How do you prove to someone you really like them?

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How do you prove to someone you really like them?Just by telling them? or can you "prove" it someway? xx

johnny_hustle · Accepted Answer

Guys, (not at all) but guys get it in their heads that when a girl says that she loves him, that she is just saying it, if she has yet to prove it. Keep this quote in mind. "Don't fall for words, fall for actions."

Just like I am sure some women think guys say they love them just to say it, and to not hurt their feelings, as opposed to actually meaning it.

Doing things for your man that you normally wouldn't do. Probably not even do for your own family.For example, lets just say the guys is the cook in a relationship. And that the girl is a horrible cook.But one day, for no apparent reason, his girlfriend decided to make him a nice home made meal. And without telling him, just did it and it was kind of a surprise. And to top it off she spent days learning how to prepare that special dish for him. Seeing how she doesn't know how to cook if she just whipped it up in one day it probably would've been bad. So the girl went out of her way to do something completely unexpected on any given day.

One way I like to prove that I love a girl is to buy her something out of nowhere. I don't like Valentine's day because I don't like the fact that a holiday tells me when I have to buy my girl something. With this being said, I still celebrate it, just not the way most people would go about doing it...Not to mention I think its a million times more romantic setting up a special date on August 4th (random date) when she's not even expecting it, compared to on Valentine's day when not only is she expecting it but she will probably get upset if the couple aren't on the same page about how they celebrate V-day.

GuyAdviceFromGuy · Accepted Answer

You don't need to tell them you like them, you have to act and behave in such a way where they feel that you do like them.  They have to keep thinking...does she like me? And then it becomes an obsession for them to find that out. "Prove" is a strange word, to me it implies going out of your way to get their approval or to show them that you're the one for them.  These can come across as desperate.  However, you can simply flirt, show lots of interest, be a bit of a challenge, and build lots of rapport and that should be enough

HotBabe344 · Accepted Answer

Other than telling him, you can show him. You can show you care. and you have to give to show your risking and you believe he's worth the risk. For examples, when a 'player' falls for a 'down to earth girl' normally she doesn't believe it, which makes her 'his different girl' also why he fell for her. but he would normally go out of his way to show her he likes her. He might publically do it, him being a player he's always on his game. so maybe he can humiliate himself-as in in front of everyone-say he's falling for her blah blah blah.

Corset · Accepted Answer

Theres so many different ways. Surprise him with something, anything..a gift, dinner, card, something bedroom wise. It shows your thinking of him and took the time to do something special for no reason other then to make him happy. OR just tell him how much he means to you.. that works too.

madmisskelly · Accepted Answer

By going out of your way to be good to them and to do nice things for them. You should also be honest and tell them.

Will_Phoenix · Answer

Just be yourself around them. Be genuine. Be true to who you are. Accept their flaws. Listen to what they say. Don't change any fundamental components of yourself to fit in to the their live. Don't do things you don't like merely to impress them.

Be Sincere. About who you are, what you want, how you can make them happy and how they can make you happy. Best way of proving you like anybody that is.

MrEM4N · Answer

Affection and persistence but not to an obnoxious or smothering degree. A chick who I self reliant and self confident is very sexy. Throwing yourself at someone is unattractive so try not to go too far.

htowngeorge · Answer

I think the rule is simple. If you don't lie and cheat and you have no plans to leave them, that's the answer. You generally don't want to be around or keep someone you don't care about unless their a friend just a friend.

rudybooty · Answer

I guess by sticking by them at their worse and supporting them in whatever they do..[legal]!...also with a little verbal reminder

myspacemybroke · Answer

You can tell them in a meaningful way, but it'll carry so much more weight and meaning if you show them, and that needs to comes from you.

jutman1776 · Answer

I feel like outright telling him would be too easy... but you can definitely show him you care by  helping him out with certain things, picking him up when he's down, or just simply converse with him at unexpected times. I love it when a girl surprise me by doing something very nice and and unexpected shows me she's trying and truly cares.

tmlsmurfs · Answer

telling him would certainly give it away, and if your constantly hanging around/talking to him all the time, and hint him about dating/relationship questions

question_girl · Answer

this feeling develops over time. treat them with love, trust and above all respect...and they will know.

InMyHeart · Answer

you can tell them, sure, but I think actions speak louder than words. Just support them and show them you really do care about them. you shouldn't find it hard if you actually do. it comes out naturally when you actually care for someone.

Anonymous · Answer

By giving...so you can give your time,give calls,surprise gift...etc..love is express by giving.

Blink_Again · Answer

I agree with the guys who say that just doing things for him and sticking by him even when he's going through a rough time.

Anonymous · Answer

you do things for them that only a person that truly likes them would do. telling them you like them does absolutely nothing if your actions do not show it.

Littletad · Answer

Attention. Effort to show that you care and are just... always around if she needs you.

Anonymous · Answer

By giving...so you can give your time,give calls,surprise gift...etc..love ir express by giving.

snowboarder720 · Answer

write her a guitar song!  :D

verdo · Answer

Get a tattoo with his name on it

craner2 · Answer

hg it to them in action to by saying it to them

508Ricky · Answer

Take your shirt off,

Anonymous · Answer

GIVE HIM A BJ

junkybox · Answer

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