No, because she's obviously more interested in whatever she's reading than the party. If anything, I would try to help her find a quiet room or spot to read in peace.
Look, don't judge people on what they do at a party. Who's to say her friends didn't drag her there, and she rather be at home studying or reading a book?
As the host, I want to make sure she was enjoying herself and comfortable. If it's my book, I'd offer to loan it to her so she can enjoy the party, or a quiet place to read if she'd rather do so. I also want to make sure she's not being hassled, or obligated to be there for some other reason that I can help with.
No she's clearly looking for attention and being a massive try hard pick me. Who brings a book to a party unless they are like look I'm different to the other girls.
Why bother coming to the party if you were gonna spend time reading it's ignorant and as if you can actually focus on a book at a party just looking for attention
I get that but don't you think it looks abit rude if someone's invited you over to there house and your ignoring everyone reading a book. It's no different to people who sit there on there phones instead of talking and spending time with the people at the party.
I get people are annoying but if you don't wanna be there and you rather be at home reading a book then why don't you just do that
It's fine. Parties have lows and highs, and sometimes they get boring. Sometimes people arrive early because of logistics, and they read a book to pass the time. Sometimes people don't owe you shit and if they wanna read a book at a social event they can.
Introverts need to manage their energy and while yes, one could say that if you're tired and you want to stop then you can go home. But it takes an investment to schlep your ass across town, so maybe cooling down for 15 mins or so, and then you can jump back in is something to think about.
I'm a fun guy. My presence at your party is a gift, so don't complain, ok?
And besides I carry a book around everywhere I go. You never know when you're gonna be stuck somewhere waiting, and having a book in your bag is super useful for like I said, when you arrive early, or somebody is late or whatever.
It's no big deal. If you wanna chat, you can say hello, but if you guys are talking about boring nerd shit like, "OMG!!! Did you hear what Karen said about Tina's dress?", then that's cool, not every conversation has to be to my taste.
Exactly! The people that complain about people reading a book are the same people that will text somebody else while you're talking to them. At least it seems to me anyway. Unless you leave your phone at home (or don't have one) I don't think you have a leg to stand on.
Put it this way, if the girl in the photo was on her phone instead of reading a book, nobody would notice at all.
@Marianna546 I'm not trying to be rude towards you and I'm sorry if it came off that way. It's just I was always rised if you're invited to someone elses house it extremely rude to be on your phone, reading a book, playing a games console etc. I was always told but I must be engaging with people and make a effort
I would, and I would probably ask her (politely) if she's having fun and if she says yes then I guess I'll just let her be, although I would like to socialize with my guests since its a party I would love for them to meet new people too but if she's having a good time reading then who am I to stop her lol
Hell yeah !!! The fact that she reading at a party says 2 things bout her. First, she intelligent than the party lot, n second, she is confident bout herself and don't give a fuck what people say
I love to read books, and even K wouldn't bring one to a party. There's such a thing as 'reading the room'. But she might be more approachable than the girl surrounded by a wall of dudebros, so I see no reason not to go and say hi.
Although I suppose in a way I'd admire her confidence for giving nk fucks about "party etiquette" and just doing her thing. It's a bit unusual, but I'm a pretty unusual guy, so she might be perfect fit haha
I'd approach and see they're ok. But as host I'd have to. Got to question why someone carries out a solitary activity in the midst of a party. That seems more like making a statement
I would expect she was bored with the party and wanted to be left alone. Though I don't know why she wouldn't just leave, unless she rode with someone else.
No. I just had to tell my mom that I'm readin, I ain't tryna talk with you. Soo if someone is reading, most likely they tryna read and wanna be left alone.
Absolutely. Curiosity to know if school/ work related. If personal I wanna know what made them still come to party. If free will then that person intrigues me that they are not just a sheep following the masses
As the host I’ll approach her just to ask how she’s doing and if I feel like talking to her I might ask her what she’s reading. I won’t bug her too much.
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