Yea when I was first meeting my boyfriend I was super nervous cause it was gonna be my first kiss, but when I met him and we were comfortable in the theater he just put his hand on my cheek and turned my head gently toward him and kissed me, it was so deep and sensual and i was surprised at how good it was and how natural it felt with him, like i almost immediately knew what to do, (he doesn't even know it was my first kiss) we just clicked honestly, sex is the one of the stronger aspects of our relationship. So anyway with all that said, when kissing the right person it should just feel natural, no pressure, and everything will just come to u. But i wouldn't say hand kissing is the most effective way to practice. Just practice on ur mans and ull see, ull get better, just have patience with urself
Lol, no. I tried that too since I didn't get my first kiss until I was 19 or so
... it did not help. Like at all. My first kiss was awkward and I just hoped it wasn't too bad. The guy wound up leading and teaching me from kissing him and over time as we kissed and made out more I got better!
Basically practice makes perfect. I guarantee when you're ready to kiss a guy just let him know you're a little inexperienced. Most will be happy to teach and practice with you, lol.
It's an excellent way to learn how to kiss the back of your hand. It takes a bit of courage but if it's practice because the guy might have more experience than simply go with it. If you have few expectations it can be one of the most erotic, intimate things there is. If it's with a guy who hasn't any experience- or hasn't learned from his experience just be bold, let yourself go. I. m not sure any non-sentient kiss recipient wouldn't have the improv. you need to respond. Joseph Campbell suggested "following your bliss" and seems appropriate.
You're so shyyyyyyy! :-D It's cute though. But I mean you got another human being here. I don't think even think you should 'rehearse". Just take it slow. Relax. No stopwatch here. Don't try too hard. Actually the worst kissers in my experience and my preference were trying too hard. Just keep breath fresh and don't try too hard. Take your time. "Explore", don't "perform".
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Sure. Probably everyone's done it at one time or another. Don't talk about it, just do it. What you do behind closed doors is your business.
If you go into it knowing you will probably suck but that you will figure it out then you'll be fine.
The lizard brain instinct will take over after about 10 seconds into your kissing career and you'll basically have it on lock. Also anyone willing to kiss you will not be particularly worried if you're any good at it, they just want the kiss
Same applies to sex and your job and your studies and basically everything,
Just go into it knowing you might suck but will definitely get better if you just do it
Let's just move your lips around about 90º and try it on the side of your hand.
Many years ago - way before your time- there was a ventriloquist named Senor Wences. One of the characters he created was "Johnny". Johnny's mouth was Mr Wences thumb moving to and from his forefinger. So, just pretend you are giving Johnny a smooch, slowly and gently at first, and you should be good to go.
When the time comes and you're comfortable and willing for your boyfriend to kiss you, I think you'll be pleasantly surprised how natural a thing it is to do. In other words I wouldn't overthink it too much at this point. You'll be just fine. 👍🌞
lol, interesting. I think this gives you a little perception on to how your lips work. But that's about it. It will take the right connection with a partner who is able to explain or demonstrate directly. This is another one of those... This was not taught in school things.
There are also several kind of kisses. Friendly, Family, Teasing, Flirty, Direct and several levels of intimate. The deepest is extremely sexual.
Haha kissing is awkward for everyone at first. You overthink it and then one day you notice you are not thinking about what you are doing anymore. Your question I see no harm in doing it, will it make you a movie style kisser on your first date, probably not but it won't make you the worst kisser in the world either.
I said it before and I'll say it again 😊 there is no HOW TO kiss. Kissing is natural it just happens you press your lips agaisnt another person's and you both apply a kiss at the same time. When your kisses mix together they'll make a strange sound don't be alarmed that's part of the deal just keep doing it. All you need to have is loose nerves, don't worry about it so much.
Also kissing the inside of your elbow when your arm is closed is closer to a fake mouth than your hand.
Kissing is act of love its instinctive you will know when you do it, I am also I the same boat
PS due to corona you should not do that please sorry
There's nothing to "learn" because...
1) it'll just come naturally as you do it
2) everyone kisses differently, so what one person likes, another may not. Plus it's also about what you like and how you like it. So it's more about getting to know the person you're kissing and them getting to know you.
No, that's a bit odd. Find a friend, tell them directly what you're doing. And then have fun playing arnd. Give each other pointers & keep it at that, unless you plan to take all the courses in the lesson plan? Ha, ha!
Just don't French kiss your hand, 'cause that's kinda gross (and you might get that Corona thing in the process).
But seriously, don't rush the whole kissing thing.
You'll learn when the time is right from one moment to another it'll happen and just go with the flow meaning when the physical act is taking place thats the best advice i can give that's what i did when we both had our first kiss turned out magical
I heard inside of the elbow is best. Also if you can kiss the outside of your elbow you can switch genders. The first one is true, I haven't found any evidence to disprove the second one.
Well actually it will come out naturally when you kiss a boy... you don’t need to practice it.. when you will get sexually attracted and start yo kiss, you will eventually do it...
Nothing to be desperate or embarrased about.
I miss being young and things being new.
All the feelings and excitement.
Things may not be so vivid when you are older so enjoy it.
Oh my goodness, that's the weirdest thing I've ever heard.
Is this what the world has come to ! ?
I literally did this when I was twelve because that was the most thirsty time of my life. But now I'm basically comfortable with the idea that I might be single forever.
sucks but I don't want to settle for flings
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I have trued but you just need somebody who knows how to
It is okey if you are not good at it, the other people will lead you
That is serious over thinking. Don't worry about it. No guy ever dropped a girl because she was inexperienced. If you are that bothered, accept a date offer (once lockdown ends) and snog a bit. You'll soon get the hang of it, and it might be more fun than your hand. 😉
It's not a good way to learn how to kiss another person, just the back of your hand. Accept a date when this is all over and make out in the car
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