I asked my female substitute teacher (20yr) why she’s wearing a mask (bef-Covid). She told me she wears it because she says she’s ugly should I worry?

[Anonymous]

I’m was 16 at that time and she looked like she was showing signs of attraction, we talked a lot and she smiles at me all the time. She is not the same with everyone else. I sometimes caught her staring at me more than once, then we both stared at each other for really long until we got disturbed. She also crosses her legs and shakes her leg up and down for some reason. I only notice she does this when she’s around me. Should I ask her if she likes me or just leave things as it is?

[PrettyPriya]

No, you should not involve yourself in a relationship with your teacher. Not only is that likely against the school policy, it is also likely against the law as you are underage. Don't entertain the idea.

She is acting inappropriately. You are there to learn and she is there to teach, nothing more. To act on these feelings would be a disaster for her career and your schooling. You risk being expelled I image.

It is natural and often happens for students to have crushes on their teachers, but this should be kept private and end there. You risk destroying her career.

[PrettyPriya]

Sorry, I don't want you to believe this is your fault. She is acting inappropriate and is more responsible for flirting or sending signals if she truly is. Ignore them or report it to the school.

[Asker]

Sorry I meant to put my age 18 😅, it was by accident, pls forgive me with all do respect 🫡

[PrettyPriya]

Oh! It is no problem. No need to apologize. 🙂

[Asker]

So does she like me, should I approach her and since I’m at the right age, are we allowed to date?

[PrettyPriya]

Well, I still have the opinion that you shouldn't. While you are of age to date who you want, it is more of a conflict of interest thing here. She is being paid to teach, not flirt or get romantically involved.

I am going to wager it is against school policy as well. Most universities have a strict policy about teachers getting romantically involved with students. That is because often others that find out then think you (or anyone that is dating a teacher) will receive preferential treatment.

My opinion is to not pursue this as I think there will be way more problems than benefits. However, this is purely my opinion and to each is own.

[Asker]

There wasn’t enough word count As I forgot to mention that she went to another school to teach.

[Asker]

So can I date her and is it likely that she has a crush on me?

[PrettyPriya]

Okay, so if she teaches at a school that you do not attend, then yes that is acceptable if you are of age and she is not jeopardizing her job.

[Asker]

So do u have a positive opinion that she likes me?

[PrettyPriya]

I would say from the details, yes.

[Asker]

Should I tell her or wait?

[PrettyPriya]

There isn't enough info for me to say. That is a "gut" feeling type of thing. I can say this though... I am not one that thinks someone should wait to ask a person out. Often times, that leads to missed opportunity.

I asked my now fiancé out on our first date. Glad I didn't wait and see. Maybe he wouldn't have asked because he thought I wasn't interested. Then where would I be? Single still probably. Anyhow, I say when a person likes someone and has a reason to think the feeling is mutual, then don't wait.

[Asker]

She might start doing tuition, so should I go and take this opportunity?

[Asker]

Is it done to put myself alone with her?

[PrettyPriya]

I'm not sure what you mean by start tuition. Anyhow, I have given you my opinion of what you should do. Hopefully, it works out for you.

[Guy13]

Nice..,

[Guy13]

Get away from me, “Horndawg”…there’s no damn way…get your thimble dick back in your pants….
Save that for university when you are more equipped for it.

[lofii]

You should have sex

[Avicenna]

Do not ask her that

[In_Trance]

Worry about what?

[Asker]

I think she likes me and I like her but Idont want her to like me just because she thinks she is ugly. I want her to like me for who I am. And she only told this to me and I’m not sure if is signaling something or that she wants me to take interest in her.

[In_Trance]

I still don't understand what there is to worry about