From 15yo till 18 yo I was desperately in love with a guy from my class - George. For me it was love at first sight. We were friends, going home from school together every day, he was always sitting behind me in classes and he'd give me a light tap on my back to turn around so he could tell me something. We'd sometimes go out for coffee and to concerts together, but usually with other friends, too. He was often inviting me for his band's rehearsals. Whenever we accidentally met, I'd run to hug him, and he would say "Oh come on Sonja, you know I don't like to be touched". I remember when I first met his mother, she told him "So I finally meet her" 😮 I'd always hear from people that he said something nice about me, so I thought he liked me back but that he just didn't know how to tell me or what to do. Only compliments I've ever gotten from him were that I was brave and rebellious. I don't think he ever complimented a girl's looks. At some point I became super annoyed with him not doing anything about it, while he was the only character in all of my fantasies, and I decided to start being mean to him. On his 18th birtday I was flirting with one of his friends. All the time George was walking around us, trying to hear our conversation. That guy later asked him for my number, but George told him "No, bro, she's a lady, she's too good for you". However, I bumped into that guy once at a concert and we started dating, but I broke up with him after a couple of months. George and I remained friends even after we graduated, but as I stopped seeing him every day, he wasn't on my mind all the time anymore. I've dated many guys and he has still never kissed a girl, he didn't even make any new female friends. Occasionally I still start feeling crazy attraction towards him, but I don't do anything about it, I don't hug him when we meet, and I try not to look into his eyes for too long. He has a lot of fan girls, but he told me it feels like a burden for him. I am acting in his band's new music video. 😊
Between one and two years. He was a guy at my school and funnily enough I never noticed him until 11th grade. We had some friends in common so we spent some time together on our school trip. I didn't have the balls to make a move tho. A year later, after finals when school was finally over I finally had the balls to ask him out since I wouldn't have to see him again if I got rejected - and that's exactly what happened. He basically friendzoned me, told me that I was a nice girl but that I wasn't his type. But that's okay. It only strengthened me and I learned how to deal with rejection.
Uh my longest crush was my freshman through my senior year even though he graduated two years before I really really liked him, maybe even loved him lol for Valentine’s Day I made him a giant cookie shaped as a heart.
But he never did return my feelings, I gave him a letter tell him how I felt but he said he’d rather be friends which was totally okay with as long as we still talked I was happy but after that he never ever talked to me again which kind of hurt a lot.
The longest crush I had was Doctor Lady. I helped her as she went to George Washington University studying to become an MD so she could go into Pediatric Neurology. Amazing woman to be honest but it's been a very long time since I've seen or heard of her. She was probably the only person I'd convert to Christianity for, legitimately, passionate, capable, strong and full of life no one I've met since has come close to Doctor Lady.
There are other professional men and women I helped but they all were so severely flawed and fragile that I'm certain half of them won't make it and a half of whoever is left will be lackluster when they do. They just have high ideals but Doctor Lady, "M", I could sing her accolades for a day and a night and still not cover everything.
She actually helped people. That's what I loved the most about her; she didn't "wish" she could, she did, she told me of her exploits, we spoke while she was doing things in other countries, she got me into real volunteerism and getting me to be a positive force in the world.
Oh well, she's gone, back into the wretched state of a miserly and hateful shadow of a man I go! :D
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Anonymous
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Buckle up. Cause its long rant.
I was practically in love with this girl during my bachelor studies. First year, she didn't know I existed. Next year onwards, she was forced to be in my group for group work (because of our serial numbers). But nothing happened, because i was still too chicken to talk to her. In 3 rd year, she started talking to me and i was over the moon. We quickly became best friends. I had another best friend, who also became her friend.
But turns out, they were secretly hooking up. And the only reason they 'tolerated' me was because it was minimum 3 person per group and they wanted to be in a group where they could completely shun the third guy.
I don't know what happened, and how long they lasted after our bachelor studies (i know that they are not together though), but knowing what she did was enough to get over her.
As for my other friend, he apologized and tried to make amends after he broke up with her. But i couldn't bring myself to forgive them.
