What are some ways to subtly seduce men?

Question

I'm not entirely inept at it, but I'm curious to see if there are any other tactics I need to pick up on.

Subarugirl · Accepted Answer

Okay so here is the thing. Most men want to feel big, strong, masculine and in control. If you can make him feel that way you'll be golden. Dress attractively, but leave something to the imagination, most guys like the chase so don't be too aggressive, it makes them feel emasculated. Instead, be enthusiastic but keep am air of innocence. There is a lot of truth to the saying a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets.

Play dumb... even if you know more about a topic than he does, pretend like you don't. He's not going to want to be one uped by his date.

Ask for help, nothing big but little things that boost his ego. Ask him to open a jar, or reach something for you.

Be enthusiastic about things he is interested in, even if you don't really care. People love to talk about them selves and most men like to peacock their achievements and accomplishments.

Look for opportunities to touch him casually in a non sexual way. Hold onto his arm to stable yourself while you fix your shoe, or lean in close when he does to show you something.

Compliment him about anything, again with the ego stroking, but don't over do it and make sure that the compliments are genuine.

Keep it simple, keep makeup, jewelry and perfume to a minimum. The goal is to appear naturally effortless. You want him to be the focus, not your outfit.

When he makes sexual advances, play shy at first thenmake it seem like he's making you melt. Be reactive, it makes him feel good about his sexual prowess.

AnnaTumbles · Accepted Answer

Its the same as picking up a girl but honestly probably easier:

chat with the person, get a good banter going, pay them a compliment and watch their reaction. If they seem interested give them your number, if they don't either move on or make them your friend. There are a lot of girls out there that guys approach, if you approach the guy? It'll increase your chances a lot as well as boost the guys confidence !

Th3ft · Accepted Answer

So reading some of the comments I would say that you are right to test the waters! Some times reading a room you can make bold statements at random for a quickly or something fun but if you are looking for a long term relationship with this guy the answer is to dress nice and ask him specifically how you look. make sure he is always getting the best views and make sure to pause a little around him so that he is getting more of a view then everyone else. Ask him about your hair or your perfume in subtle ways like is my perfume too strong or oh my gosh my hair is a mess today. make eye contact with him always! Even if he isn’t the one you are talking to. Pay attention to everything he says and always come back to a comment of his if you had to skip over it in conversation. Make him feel like he is the only one in the room. Those are subtle ways of telling him you like him. Then when you have his attention invite him over for dinner or something. More then likely he will ask you but if you get the opportunity I think it is okay for girls to ask guys out a time or two.

i did also just check and as you are only 18 you may not have your own place. So maybe that isn’t quite the right move. But ask him out.

CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

Get creative.
Think about using all his senses.

Hearing - We love hearing a girls voice speaking slowly. We also like hearing all the little reactionary sounds made.
Touch - Any touch is fire on our skin.
Taste - Not sure how to bring taste into it without going beyond being subtle. But maybe there is a way?
Smell - If he's really into you he'll like your smell. Getting in close or forgetting your clothes where he'll have access might appeal to some. I'd be thrilled to breath it in.
Sight - Eyes, smiles, looks, moves.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Let him smell you by subtly whispering to his ear anything. If he likes you, he’d love that

coachTanthony · Answer

Bite your lip when you talk to them.

20yearsolder · Answer

From all the crap I read on here all you have to do is Lock eyes with him. I contact for 15 seconds means he loves you. If you accidentally brush against one another not just about guarantees that you're going to get married. This is just stuff I've learned on gag

Anonymous · Answer

Seducing a random or someone you are already in a relationship with? It’s two different cases. If it’s stranger, anything works if you are hot. If you aren’t hot, be fit at least. You can have a butter face but if you got a sexy body you won’t have problems. If you are trying to seduce your partner, why? They already love u unless you want something from them? Then be sexy for them. Let them screw your ass or ride them hard and suck them off. Then tell them you’ll do it all the time if you get something in return. I like straight forward women. Tell u what u want.

litty · Answer

If it's seducing, then there isn't anything subtle about it because ambiguity separates flirting from seduction. If there is none, then it becomes clear that you want to get it on.

With that said, you can undo a button on their shirt and look at their chest, you can lower a strap off your shoulder, you can flash your panties or lack of with a leg switch, and you can feel their muscles without asking.

