Don’t guys know that flirting can hurt? He flirted with me and his girlfriend looks nothing like me?

[Anonymous]

But at what expense? My own emotions and insecurities. I felt embarrassed telling my friend about it… she didn’t even believe me. Then when we got into it she said how ugly I am and how he would never like someone like me. It hurt a lot bc I wasn’t even trying to talk to him. I payed him no attention at all. I thought it was real

But the killer part is his girlfriend looks nothing like me. She’s blonde hair blue eyes. She models. She’s hot. She’s different. She’s everything I’m not. I can’t help but look at her all the time. Her pics and everything …

I just feel shitty bc I thought maybe I was beautiful. He made me feel like I was

[RedInnocent68]

For some flirting is often just being friendly. He may not even be aware of it. In any event, it likely doesn't mean he’s fixing’ to leave his girlfriend. Frankly, it sounds like you’re bigger problem is your probably jealous and definitely mean ‘friend’.

[Asker]

I don’t understand the last part

[RedInnocent68]

Forget about the guy. Why’s your friend being so mean to you?

[Asker]

We fell out about something. We haven’t talked in a year.

[RedInnocent68]

So, not your friend, and this is just a continuation of her being mean to you?

[Asker]

She’s not my friend anymore. What she said hurt tho…. I thought he liked me

[RedInnocent68]

I’m sorry that happened to you. If it’s any consolation, I’m confident he doesn’t dislike you. But I’m also sorry if you were expecting him to leave his girlfriend. I hope you find joy. 🤗🤗

[Asker]

I mean he wasn’t with her yet at the time

[RedInnocent68]

The guy and his girlfriend weren’t together, or your friend is now with the guy/is the girlfriend?

[Asker]

No the guy and girl weren’t together

My friend is not dating him.

[Monalisa77]

Do u think sttoking A girls hand is just being friendly?

[Monalisa77]

*stroking

[Asker]

@Monalisa77 he did that subtly but I don't know I don’t think so

[spartan55]

Okay, I'm confused. You got upset because of what your friend said?

[Asker]

Yeah, it hurt a lot… bc she knew how I felt about myself. He said that she was also flirty with our other friend… but she’s pretty too. Mixed with curly hair

[spartan55]

Okay, I'm totally lost, none of this makes sense.

[Asker]

She said that he was flirty with one of our friends as well.. I felt like she was okay with that bc she was pretty… but when I said it she looked at me up and down and discredited me…

[Monalisa77]

This, i mean wtf is a guy doing stroking my hand when he's hardly gonna find me attracctivr 🙄

[HateyouxD]

Some people do it to make you feel good about yourself... some do it for themselves

[Asker]

He prob did it for himself. Maybe he feels bad about himself. I don't know I just feel shitty