Guys do you realize when a girl is into you during a conversation when you first meet by the way you have her full attention & eye contact?

[Anonymous]

Do you think "the look" is a real thing when a girl
is drawn to you?

[Ramrod9]

Just last weekend I was having a beer at a local watering hole an it was a pretty dead nite was going to finish my beer an head to the house when over a few minutes several groups came in , 2 of the groups were just women, there was this one little petite raven haired chick however that really stood out , an sweet Jesus it was comical as the guys started going over to her I was damn this is so funny like she was the only honey pot in town. This one guy finally got her to dance , but during this whole thing I noticed she kept looking my direction or so it seemed. I ordered another beer an wanted to see how this was going to play out. After a bit I found myself mesmerized with her , She had danced with one guy in particular several times an they appeared to be quite taken with each other. As one dance ended she went to the lady's room an her new dance partner was now sitting at their table talking to her friends, She came outta the lady's room fumbling with her hand bag , an then she's starts walking in my direction at the bar , I just figured she was getting a drink but no she came up to me an asked if I had a lite for her cigarette , as I handed her my lighter she reaches over cupping my hand with both of hers. Staring me straight in the eyes I introduced myself an she did the same an said my friend is waiting. She danced with the one guy a couple more times an I could tell he was trying to get her leave an I thought well they are off to play 🤣. But she turned him down an also another guy that threw his hat in the ring. As I took another drink from my beer I glanced over to see her fixing herself, pulling her tight ass jeans up an then pushing her boobs up , She starts towards the bar again an next thing I know she sitting on the bar stool next to me with her hand on my knee tracing the seam on my jeans with her finger just smiling away. I said my goodness your the friendly type an she laughs. I complemented her on how beautiful her eyes were , an how nice her outfit was. She asked me do you like dance? I told her I only dance with special people an her reply was she felt special talking with me. 2 dances an we were out door. As a bonus I didn't know her female friend was also included in the deal 😜

[JustADudePlayinADude]

It's usually pretty obvious, but we don't react because of the social consequences of being wrong unless we clearly like you too. From experience, being wrong ostracizes you from a group sometimes. Some women are mature and shrug it off, but not all. So we just wait for them to be blunt. So, unless I am really into you as well, I will not react. If you want it to be more obvious or clear, touch him a little (forearm, shoulder, etc.) and find a way to mention you are single (and ready to mingle lol).

[LexiXide]

Looking directly into your eyes for a long time is definitely a sign

[Lionman95]

To be totally honest I haven't understood a woman's body language in the past so I can't tell you if a woman was ever into me or not. To be further honest my understanding of a woman's body language is especially of such situations is growing very slowly.

If a woman doesn't say anything in that direction with words it's probably nothing I will get, because though I'm told I'm a good observer body language is a still a mystery to me.

[RagnarRedbeard]

I can usually tell. If they’re confident and polite, people will give you their attention and hold good eye contact anyway, so it’s not just that. It’s a certain look and way of speaking that you can just feel.

[SiberFox]

I've gotten the look quite a few times, it feels great, but can be stressful also because I don't want to hurt her when I reject her advances.

[JPresidente]

Yes. I look for body language clues. Eyes, playing with hair, smiling and cutting up.