JPresidente · Answer

Long starring followed by some hair flips. Anytime you can show legs, neck, midriff, that helps. Cleavage is good but don't go too far with it.

Once you get in close, breathe in his ears, dancing in front of him, grinding on him, light kisses followed by full on passionate kisses. Jump on him and let him carry you or if size/weight is a problem, kiss against wall, then around face away and you know the rest.

AllGoodNamesRGone · Answer

For a guy, nothing is sexier than a girl who craves seduction... u can start by giving the little guy some caring, u can hold it when its craving for love and is hot, hard, and heavy. Then try exploring him by- skating ya fingertips up and down his length, marveling at the silky softness of his skin and tracing the intriguing, yet entirely amazing contours

EarthRealm · Answer

Wear a Short short skirt with Panties that he can see when you bend over or just wear a short skirt where It’s tempting to wanna see the pussy up above like this.
Drop something And bend over to pick something up.
Stare at his Crouch that should turn him on pretty easily.

What are some ways to subtly seduce men?

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

You should not be subtle with men. We GO TO JAIL for reading cues poorly. Even the ones who don’t end up in jail are having their lives ruined and livelihoods destroyed by SJWs. So be honest and direct, always.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Men are triggered by their "hero" instinct. Ask for his help. Make him feel like he's the only one you can depend on. He in turn feels needed, valued and wanted.

Anno2 · Answer

Give him undivided attention, all your senses should be devoted to him. Wouldn't bother unless u have real feelings, protopathic touch will show your true emotions...

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I don't know, I've never had to seduce anyone, they always chase me... all I do though is just talk and be myself and that seems to get tons of guys interested in me.

dustybiker · Answer

You can do a lot with just eyes. A well designed look can end a kingdom.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Wear a low cut top and ask him "How do my boobs look in this top?" As he's looking, squish your boobs together with your arms hehe. Probably not a subtle approach but who cares lol, that would definitely work on me though.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Shoot some pool with him while you're wearing a sexy mini dress. If he misses a shot, in a very sexy voice, ask him, "Do you want ME to put it in for you?".

kellytheman · Answer

Wear something sexy that shows off what your mama gave you, change your tone of voice like maybe a little lower, tell him what you want him to do to you or him, just kinda being control or dominant with him

PJH359 · Answer

When you are saying goodbye, give him a casual hug and nibble his earlobe

Anonymous · Answer

Make sure you keep your body in great shape. You should strive to make it as sexually appealing as possible. Guys are VERY visual. It's impossible to overstate how true this is. Touch and scent are your next most important senses to stimulate.

Adronicus · Answer

Eye contact, warm smile, touch (not dirty touch, small lingering "accidental touch")..

VikingWarLord · Answer

Stay SKINNY Keep your hair long (at least mid-back) Wear pushup bra and show off your cleavage with a tight fitting shirt or dress.

Wubs3000 · Answer

Look at him, brush him, and do what the picture shows when the time is right.

Snedger____ · Answer

Rub his thighs.. chest.. seduce with your expressions.. stare at him suck a banana like a dick.. wear lingerie

MikeInHawaii · Answer

A woman once ate an ice cream cone in front of me.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Walk up and smile say hello.  Thats about it for 100% of men.

Beardedman1996 · Answer

Float subtle compliments and physical gestures, a grip of the arm when talking a pat on the back stuff like that

Harbringer26 · Answer

Before you do anything else you should establish rapport with the guy and find out if he's even interested.

misterbater · Answer

Eye contact Cleavage Touch the back portion of his hand Etc etc...

Jamie05rhs · Answer

1. Be hot. 2. Give him attention. It's really that simple.

Jouth · Answer

sit on his face  he'll never see it coming

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

For me half an inch of cleavage is sufficient to make me all set to go

TheBootyChest · Answer

Honestly, don't be subtle.

Orange85 · Answer

I just tell them I want them

sheikalana · Answer

Keep it mysterious.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Smile and don't be a complete spaz

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Subtle isn't going to work very often.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

Yes I need to know bc I suck

SenseiSeptred · Answer

Hold him and never let go

Wise4myage · Answer

Eyes can sure do the trick.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Are you just looking to get laid?

ElementoP · Answer

Exist

Ironic_Method · Answer

Feed them.

annabananna · Answer

Look at him

TallAnon · Answer

Smile

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