Where are the places you least expect to get hit on or someone asking you out?

Question

I am trying to find which almond milk was the best 😂 or buying a big chocolate cake for myself 😝 yet here you are… “Oh miss are you buying your own birthday cake 🎂? “

Mine is at the grocery store… 😅
Where’s yours?

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Well almost everywhere at 45 I don't gethit on as much as I did when I in my 20s or 30s... I guess if I had to pick any one place it would be inside a stall in a public mens room. Because you'd have to be literally be inside the stall with me as heterosexual male. Like extremely unlikely, right?

No seriously just the other I at a gas station, this highly attractive age appropriate women and I were entering the conveince store together. Of course being a gentlemen I held the door for her. We got inside, its a small store, and she starts small talking me. She says she's getting scratchers and will be awhile that I can go infront of her in line. She small talks me the whole time. This women is very attractive like 9/10. I am not intimidated by attractive women in the lest I am like 7 or 8 myself, but I am in my yard working clothes and its Sunday and I haven't trimmed or shaved my short beard since Thursday. So I am not looking as groomed as I usually do... and let's be honest super sexy and highly attractive women don't chat up strang guys at convenience stores. And I am dating another women anyway so I am not really on the hunt or available honestly. But this women definitely is tickeling that spot in the back of head. So I am unsure if I should turn on the charm or just be polite.

So I finish my transaction and wish her good luck on her scratchers and leave. As I get outside I realize that this women asked me about 6 different question, from where I live, where you from, to where I worked and how I liked it. Everything short of my name and physical address, and I didn't ask her a single question or looked for a ring. I thought about going back in and continuing the conversation, I am a very charming person so I could of pulled it off. I literally had the line in my head. I could of went in and said, " I have been told I am pretty lucky person, but I never tried scratchers myself so maybe you can show me how it works... where are you from?" Again I have a girlfriend and she's pretty amazing... so I think better of it and leave.

It's a small town maybe I'll see her again, and if I do then maybe its a sign. I didn't want be too forward given the small town thing... but it never stopped me before. I was completely caught of guard and it was totally unexpected, and I have a girlfriend. I mean its a gas station most people don't even say hello, so when a totally hot women starts a conversation out of nowhere like that its hard to get a read. I mean there was no hello how's it going conversation starter. She just started talking to me, and I don't even know how it got started honestly. Now say I was at a bar or out at restaurant or somewhere dressed more appropriately... but a gas station? Hard not to allow yourself to read more into it.

bigpauly · Accepted Answer

Lmao I may have flirted at the grocery store once or twice 👀 Least I’d expect I guess would be like the bank or something 🤔

2facedfa1ry · Accepted Answer

Here's a few that i can think of

- At the airport when getting the bag/body scan thing one of the tsa dudes hit on me

- When going with my parents to the police, one of the cops tried flirting with me and ended up asking me for my number like right in front of my parents

-Super embarrassing but when i was overweight some dude hit on me in the junkfood isle right when i put a few huge bags of chips in my cart... 😭

- When asking a bartender if i could quickly use the bathroom in the bar without paying for anything. happened twice. once it was the dude himself, the other time it was the customer right next to me...😅

- When i was a the psych emergency waiting room by some dude who had just been brought in by the cops for being high and suicidal. he was still in handcuffs and everything... and as soon as he came in the room he went in my direction to hit on me lol

- When i was with my dad just walking in the street some guy came up or another time when my parents asked a group of guys for directions and one of them kinda flirted with me and hit on me right there in front of them

- Right (like right) when i stepped out of my high school by some random grown ass dude who was just walking by

- At a grocery store in the candy isle by one of the security gards

- When i was putting on my makeup in a park

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

For me it used to be the gym, I never understood why the hell do you approach someone in the gym... the place where, I will say, nobody wants to be talked to and where actually everyone is in their own world and just wanna workout lol

LikeALog · Answer

I thought mowing grass was unlikely, but a female cop stopped and took several minutes to remind me mow the grass in the alley. Then she gave me her card and said call me sometime.
Funeral? No. After the grave side service while walking back to my car a girl asked if I was a relative. She was. When I said just a real good acquaintance, she asked how I knew him. We had a nice chat. When we got to her car, I said I enjoyed chatting and sorry for your loss. She said she enjoyed it to and gave me her phone number.
So far nobody hit on me working on a roof.

