How would I go about asking my WORK crush out?

[Victoriawww11933]

We are indeed coworkers and it’s hard to tell if they’re just being nice or actually flirting. I personally can never believe someone could find me attractive especially someone like him because he’s seen as a pretty boy and I’ve never been seen that way. If you’ve seen my other polls you’d know I’m not the Beauty standards so Yk I’m scared. I wouldn’t want to make things weird when we could just been friends Yk

[burlen]

I'm sorry if you hardly see yourself as pretty or people have made you to feel less pretty. Start by having little chat with him by finding out about his interests or hobbies, and share yours with him.

Also, find out the sort of things he cares about and do the same to him. Ask him what he likes or dislikes about his neighbourhood, family, college, studies, etc. Also share yours with him.

Do this for about a week. The whole purpose is for him to find your company interesting.

Then after, ask him the sort of girls he is attracted to. Ask him the one quality he likes most in a girl. These questions would help you know if you have some of the qualities he has shared with you. If you do have some of the qualities, in the middle of the conversation say something along this line: "I think you are the kind of guy I like".

"I think you are the kind of guy I like" is a subtle way to say to him "I like you" without you actually saying it. His subconscious mind would probably interpret that way. Wait for any reaction or what he says after. Good luck.

[whiskeyontherocks]

I’d recommend finding a new job than asking him out.

[texas_giiirl30]

If he doesn’t have a girlfriend then yea shoot your shot

[Victoriawww11933]

He doesn’t (to my knowledge) but the probability seems really low 😭