My boyfriend doesn't make an effort.

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BEFORE:

•called me beautiful

•held my hand

•text/call me first

•talked to me-had real conversations.

I do all of these things back- I STILL do, but now he's stopped. He used to be very, very sweet. I made him cookies. On the same day I gave them to him I talked to him about treating me less like a girlfriend and more like a not so good friend. Things got better for a day, and now it's bad again. That time that I talked to him, he seemed sincere that he was gonna change and that he was sorry. I talked to him again today, and he actually turned the tables and blamed it on me not trusting him!

NOW:

•spends ALL of his time with his friends- which would be fine, because I love time with my friends too- but he literally spends five minutes with me in a day- not even all at once.

•he doesn't touch me... I tried to hold his hand and he pulled away and said "my thumb" (he hurt his left thumb at baseball),I said "that's your RIGHT hand", he just said "I don't wanna hold your hand..." WHAT?!

•I have to text him first- he just says okay/ya... He won't answer my calls, or pick up and say "I can't talk"

•I've heard rumors about him flirting with other girls. The rumor is that he calls girl A to say goodmorning and goodnight, and texts her all the time and asks for girl C's phone number. I talked to girl A about it and she said that he flirts with her and asks for girl C's number, and she doesn't flirt back.

Okay- now, girl B, who is a compulsive liar, told me she asked for a picture for his contact in her phone, and he sent one... Then he sent another one where he wasn't wearing a shirt/: he also calls her to joke around with one of their inside jokes- he doesn't call me EVER.

I don't want to break up with him, but what should I do? He used to be AMAZING.
Break up with him.
Keep him around.
Break up with him if he doesn't change.
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My boyfriend doesn't make an effort.
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