NathanDavis · Answer

wasn't much the place (a reunion/party) but just how she did it... my last girlfriend was standing near enough and just when the girl I was talking went around to I don't remember where, she did ask me "was that your girlfriend" and when I said "nope" she said "well, now you're mine" and she meant "mine" for that moment during the party, however that moment went for a few years, she just didn't let go since, lol... that was quite new for me, at the time

DizzyDesii · Answer

The grocery store, sports games, video game stores, movies, the mall, the gym, bars, fast food restaurants and gas stations are the main places you WILL get hit on lmao. You have to go to a nearby dumpster to not get hit on and just hope you dont end up dead in a dumpster

MikeInHawaii · Answer

I played Santa Claus at a convalescence center. One 90-year-old woman pinched my butt. Another 90-year-old invited me back to her room, said I didn’t have to wear my Santa suit “but it would be kinda fun if I did!” Her teenage great-granddaughter was laughing like hell well Maw Maw was hitting on Santa.

I was 45 at the time. The next day, I was playing Santa Claus for the Santa’s helper dress up day at Hooters. I told the waitresses how creepy it was being hit on by members of the opposite sex twice my age. They had zero sympathy for me!

Sawyerblu · Answer

Gas stations and red lights lol. Can’t tell you how many times men have rolled down their windows at red lights to ask for my number. At gas stations, I also get approached pumping my gas or walking across the parking lot quite often, maybe 1/4 times. Both, while flattering, are a bit unsettling to be honest.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

GAG here, definitely the place I least expected it... but hey it happens.

For a real world place, I'd have to say the hospital when visiting a relative. Been randomly approached and asked out in there before.

Bmories99 · Answer

In the shower, a multi shower in a portable trailer with no markings no way to tell boy/ girl/ family. And yet I was enjoying my hot shower when a woman walked into my changing room area and undressed (I was oblivious too this and sleep deprived after working 14 hours) and when she was naked knocked on my shower door and asked if I needed help and if she could join me.

blondfrog · Answer

I am not sure but the weirdest compliment I've ever gotten was from a cashier telling me I had nice finger nails. I could tell she wanted to say much more than that to me cause of her facial expression. Its nice though as a guy to get hit on though for a chance.

Tztop2006 · Answer

I don't get hit on in public so when it happens I'm surprised, I was at a street dance, barely 21, 3 somewhat drunk girls hot on me and I danced with them, they eventually asked to come to my place, again never thought I'd get hit on, I politely turned them down, they were drunk And I still lived with my parents at the time.

Still-alive · Answer

I dont get hit on often but it did happen this one time when i used to drive for Lyft. Picked up these two chicks that seemed a bit inebriated and took them to this club in Hollywood. They asked me to go with them the club lol. I had to decline as i needed to work some more. Was a surprise to say the least

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Usually when I’m traveling or in the middle of work

Grubhub · Answer

Grocery store, believe it or not I’ve been approached as a man. Mostly in the gym. Not the store. I still consider it being hit on if a girl can’t keep her eyes off me. One time in my life I was kinda insane. I used to think of a woman was starring at me she was judging. I asked this Latin girl to stop staring at me politely she said okay but she couldn’t stop. I thought she was judging me. I’m glad I’m healed and no longer think that way

MTC29 · Answer

I've had luck in the frozen food section of the grocery store.

Lucy68 · Answer

I rarely get hit on, and when I do I honestly don't know if they're being genuine or not. In the past and unfortunately currently guys normally do that to me cause they're in a bet with their friends.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

When I'm looking at period products... Like why are you down this Isle and why are you talking to me go away

qqqqq0000 · Answer

drive thrus. unexpected especially when the line is busy and since i usually look like crap when grabbing to-go food. the worst is when the drive through guy was the place i go to a lot of times and i always see him again (i said no to him).

RavVid · Answer

Well it was at work. That is perhaps no so unusual but it was during a data model review which is fairly dry process. We were sitting at my desk and she pressed her knee against my thigh without any need to be so close.

AviatorTom · Answer

The produce section of the grocery store is often a great place for guys to approach women.

