Guys are you ok with being catcalled?

[Anonymous]

like if a girl just started touching your arms and said "Damn" and called you hot, And her friends whistled and called you daddy, Would you be mad or like it?

[SAUL077]

No. I don't think I'd enjoy it. It would be strange. I'd probably say thank you and move in with my day. Mainly cause am not use to that type of attention and I have never catcalled anyone. I have been approached by women at a bar tho and I've noticed that women do not take kindly to rejection. I had one women call me a faggot to the entire bar when I turned her down. But it wasn't that bad, am not physically threatened by most women so the experience differs greatly from when women get catcalled or reject a guy.

[Diodoro]

Been there. And I liked it every time. Other than when a grandma got drunk and tried to grab my dick in a bar. All the help I got was a security guard laughing and doing nothing about it lmao. I was fine obviously but very annoyed and uncomfortable because I literally had to leave the room so this woman would stop trying to grab my dick. No exaggeration
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[KrisPW]

From reading on here, and talking to my fiancé, guys receive so few compliments that they cherish them for years. So I expect they would be confused at first (due to the above), then appreciate them for a while, and then start to feel offended like we girls do after it gets to be too much.

[Djaay]

Accualy I've never met a man in my entire lifetime that would be offended. I realize for women on the other that its very offending and rightfully so.

[KrisPW]

You may be closer to the truth here. I forgot to consider the power difference between most men and women. A man may never take offense to the catcalling because there is a much lower chance of him being forced or intimidated to comply.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Only from hot women and not from old women or gays. Anyway my gay friends always cat call random guys. It is funny how they say cat calling is just complimenting someone but they also get triggered when my gay friends cat call them.

[lambrini]

Because when men catcall women it's straight attraction with right age, so women need to catcall men in order to make it equal and cougars don't include.

They get triggered because it's a gay guy catcalling them, if a gay guy catcalls me it's obvious he wants to fuck my ass deep so I wouldn't like it either.

[OlderAndWiser]

I'm 66 years old. I would find it amusing.

[Vivaldi]

But a 66 year old woman would not find it amusing if a young man approaches her. Being a man sucks.

[Unicorns_exist]

@Vivaldi I think they would tho

[Vivaldi]

Being a man and a woman are very different things. Sadly.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Vivaldi Oh, no! am VERY, VERY GLAD that there are differences between men and women.

[Vivaldi]

The difference is positive for men and negative for women

[Vivaldi]

The difference is positive for women. I said wrong

[Vivaldi]

Positive for women

[Ghostlock]

First, that is not catcalling. It crosses the line of catcalling when you get touched. Secondly, as long as the catcalling was done in a respectful way, it wouldn't bother me a bit. There is a line of respect there. These days people just like to be offended, so any type of catcalling is offensive to people... but I don't live by societal standards because society has gone insane. I actually balance things out instead of going all or nothing like the rest of the world does these days. Catcalling can be flattering as long as it is respectful and doesn't cross a gross line. One it crosses the line of vulgarity of any kind or touching, it's no longer catcalling, it's harassment.

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

One time at a rave a total stranger walked up to me, smiled, I smiled back, then she reached down my pants, grabbed my dick, smiled again and disappeared. Never saw her again.

I was kind of tweaked by the double standard, but after a lot of thought I realized it's not quite that simple.

It was okay because I liked it. If I didn't it would have been wrong. But, she was probably pretty confident that I wouldn't mind.

After that, my only concern is that it was a test, and I didn't make the grade. But that's not something I generally worry about. Can't beat yourself up because someone has unreasonable standards.

Well, that... And the question of, was it just me or was I the 27th guy in a row with the same hand. 😐

[Ghostlock]

@Lost_in_the_Woods Hahahaha, yeah, I wouldn't over think that one, lol. Funny story, Lost_in_the_Woods, lol.

[MCheetah]

I think most men, me included, wouldn't have a problem with it. The only women who have a problem with it are insecure, generally negative women (although that's a lot of them). I've never once in my life been catcalled before, but I kinda wish a women would have. It'd be flattering.

[KlinkyCoder]

I didn't get actually "catcalled" before but one time I went to a Halloween party and a girl directly told me that I was hot. That was only once, though. And it was semi-random since we started to have a convo at a table.

[bodiesands]

No.

And I realise you're probably asking to show why women don't like it either.

And I'd agree - it's an invasion and an imposition for either sex. We only want attention from those we ourselves are attracted to - and subtle and respectful attention at that.

[Satyromaniac]

Absolutely!!! Guys don't mind most of the inappropriate things girls do/behave with us... we're just thankful she paid attention to me/us... Heck we would dance to death with happiness if a pretty girl even slightly hinted that she would enjoy molesting/raping us...

[Lynx122]

I wouldn't mind it I would enjoy the attention but when this actualy happened to me the girl was drunk and she was doing it in front of her boyfriend and that was not as much fun. But if she had been single I would have been fine with it. I don't know why the friends have to get involved though :D

[rocksongwriter]

If it was a group of female friends and we were all joking around, I wouldn't mind (and it might even boost my self-esteem). However, if it was a girl that was trying to get a date with me, catcalling would NOT win me over. It'd be a major turnoff and a one way ticket to the acquaintance zone (which is located beyond the friend zone).

[Hairylegs222]

Being called daddy is weird and disturbing to me. I'd instantly tell that woman to please not ever call me that.

If a women I don't know started touching my muscles I'd get suspicious like I'm being robbed and I'd grab her hands to stop. I don't trust strangers.

Calling me hot, saying damn, or whistling at me I'd be fine with that.

[HawkPerception]

I don't mind at all. It's flattering. Being forceful and grabbing is a definite no, but some touch wouldn't bother me. That never happens though lol. I feel like most guys don't get even 1/100th of the attention most girls get just for having tits. We're kind of attention deprived.

[Anonymous]

Touching me is not catcalling. If I got catcalled, I wouldn't care. It might even make my day a bit better. I'd feel like I looked so good that random girls couldn't keep their thoughts silent. In some cases, it might also be funny. Everyone could use a laugh.

[Anonymous]

If I thought it was genuine I'd like it, however I would naturally assume they weren't being serious and making fun of me. And especially for me personally as I just have never got attention like that ever, so I would just assume I was being made fun of. "Daddy" isn't a turn on either (I think porn is to blame for this, but not many guys irl actually like this). Would you want to be called Mommy? lol

[ObscuredBeyond]

I'd think it was a con, and wonder who marked me and why. I'm at best a 7 on the 0 - 10 scale. Probably more 6.5. Any woman who looks like an 8 or above who's suddenly that interested in me... is up to something.

[Anonymous]

There is a double standard here. If do “catcall” a guy you better be 100% sure he’s in your league. I’ve been catcalled by women 20 years my senior when I was in my late teens and also got outright sexual remarks from obese women. That was gross. But as a man if I complained that would make me “gay” right?

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

I like when old ladies hit on me.

They know the good ones when they see them.

I've never had them cross a line or try to shove me into a van. It's usually sweet and very flattering.

[wittymilf]

This is amusing.. you know that women don’t get to pick what type of guys catcall them either 🤷‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

@wittymilf neither do men (even more so).

I’m not losing sleep over it. But just saying when a guy does it then it’s creepy. When a girl does it then it’s comical.

[Opinion Owner]

@Lost_in_the_Woods especially when they comment about you having a nice ass? Lol.

I had a woman in her late 60s say a side comment about it. I admit it was amusing. But again just saying there is a double standard. During the #metoo movement some women were complaining about guys in wheelchairs making sexual comments about them. I am not kidding.

[wittymilf]

I’ve never had a problem with cat calling 🤷‍♀️ But I agree it seems really tacky when either sex does it. It’s expected male behaviour, but it seems unatural when women do it.

[t-8900]

I've experienced it. It's flattering until they try to grab me. I don't like being touched by strangers like they. Especially bellow the belt... I can't count the number of times and I would get pissed.

[Sarahr123]

I never minded it. It’s only creepy and scary when people start following you when you don’t want to be followed.

[60minman]

Honestly... it would make my day... week... month and year. A girl once came up to me at the gym saying I reminded her of someone else. She then quickly commented on how fine that guy was. I've never seen her again, but her face is permanently etched into my brain. I wish there were more women like her... that was really cool.

[normalice]

It has never happened to me. But if it did i would assume she is just teasing and not actually interested.

[moviedude714]

If I was already attracted to her and she was being serious about it and not just trying to use me for validation and actually wants me, it would be a dream come true

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I would feel lucky to be catcalled. I blend in the crowd at a fine level. If girls are catcalling me, that means they are noticing me.

[JustinTheGreat]

i don’t mind being flirted with by strangers, I get flattered actually lol
but if they’re touching me and calling me daddy, I think I’d get super uncomfortable