How do I know if I hurt him?

[Anonymous]

I started seeing this guy and I think I hurt him , but he won't tell me .

How to guys act when there hurt ? do they try and hurt you back ?

[Lovelesspassion]

Each person will have a diffrent reaction..

Emotional hurt.. I might start avoiding her..

Physical hurt.. Depends on how bad..

If I like her.. I might advoid her for a few days to get better.. .. But no likly id want her sympathy... But then joke about getting hurt by her after wards..

"Oh don't get near so and so she might blankedy blank"

If I don't like her... id advoid her to heal.. Then might continue to.. But again depends on how bad

So what happened? How do you think you hurt him?

Whats he doing?

[Asker]

I had betrayed our trust and said somethings to people about him that weren't true. This was 4 months about when it happened and at first he said he couldn't believe he had feelings for someone like me that he's never going to forgive me and he wanted to be left alone ,he told be a few days later we could try things again but he still wouldn't forgive me .

[Asker]

I thought everything would go back to ‘normal’ and it did for a while ,but out of know where a few weeks later he called things off again because he said”your not going to change, your never going to change. I was dumb thinking you would.” . We barely talk but when we do it’s usually me just begging him to take me back . he says I didn’t hurt him .but he's angry and I thought angry came from hurt.

[JhonnyAppleSeed]

it depends on the guy. because we're like onions

we have a hard shell so, we keep it on the inside to not look like a wuss in front of the guys. but! if you hurt him being a total bitch (persay) then he's probably going to hurt you back to make things even steven

[Anonymous]

Umm..I think you did if he cut off all communtication.

[Habakkuk]

sounds like you hurt him...