How do you act when your eye candy/crush is approaching?

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 or you try to flex 💪 or pass out 🤣 or act 😑

[OpenClose]

Oh definitely :- and it's a bit of a problem.

I used to think girls didn't like me. But then discovered a few girls in school had a crush on me but thought I was disinterested. A couple in college thought I was gay, actually.

My thing is that I don't show it until I know more about her and what kind of attention she gets. Like the more attention she gets, and the more she "just knows it", the more standoffish I get.

I mostly like giving attention to girls who seem like they would get more out of it.

If she is already getting male attention in front of me, I generally don't butt in much. It usually descends into some immature dick measuring contest. Folks, especially guys, might say that "Isn't Alpha" but I have better things to do than "compete" for a girl over what amounts to a simple dominance contest with other men, often to her annoyance.

Or if I do want to butt in, I try to find something she is interested in and try to have a no-pressure friendly chat and see if a genuine connection builds. Though in one such case, it was one of the girls who thought I was gay. I wasn't hitting on her like the other guys.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I just grew up with a sister who got a lot of unsavory attention, and kinda grew up thinking my sexuality was some evil thing that needs to be hidden. So for things to go to the next level, she often has to push it there. Not with much, but I still need to see her initiate something before I feel safe moving forward.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I always play a cool😎😎😎😎

[Pinay_ako]

How cool? How are you doing?

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm good and you? I mean I'll let them know I'm interested but you have to be cool with it kinda let them come to you can't be to aggressive

[Pinay_ako]

Good, thanks 🙏

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your welcome 🙏

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[Marshymallow]

Pass out ofc! Lol JK.


I have 2 kind of crushes
For the first type I play it cool and act 😑
For the second I can’t control myself and smile like a freaking idiot. (HELP)!

[FearedMoose]

like i’m blind and I don’t acknowledge them. it’s self sabotage really.

[Pinay_ako]

Why’d you do that

[FearedMoose]

That’s a great question, I don’t know..

[NathanDavis]

I don't crush that much... not since middle school, lol

[Pinay_ako]

Eye candy 😝

[NathanDavis]

nothing in particular really... I'm just as casual, as usual

I guess it depends on the circumstances, if I know her or not... and therefore interact in one way or another

[laurieluvsit]

If it is a really hot guy, I get weak in the knees.

If it is a really hot girl, I might approach her :)

[IJhonnyI]

Probably just try to confront her, say whatever, hard for me too really have feelings for someone now a days but if i did I would approach her 😏

[RavVid]

Personally I try to keep my tongue in my mouth and not dribble. I'm ok with the bulge in my pants.

[AviatorTom]

It certainly isn't the woman in the picture. I usually smile and say Hi.

[boldlyblu]

I quickly think of a reason to speak to him so he'll be forced to look me in the eyes.

[Bluemax]

I act the same way I do if anyone else is approaching.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I'll usually wave. And if she's too busy, I carry on like nothing happened.

[Guy13]

Walk toward gently and speak 🗣 succinctly…converse.

[boredgal]

I'd freeze, won't be able to talk and would probably pass out.

[Literalbillionaire17]

I get rlly stupid and jitter and I have to distract my hands and talk to someone about some random ass shit I just thought about bc I’m scared 😭

[hafinjun]

Talk to me, or pm me

[JSmuve]

I'd probably look at her and hope she looks at me long enough and smiles to let me know she's interested. Never happens though.

[jamesgoldman]

Nothing well other than saying hi to them unless they engage me in conversation then I'll converse

[qwert1234]

Just act natural. Act smooth.
Aaaaaand I'm a creep.

[boobliker]

look her in the eyes smile a bit and wave as she passes you, she will know you like her then and may be shitty or nice take both as she likes you too.

[ballparkdogg]

a bit nervous and looking for the right thing to say without coming off like an idiot.

[Uptowngirl88]

That picture 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀. I usually act like I can't see them

[motownplayer2000]

The same way I do. Outwardly. Maybe freak out a little inwardly

[FunkyMonkee]

Say, baby, do you wanna lay down with me?
Say, baby, do you wanna lay down by my side?
Say, baby, do you wanna lay down with me?
Say, baby, SAY, BABY!!

[Xtendable]

I used to suck in my gut, but since losing that, I just act awkward af