Tldr 10 years I had this massive crush on this girl back in hs we dated a bit but nothing came of it at the time we'll before you know it 10 years go by I had a few girlfriends non note worthy she had a few boyfriends and had a kid we stayed in touch the whole time until a year ago she invites me over one night and you can guess what happened well the friends with benefits thing continued for about a month and all the old feeling came back fast and I said those 3 words to her at first she didn't say it back I thought that I fuck everything up she was sweet about it and everything but low and behold 2 weeks later we were in her backyard she was kinda fidgety and nervous trying to say something to me and she said it back!! A few months later we found out she was pregnant so I proposed and she accepted to day we are engaged to be married In 2019 and we have a beautiful baby boy
I used to like a guy who's 8 years older than me (I was 12, he was 20 lol) for 11 months. It was love at first sight lol (again)! We met each other at church camp last year and he was my camp master. 2nd day at camp, I already liked him but I tried to refuse it cuz I know I don't have chances with him and he only treated me as his little sister. We hugged, he carried me when I hurt my leg, we said "I love you" to each other and he said I was beautiful but that's nothing. We're not seeing each other anymore since after the camp cuz he lives in a countryside while I live in London. I don't know why I still liked him even though we don't see each other anymore for months, now a year.
I think I've, honest to god, experienced my first crush in the past month. And, while it hold no light to the flames of the other stories, I can honestly say it's already been wild. After what feels like I had been lead on (we even went on a couple of dates), I'm looking for ways to slowly get over it. Crushes are just so. . . crushing, haha!
I have been in love with a girl since I was 12.. We are both about to turn 40. (yeah my age on here is f'd up it auto pulled it from somewhere else)
But this woman has been the love of my life since puberty and she knows it. She doesn't see me that way and you can't help who you love, so I don't hate her for it. But it was painful to see her go through douche bags who were ugly and had the personality of a rock, especially since I am everything she says she wants in a life partner. (*She wants a "Notebook" style love) I am 5'8" 175lbs, spend 3 hours a night 5 nights a week at the gym. I cook, clean, do laundry, I am kind, intelligent, stable. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs. I don't watch sports or do any of the meathead testosterone driven crap. But as I said, you can't help who you love. I moved on with my life 10 years ago and got married, but she will always be in my heart.
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Anonymous
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So this guy and I had gone to the same school forever kindergarten through high school. Somehow we never actually talked even though he was friends with all of my friends. His freshman year he had a huge glow up. It was one of the biggest glow ups and everyone was talking about it and that's when i really noticed him. I thought he was the hottest guy ever and was super in lust. My whole sophomore year old he was my biggest crush solely based on looks. Turns out my junior year we actually met and he instantly had feelings for me. Not too long after we started dating
I had a crush on a classmate for 4 years. He was a football player in school team. It was fun to be crushing on him and almost half of my class and seniors were crushing on me... We separated after school... after that boys had crush on me before I had on any.. I always got whom I put my finger on to 😂
I’d say about 2 years... it sucks because I really liked this boy.. like to an extremity but I never approached him bc I was too shy. Now I moved away to another state, and I still feel like I like him but it’s not like there’s anything I can do about it now 😢
I think it's been a year now. She's beautiful. A bit overweight, I don't care! When she drops her hair down and flies in the wind, my eyes pop out my head and heart pump in love. She's a PETA woman. To free the whales. I, ORCA thing. See her downtown all the time.
6-7 years. Since she moved and transferred into my elementary school, I liked her. I finally decided to talk to her and ask her out, and long story short, we're together now, and hoping to take things to the next level.
4 year long crush. I moved on with distance and time. It helps that I didn’t really talk to him so it was a silent crush lol. When I went off to college I literally didn’t think of him again. I met so many new people that I barely remembered him
5 years. All through elementary and middle school. He found out, but it wasn’t too awkward. Just saw him today. He and his wife are having a baby. To be honest, I felt super awkward.
I had a crush on a guy for 2 years. I reminded myself of all his flaws but I always ended up being fidgety around him. The worst is I told him about my feelings (Jesus why) but added that I don't want a relationship with him (Oh boy). It's been a year and half now and I don't give a fuck about him. Now I have someone I love the hell out of. Makes me laugh how stupid I had been.
My longest crush started when i was in year 6 and it lasted till i was in year 9. But after that my crushes last rarely over a month. And its been over 1 year since i had a crush on someone
2 years i loved a girl I've been friends with for 14 years, she never saw me as anything but a brother. It hurt, then out of the blue dated some guy she knew for for a month a week after rejecting me which sucks
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