Does one person always have stronger feelings than the other?

[Anonymous]

Is it inevitable that only one person can be in love and the other is not, but fulfills the other person by allowing it?

[ryanrhino]

As long as the one person having the stronger feelings is allowed to change, then yes is my answer to your question.

At times yes, one will have the stronger feelings, but that's what make the relationship rubber band work! If you're both stressed, the rubber band is pulled apart. But, if one is stressed, the other can move in closer to reduce that stress.

And how often have you heard of two people saying I love you at the same time for the first time? I was one of those situations, and it was wonderful!

[Blobb]

Yep I think one person will always have stronger feelings than the other, but that doesn't mean two people can't love each other, it just means one will love the other a little bit more than the other loves them.

[dinolexi]

No. Both people can be in love, but they might not be equally in love.

One person will always need the other person more than the other person needs them, but this doesn't mean the other person is settling. They're just more independent. It's not impossible for two people to feel exactly the same way about each other, but that might mean a more difficult relationship if they both need a strong foundation but both are very strongly emotionally attached to each other.

[Announcement]

If two people are not in a committed relationship and are just "friends that have sex" then yes usually there's one who feels something more for the friend. But when in a C-R the feelings should be mutual not, one feeling more or one feeling less and if that's the case then you know there not the correct person for you even if it hurts.

[Asker]

Don't you think it sounds impossible that two people could feel that way? I think one would be in live and the other wants security.

[Announcement]

Nope, its not impossible my dear. I've been in five c-r all were different but, everything we felt was mutual. Examples, there were times when we were very clingy with each other, then very independent and no need for reassuring each other and totally in love cause we wanted to be with each other. Never went into either those c-r for just love nor security? I don't need a female/male to feel loved, I am secure on my own also.

[ocelot]

yes, because it depends on your personality how much you can be in love in a certain time and if you are the person that have strong feelings the other one can feel little bit guilty about it and allows it and hopes that someday she/he can feel same strong feelings, so it can change by time

[donaldvandy]

no, sometimes its mutual. and by mutual I mean strong feelings for each other Or quiet ones(not very loud emotion but still together to see what will happen)

[jtmc713]

I wouldn't say always. But if there's a big difference in the strength of feelings someone's bound to get upset?

[standUP]

my experiances always show me that YES it is one or the other... I just don't get it !

[InMyHeart]

yeah. always.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure