Is it normal that I avoid getting flirty towards my crush?

[Jean_Valjean]

Whenever I start acting flirty with her, I suddenly start imagining her getting flirty and sexual with every other man and that panics me

[Emiliamazing]

Let’s start over here. Drop the concerns about other people being on her mind. You like her, and a good way to display that feeling is by showing interest. Flirting is a way to show interest. When you start allowing external “static “ to influence a perfectly acceptable behavior (flirting), you get nowhere.
I presume you are both single.

[MagicCarpet1]

Canceling your Brazzers membership should solve the problem.