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My longest crush was for 3 years.
He was always present and as the time went by I started to like him even more and more. For some reason, I couldn't forget him. I start having a crush on him from the first time I saw him.
One day when we were on the 12th grade, he saw me and noticed that I was sad. Then he approach me and asked me to marry him and offered me a rose. I was so nervous and embarrassed that I start to laugh. He kept a serious expression on his face. After that I felt so bad with myself and I wanted to apologize him. But I didn't, because I didn't have the guts.
On another occasion, I receive a phone call from a girl who was from my class and she passed the phone to someone I didn't know. The conversation went so well and he was so nice to me! Later I found out that the person I was talking to was my crush. It was amazing!
He went to to prom and asked me to dance with him 3 times and so I did dance with him. When I was leaving I told him that I liked to dance with him, he said that he liked too and kissed my hand. He made my day and I couldn't believe it!
On the following year, I was at the mall with my mother and I saw someone who looked like him with a girl. And it was really him. I started to think that she was his girlfriend. I told this story to a friend, she checked his FB profile and she found out that they were a couple. I got so angry and sad at the same time, but I decided to accept it and forget him.
Last year, I found out that he went to same college as me. I saw him a few times, but I didn't spoke to him. I guess he didn't remember me. And everytime I saw him, I remembered how happy he made me.
So, this is my story. Sorry for the long text.
When I was 8 years old I met this boy at my christian school, his name was Clint. As kids we had nothing in common, but for some reason I liked him. A lot. No matter what I did he never really noticed me but that still didn't stop me and trust me i did everything. A few years passed and we both joined our schools soccer team and I became head goalie and during practice I was doing my daily admiring and BAM right in the kisser. He kicked the ball so hard at me it smacked me in the face and i wound up with a bloody nose. I had to miss the rest of practice, but I knew right then and there I liked liked him. I was a Tomboy back then and was to afraid to tell him how i felt. I wish I did because I ended up moving to another state after that and didn't see him till I was 16 and Facebook became available, when i met up with him I told him don't wait another six years to find me. . . ANOTHER SIX YEARS LATER he's gets and engaged and then married. And to this day in a way I'm still not over him I think its because like i said early I never got to tell him, but one day I'll find the one :D I hope you like my 'tragic tail' :3
My first crush was the longest crush I've ever had.
I met him when I was 10 we were best friends until he moved at age 13, and reconnected at age 15 where we confessed our feelings for each other. But never had a relationship because he moved far away. We talked for a while, I was so in love with him. I thought he was the one lol. Time passes by I've always thought about him, I would compare so many guys to him. I'm now 23 and I talked to him about a year ago, things have changed so much. He has a kid, and he is very different now. Not so much in a good way which is saddening. I've always wished him the best in life. Sometimes I wonder if I would have had a relationship with him, maybe I would have been the one to have a kid with him, or I could have changed him and led him in the right path. But who knows. He'll always hold a special place in my heart. It's strange how life works. I thought he was the one who got away, but it was me who got away, that's what he told me.
Like 2 years maybe, perhaps a bit more. Never ended up together due to my stupidity. Here's the story:
There was this girl, the most amazing girl I've ever met in my life, and she was also gorgeous. We only met in the summers, due to summer camp, and all those summers we sort of had some feelings going on, but the camp always ended too soon, so we never did anything. I didn't fell for her until the last year of summer camp. All summer we were flirting, laughing and playing around, but like other years, we didn't take things further. But, the last night, we went to this "mini" amusement park with the whole group and he were really close, holding hands and hugging. That's when I really fell for her.
We kept talking through Messenger (yeah it was long ago xD). I knew we both liked each other, but when she decided to meet, I turned it down. I was scared of screwing things up, of losing her forever. We started growing apart, she got a boyfriend, but I still loved her. Now, years later, I'm over her, after bit more than 2 years of loving her, but I've lost her; haven't talked with her for years. So that fear I had of losing her if I got into a relationship, became true because I DIDN'T get in a relationship.
This taught me a lesson to grab things whenever you have the chance; you may fuck it up, but you won't know until you do it, and if you don't, you may regret it later on (like I did).
My current one. Its been 3 years I guess haha. Well why do I think I like the person? I honestly dont know. Its for her personality I assume. I never even imaged of liking her. I was new to the school and she always used to talk to me. I was shy and i never talked back. Sometimes I found her so annoying. But then suddenly it just happened. I started liking her and we became best friends.. I am one of her closest guy friends now. Sadly she dosent like me the way I like her hahah. Oh well.
