Ladies, what are some flirting tips for young men?

[Anonymous]

[AmandaYVR]

Look up. Keep the eyes off the phone.

• Get comfortable with pauses and silence. It's best to let them breathe, and not rush the conversation. Reacting to silence will only create more awkwardness, so instead of covering up, be ok with it.
• Never answer a question with a one word answer. Expand.
• I don't know exactly how other young women feel about this, but I'd suggest limiting your use of emojis and emoticons. Elevate the conversation. Use actual grammar.
• Look to see if she's mirroring you. If you see any body postures or gestures like that, it's going well. She feels comfortable or in some way copacetic with you. (Also look at which way her feet and hips are pointing. Hint: towards you is good.)

[Anonymous]

• Be genuine
• Say hi, and try and talk about something of common ground (eg. If you are both in collage you have that, or if you work in the same place?) Then talk about interests
• Dont assume a women os not making the first move because she isn't intrested. She a) might be shy or b) she doesn't know you are so doesn't assume

[Anpu23]

I will give you the best piece of dating advice I ever got. Ready
Romance happens when the guys notice that the girls notice that the guys notice.

[nelly83]

- just be yourself
- stop being afraid of giving wOmen signals you’re interested in them. Women don’t approach , they respond.
- you only get rewarded if you take risks.
- the higher your standards are, the more likely you will stay single

[MissDawn7961]

get her attention and once you have done this , ask her her name , ask her if she is married , wink at her , smile at her , remember her name and make sure that if you like her that you get her attention and talk to her as much as you can ! thanks

[Distants]

Eye contact... eye contact... and wait another EYE CONTACT!
Smiling, cute pet names, compliments, complimenting their personality, telling them u like them!!

[modelUN242]

Smiling, asking follow-up questions, showing empathy.

[ZackBan]

Here's a tip. Don't ask a fish how to fish.

[ConstantPain]

The issue with that is the fish wants to catch in this case because it stands to benefit from it.

[ZackBan]

That's true but they have no idea what they would find attractive there and then.

That's after trial and error believe me.

Basically like when a girl says she wants a sweet and gentle man but ends up going out with assholes.
You're left wondering why. Well it's because those assholes have always been her type she just didn't know it until he walked in.

[ConstantPain]

It's because the quote and quote asshole has an effective way of selling himself. Humans buy themselves stuff they don't want or need because of manipulative salespeople. It's no different. And that's the reason I will stay single for the rest of my life.

[ZackBan]

But doesn't mean you won.
Punishing yourself with loneliness just because some people are assholes and others are too stupid to see it is not the answer.

If you truly believe that they're wrong for doing what they do then by all means go out and try to get girls in different ways. I'm pretty sure you can manage without being an asshole.

[ConstantPain]

I'm not punishing myself im just being myself and living life on my terms.

[ZackBan]

Hey man if you're happy then I'm happy for you.

I just happen to have done the exact same thing a few years back and now I'm paying catch-up wasn't my smartest choice.

But to each his own I guess.

[ConstantPain]

I'm not happy im just making the best of a bad situation. Just like someone who is born disabled would.

[ZackBan]

The disabled has no choice but you do.
Trust me a guy in a chair wou give anything to walk again.
You have the chance to be the stud you always wanted to be and it's unfair to yourself not to try making the most of it

[ConstantPain]

Negative somethings you can't fix unfortunately trying teaching a sociopath to care someone besides himself it's impossible

[ZackBan]

You don't have to care it's a lot simpler. It is in the end a selfish act to seek the comfort of someone else.
Believe me those who pretend it's about more than their own satisfaction are lying to themselves we all seek the acknoledgment of being wanted by someone. Sociopath or not it applies.

[ConstantPain]

Idc about being selfish at all if I could. I just want to exploit a woman for her money, but I will not engage in any disgusting vulgar acts like coitus.

[Roseinbloom]

Just be you.😊

[Anonymous]

lick your lips, rub your cock and wink at her.