Telling her to lose my number? Is this wrong of me to say to this girl?

[Anonymous]

We met at a night club in Macon, GA and we went to my place and had sex. Now I told this girl all the way to the house that I look at relationships like there a type of cancer. And want nothing to do with them but still went to my place now next day when some friends of mine came to town she was texting me a lot so I cut the phone off when I turned it back on the next day I am not joking 145 text messages came pouring in talking about her feelings to how I am making her feel like crap now I respond because I'm pissed about all the messages telling her to lose my number that she must be bat sh*t crazy to write that much but she still texting so I tell her to go Fu*k herself and stop text so she starts calling

[Anonymous]

Hey I'm from the Macon area! How random!

Anyways if you did not want to have a relationship you should have never gave her your contact info. WRONG MOVE PLAYA! You beat it and leave and don't give her contact information because all you wanna do is have sex anyway.

However this girl needs to recognize that she's a ho and hoes get treated like hoes. How do you meet a guy at a club then go home with him the same night and then act all clingy? Ugh Imma need some of these girls to DO BETTER. She brought it on herself by acting that way, she probably scares so many guys off with that craziness. BTW be very careful because Central Georgia has a pretty high STD/HIV rate and if she's DTF like that she could have anything...obviously she's not the most mentally stable one in the bunch.

Oh yeah but you didn't have to be that mean to her. Even though she was crazy as hell, she was nice enough to give you some ass, the least you could do was treat her with a modicum of respect. Next time don't respond to her at all. No text, no call, no nothing.

[heatherlu]

Why give someone your number when you have no intention of seeing her again?

That makes no sense.

You told her you weren't into relationships, so there was no need to give her a means to contact you.

But yeah - you probably could have been a little bit more polite in the way you spoke to her. Maybe responded straight away and reiterated your point instead of leaving it and ignoring her.

Learn from this. Don't give your number to a girl who you don't want to be able to contact you.

[Asker]

Well when you met them at a bar early in the night you get or give numbers incase you don't leave that night with them like if you found a better looking chick you take her home and contact the other at a later date

[heatherlu]

Clearly not the best method.

[Asker]

It works more then you think.

[heatherlu]

I'm not saying it doesn't work - I mean, picking up a girl in the club isn't hard - I'm just saying, clearly, it has its faults.

[Asker]

Faults. Lol. Like what

[heatherlu]

like 145 text messages from a one night stand, duh.

[KarKingJack]

LOL

[diamond3]

well I think it would be best to just ignore her... but I have told a guy I don't want a boyfriend but just a friend and he started asking me if I went to eat with a guy or why I didn't tell him I was leaving town.. my point is I think people just assume they can change your mind even tho you clearly stated you weren't in to her like that .. that is what I think

[KarKingJack]

LOL, well you reacted quite aggressively, there was no need for that. But jeeeeeeeeeeeesus christ. She's well obsessed now. Just block her number or something.

Ideally, you should have said 'Listen, I appreciate you want to carry on from what happened last night, but that's not how it goes for me and I made that very clear to you last night. I'd rather you didn't text me again'

[fascination_streak]

Was she sober when you told her the cancer analogy? Anyhow, I'd contact your cell provider and have her number blocked. She is obviously psycho and can't take the hint. Maybe if she didn't send 145 SMS texts then maybe you would have been nicer. However, she deserves a to be told F- off so maybe she GETS it.

[Asker]

We wasn't drunk but not sober but far from drunk. She asked me what type of females do I date and I gave the cancer analogy life is to short to waste playing home bodies you have to live it up only get one chance

[lovelylife]

That's why you shouldn't bring strays home. She maybe camping outside your house now.

You may want to change your number, heck you may want to move to another state.

[Anonymous]

eh.. you are an a**hole. And she is too desperate.

This is what happens when an a**hole screw a desperate girl