Is telling a girl “you look tired” “you look stunning” a compliment or bad wording from me?

[Anonymous]

Was that a little much?

[HollyK21]

Telling a girl she looks tired is not a compliment lol. If that’s not what you meant then just apologize and try to clarify if you get the chance. It’s not a huge deal, so don’t blow it up to be one, you’re just clearing the air.

[Asker]

I understand that, I felt I did mess up low key but saying both of that in same sentence

[HollyK21]

It’s ok, what you were trying to say didn’t come out how you intended and it was a mistake. Let it go.

[Asker]

Let it go 😊
Let it go

Yea, it was around midnight at McDonald’s
She clearly was coming home from work because of her outfit look

She was cute though 😅

[HollyK21]

Yep, just like Elsa said lol but yeah, that was probably the case. You didn’t mean any harm by it so don’t think about that too much.

[Asker]

I did leave afterwards because I needed some late night food to eat late dinner

And went home after the quick compliment to her

A bad first impression low key 😂

You can’t tell someone they look tired but stunning

Anyway, thanks for reply
Glad some girls replied back now

[surprisedjo]

If someone says 'you looked tired', it is basically saying that that persons looks bad.

[Asker]

I messed up low key 🤦‍♂️😅

[Anonymous]

If you tell a girl "you look tired", she may will misunderstand I and take it for an insult.

Maybe "you seem tired" is better, but still tricky.

Sometimes it's better to add "make sure to rest well" or "make sure not to overwork yourself"

[Asker]

I did say both of that in same sentence
I did mess up

[Opinion Owner]

It's okay, you can just explain it to her and clear the air. It happens

[Asker]

I might never see her again low key

[Opinion Owner]

Don't beat yourself up for that, only thing u can do is to try to explain you didn't mean that in a bad way.

[Asker]

I’m ok but I realised afterwards it did say a little dumb and all
It was around midnight at McDonald’s
Yesterday
She came from work I would have thought

She did look cute