Litza · Answer

My house. Jkjk. I don't expect it, at my job, but it's happened a lot. I don't understand because I dress down.

Mangospacho · Answer

Funeral home during the viewing for my dearly beloved late wife. It’s a bit extreme but I’m sure it’s happened to somebody at least.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Do you know why they call it "almond milk"? Because nobody would buy it if they called it "nut juice". 😁

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Some chick came and sat down next to me one time at church. It made me uncomfortable, so I moved away from her.

Texaskid1 · Answer

At a funeral. Now that would be awkward.

Bluemax · Answer

Work. It was my supervisor. She was drunk.  I got hit on once at an Oktoberfest celebration. Gay guy. I suppose I should be flattered.

Guy13 · Answer

This summer in a strawberry patch gathering Strawberries. I happen to be there on "girls" day. That was fun!!

Marshymallow · Answer

At work (not by coworkers by the way) or when I look crazy in the morning hurrying to the grocery store. Or with family… awkward

Wubs3000 · Answer

Anywhere thats not school tbh I'm still in the thinking that random strangers are too scary to just ask out plus I can never know their age on first glance

Sarahplus2 · Answer

At a flea market I was looking at some handcleaner dispensers for the basement utility tub and the guy asked smiling ofcourse if I needed someone to install it to my wall.

altaboy · Answer

The pharmacy. Really, the pharmacist hit on me. I was very flattered.

moviedude714 · Answer

Well this question normally doesn't apply to men obviously

convo_king89 · Answer

Probably at a job or while ur in school as a student. But it’s a fantasy to get laid there, real spontaneous. Not wearing anything sexy and she is wearing regular basic panties after her clothes come off.

kellytheman · Answer

I don't get hit on much but I did get on by a girl at a college while I was working.

1GoldTwins · Answer

Public toilets., hospital, police station, during a traffic jam, in a meeting

SaoirseS · Answer

At visitations, funerals, and burials. But it has happened.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

One chick walked right up and propositioned me in front of my wife in the line up for a frozen yogurt lol

Zolly99999 · Answer

I don't get hit on very often... more like never 🤣🤣🤣

Adam1978 · Answer

Today that would basically be everywhere except in a bar/club/party.

Guardian45 · Answer

The place I least expect to get hit on is in the bathroom; thankfully, it has NOT happened to me! 😳😂 I guess ANYWHERE is possible! A woman flirted with me on a bus once.

Avicenna · Answer

At a Trade fair or other professional gathering

MrPickles13 · Answer

There's a lot of places that isn't right I'd say to ask someone out. Stores, pharmacy's, medical practice, restaurants and that sort of thing just doesn't really seem right.

Spiritofn · Answer

Depends on your level of power within society. + surroundings. Myself school or bar.

kitkat_kita · Answer

My boyfriend asked my out while on a sleep over at his house in bed next to him. I certainly did not expect that.

jazque · Answer

Hospital Library Bathroom

OldSchool_Metalhead · Answer

At Walmart lol

KrakenAttackin · Answer

You poor thing, you have an abundance of men from which to choose... the horror.

VanguardTitan · Answer

Pretty much everywhere. I'm not the kind of person that people find attractive enough to hit on.

Beardedman1996 · Answer

Work surprisingly but it seems to be the place I get the most compliments

Shy_Steve · Answer

Work or when I'm with the rest of my Family like at a family gathering.

TrillXHippy · Answer

The places where I least expect to get hit on or someone asking me out is everywhere

nawtee_me · Answer

I must be going to all of the wrong places because I never get asked out... lol

driven159 · Answer

A bathroom or in my car because I drive too fast, and they don't get a chance to

dustybiker · Answer

Yeah. Grocery store seem popular.

Flower7 · Answer

At a funeral.

Anonymous · Answer

At movie... I was alone and she with her friend... Me - you n the actress in this movie are twins? Because you both look same sexy af. 😜

andreasderjuengere · Answer

The men's toilet, I suppose :D

Slim57 · Answer

I don't expect to get hit on anywhere cause I never do

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Probably in the ER

Bratsondanielle · Answer

Well here on gag but still...

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

At a gas station.

JohnK123 · Answer

Here... LMAOOO

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