write 5 years thinking I'm gonna stand out but it seems it's that way for everyone. So much for feeling special

[Lynx122]

like seven years but it was on a celebrity though. I haven't had a crush like that on anybody I know.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

My longest crush was over a year , i was in love with this girl
and i was attracted to her , this lasted over a year , i nearly died
i was so in love with her

[aly34]

Then what happened

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@aly34 Well loss contact with her and never was able to find her
but i do see her on Facebook but I'm afraid to contact her don't
know why?

[aly34]

Why dont u contact her. try

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@aly34 I'm shy and scared on how to approach her
it's been 23 years , wonder if she still remembers me?

[aly34]

I think u should try... try to overcome your shyness. if she doesn't remember u, it will be a new start... send her friends request on facebook

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@beebella It took me a long time to get over my crush , yes it was just too much for me

[JackSmy]

"Crush" seems like a kid's thing. Maybe taking some time, getting to know her, and discovering some interesting, wonderful things, and then asking her out, for a great time, and a wonderful conversation? Then dating?

[hellacray]

I don't know like 4 months? But at the time she went to a different school and she ghosted me quite a bit when we were chatting on FB.

So... Eventually I got over her.