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He lasted about 3 years, all of midle school. What made it last so long was that we would flirt and joke around and have a good time and we were extremely close and everyone always thought we were dating but we never entered a relationship because my best friend was his cousin... she acted cool with it but on the last day of middle school he held my hand and I never heard from her again (Gotta admit it was clever of her to wait until the start of high school to stop being friends with me. Make it seem like its just a change of friends) Basically she wants to kill me now, she was freakishly protective of her cousin... But he would always tell me his problems and he would tease me and tickle me and it we would get into arguments sometimes. It was like a real relationship :) But it wasn't. Now that I'm not friends with her anymore and she seems to control him... He and I are like strangers now.. don't even say hi when we are near each other. Strangers with some memories I guess
Like 4&1/2 years? He was my foster brothers best friend, I met him was I was 16 but he never looked up when I was in the room or would even talk to me or in front of me & he was 5 years older, so I thought he was fucking weird with no social skills, but he was at my house everyday anyways when I was 19 my dad brought home a weight set & bench & he started working out with my brother... he was killing it & like growling he looked so hot my little teenage brain was in love so I started to like him & talk to him which freaked him out ( just small talk) eventually my brother went to prison for a year when I was 22 & after he got locked up I was out partying & ran into him said hi & he stuck to me like glue :) it ended badly last year but he'll always be special & I'll always secretly remember all his amazing qualities & our talks/time spent with each other I think he was like my version of a first love.
It's been 7 years now. No matter who I end up with, I always think of him. I also have a stupid false hope that maybe one day we will somehow end up together. I know it's likely not to happen, but a girl can hope.
I liked this person because he was pretty much perfect. He liked me for me, he always made me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. This isn't even an exaggeration. He was cute, he was funny. He was really smart. He was also very nice, but at the same time he knew to stand up for himself. He was so perfect. But I took too long to tell him how I felt. I regret it to this day. He has a girlfriend and a child now. So I am glad he's happy now, even if it's not with me.
My longest crush has been a year and 2 months. It started in August last year, and I think it lasted for that amount of time because he was just a really nice, respectful guy and that attracted me to him. Right now I feel like it's mostly faded, but I haven't seen him in a while. So when I next see him I may realise that I still like him xx
I'm not sure if I'd call this just a crush. I think it was probably something more. There were 2 guys that I liked and waited for for a period of about 5-6 years. One of them was a childhood friend that I grew up with and developed feelings for. The second one was a guy who saved me from an abusive boyfriend, so I've always had a warm place in my heart for him.
Well i met this girl at work, fell for her hard, like, can barely talk im so shaky and nervous, which is weird for me as there's not many things that im afraid of or excite me but damn, i would see her inside from the parking lot and my heart would be in my throat, it was effecting my sleep and my concentration, at one point she was ALL i could think about, so i asked her out, turned me down as she had a gf (bi), i still think about her and the last time i saw her was about 2 years ago
hmm... I think my longest crush was 5 months... I knew she liked me but I didn't want to bring it all into the light and ruin our friendship so it just went on like that and I eventually got over her (not sure how things are on her end._.) Usually when I have a crush on someone I actually try to initiate something more rather than mope around like a bum. It doesn't always succeed though ~.~ oh well
7 years ( 2007 - now)
We were class fellows in school. We were competitors as well but I was always attracted towards her. Her smile made me damn crazy.
Though she is out of contact and hence out of sight but I still miss her and have a crush cuz I feel that someday when I am gonna meet her somewhere I shall tell her this time that how she makes my heart skip a beat. :(
mine. 5 years. but at the end. he said he is not ready. so i said i have no intention to stay in ur friends circle. n i left. never heard of him since. still crushing badly for him. maybe because i have no other person to fall for. i just hope he texts me one day. still hoping though. approaching 6 years now.
2 years. He was a guy I thought was perfect and I convinced myself that his saying "hi" to me was a sign he liked me. I eventually realized he had no interest in me at all and I eventually got over him.
It's sad. It's unrequited. First love. I don't personally think it will ever go away. It's been years.
You can't change things that are not meant to be. Can't say I haven't tried. That's life. Accept it. Try to move on. It's difficult.
One year, while were friends. We then became close friends, best friends. Then entered in an exclusive relationship (I became his girlfriend)... engaged (fiancé) got married (wife)... sadly we got our marriage annulled.
2 years in high school. He had a crush on me the next year but was too shy to approach me, and I wouldn't approach him lol. In the end, we graduated from high school and didn't see each other anymore lmao
Longest crush I've had on somebody is for 9 years I've been crushing on her since 4th grade and about four years ago is when we started becoming close friends and just around last year she told me she's had a crush on me for the past 3 years and now where finally together by the way I've liked her since 4th grade and now im a senior in high skool (18 years old) so I've had this crush on her since half of my life.
my first crush ever! lasted around 4-5 years. Only really went away because I found a new crush. I feel like its a bit of a mental disorder...
1-2 months maybe? lol I'm not one to crush on a guy for a long period of time. Crushes come and go just like everything else.
longest was for eleven months reason being she was the hottest girl that i had ever had conversations with and felt chemistry with.
Two years in high school. I made it known I liked him and found out later he was gay. Then it all made sense lol
2 years, he was a very close friend who I worked with, and I couldn't get over him because I saw him all the time.
Does it count as a crush if you're dating? If so, 8 years. If not, 5 years. I crushed on him for 5 years and we've been dating for 3.
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