okay so me and my boyfriend of a year and a half recently just broke up a week ago, he found out that I had cheated on him in December when I was drunk, he completely erased me out of his life and won't talk to me, I know I made a mistake and I really regret it and I know that its over for good, we were really in love, and he's the sensitive type .. I just feel so guilty :( is he hurt? could that be the reason why he won't talk to me?
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Well if his the sensitive type of guy then yes he will be hurting. But I have done that before and I had a hard time getting the one night stand guy to leave me alone but my boyfriend and I are back together. So If he REALLY loves you then he would understand you were drunk and didn't do it on purpose then he would give you another chance , he can't say he hasn't done anything wrong in a previous relationship. Just get him out with his friends and your friends and get them together at a cafe or something and just sit down and explain to him what happened and ask him if he REALLY loves you and if he says " yes " then you should ask for another chance. Take this from someone who knows about this all too well. Get him in a place with his friends and your friends then he will have to talk to you and ask him these questions :
Are you still hurting from what I done ?
Do you understand what actually happened ?
Do you REALLY truly love me ?
Will you give me another chance ? ( only ask this one if he says " Yes! " to the previous question )
Take care and tell me how it goes x