Girls, my coworker which I have a crush on has a boyfriend but she's really flirty and told me we should go eat sometime, does she like me back?

[Anonymous]

We talked on IG then she gave me her phone # . We’re always laughing over text. She smiles a lot at me at work & sometimes brushes up against me or tries to get in same area I’m at

[SueShe]

Since she stated that she has a boyfriend, then it is fingers off. Don't even go for a coffee if you have the feeling that she is flirting.

You don't want to come across as a relation wrecker, do you? Even if she is flirting with you, you should never cross the red line which states that a person in a relationship is a no go and that you should not tempt her to become a cheater.

Just stay friendly and don't flirt with her as you are doing both a disfavor. Furthermore, one never has an affair with a coworker as this may cause a lot of problems at work.

[Asker]

She never stated or directly told me she has a boyfriend. I found out from another friend of mine. When she posts him on IG sometimes she blocks me from viewing it. What do you think?

[SueShe]

I still think that it is a bad idea to attempt to hit on her.

[Cynicaldreamer]

"...has a boyfriend..." I stopped reading right there: NO.

I don't care if she's giving you the green flag to ask her out: do not date, hit on, or flirt with someone's that is taken!!! If she likes you so much, she would leave her boyfriend and date you. Even if she is interested in you, don't be that person. I would honestly back off and don't even show any interest in her because if she really has a boyfriend (probably does) and she is flirting with you or leading you on? She's terrible. I wouldn't even want to date someone like her.

Because to me, that says she might cheat on her current boyfriend with you- which yeah, you might think is great... for YOU. But imagine if she does start to date you; you're dating a cheater. Meaning she might do the same thing with you.

[Jess_D]

She’s got a boyfriend. Hard no. If she’ll cheat with you, she’ll cheat on you. I personally also have a strict no dating coworkers policy anyway. It’s just a bad idea.

[Steamnir]

She a hoe, and ll do same to other men when you both together

[Alwayreckles93]

She's a cheater, No you are only setting yourself up too get hurt.

[Subarugirl]

Why are you flirting with a girl who is already in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Right, "co-worker", you're all so obviously underage. But then you won't be able to look at the sex questions, oh no.

[Anonymous]

I can't tell anything from this.